(a) Orgasm in wife depends on both the co-operation of the man and the woman.

(b). Remember, your mind is biggest sexual organ.

(c). Whether or not the orgasm occurs depends on the degree of control by a woman's brain.

(d). It is important for the woman to feel free.

(e). A woman who has no inhibitions about sex will have an orgasm, whereas a woman who has inhibition may fail to have orgasm. Usually this inhibitions reduce as time passes in marriage and the couple has become more relaxed.

(f). Forget about yourself and who you are.

(g). Do not link sexual activity to perfect emotional climates which are rare in real life.

(h). Sex can go on satisfactorily amidst the normal day to day pressures and stresses of work, the home, children and church without being a state of ecstatic love. The Key is to de-link.

(i). Wives possess the key of de-linking.

(j). Almost every woman have an orgasm by being sufficiently relaxed and confident in her marriage to let her husband know her needs, so that he help her reach orgasm by stimulating her. Sex without the right frame of mind and relaxation will never lead to orgasm in a woman.

(k). In fulfilling marriage, the husband must be happy and willing to stimulate his wife in the way she wishes.

(l). Ideally, no woman should be embarrassed about asking her husband to do this. But because many women are ashamed to ask they reduce thier sexual pleasure.

(m). Ask your husband to do to your body what is exciting and pleasurable.