***SUITORS NOW PREFER OUR MAIDS TO OUR
DAUGHTERS FOR MARRIAGE***
Why not? When we devoted time in training the
maids on how to cook well, how to clean the house
and on good mannerisms while leaving our own daughters untrained. We overwork the maids and
they adjust with equanimity because they need us
to survive.
The maids turn out to manage the indignation and
insolence we and our children subject them to. All
these make the maids better wives who can manage even the angriest of men.
Our precious daughters are pampered through
nursery and primary schools. They speak the
English we want and know all the cartoon slangs
by heart. We beat the maids blue black if they ever
ask our girls to help out in domestic duties. We see kitchen things as maids' things.
The girls move from boarding schools to the
university, do their NYSC, Masters and get a job. Of
course, they are ripe for marriage and you wish
that to happen soon.
From one relationship to another, the same story. The guys would parade and dump them. They are
only good in bed, outings, clubs and red carpet
functions.
The boys de-commit when they notice that the
possible wife cannot cook, arrange things and are
very domestically untrained. The rich guys can manage as they would mitigate the handicap by
hiring a domestic help but not all guys can afford
this for a start.
The upcoming and very sensitive guys who would
make good husbands, fathers and leaders would
not manage these parents' inflicted shortcomings. They would settle for well trained ones. They know
the value and the pride in hosting friends at home
to delicious delicacies prepared by a wife.
Not all your maids would remain your servants for
ever. Some of them would finally do part-time
studies and like a train, get to their God ordained destinations sooner or later.
Like a perfume, good guys perceive well trained
wife materials from afar and dump the daughters of
the bourgeois like hot iron. Long time happiness in
at stake. No explanation is given. Sometimes, the
sack message is made through a social medium. Let your daughters learn what you teach your
maids to make them compete for the few available
good men if marriage is important to them. There
are few guys who believe that marriage is for better
for worse.
Don't be deceived; love is an active verb. Yes it is. You love; you loved; and you used to love. You can
also hate who you used to love. Therefore, some
men are immune to pre-marital love blindness. In
practice, love can't cover the stench of bad early
formation of our daughters.
Right now, educated former maids are now cornering better men on offer because they are
well trained and possess the requisite or set skills
the highly perceptible and ready husband materials
need.
Dear Mothers, please take note of this. And ladies,
these are some of the things that cost you responsible men. Men knows what they need in a
woman and very few will tell you the moment they
know you lack those qualities.

what qualities lacking when the newly married will just get a maid. . .21st century education has more benefit.

seems you don't know the dark side of some maids

Most maids are barely educated. Your theory is wrong, Op.

What the op is trying to say is for parents to get their daughters trained, whether there be maid or none.

Yes our pampared doughters,lacks in many aspect of life today.

Adisa89:
Most maids are barely educated. Your theory is wrong, Op.

apart from education, what else? thats like saying being educated is all men should look out for right? well sorry to disappoint you, education is just an icing on a cake not the real thing! thank you.

jozee8:

apart from education, what else? thats like saying being educated is all men should look out for right? well sorry to disappoint you, education is just an icing on a cake not the real thing! thank you.

I'm not saying they shouldn't get married. But expecting a working graduate to condescend so low as to marrying a maid is unreasonable. Besides helping out with domestic chores, what else can be expected of a maid?

Adisa89:

I'm not saying they shouldn't get married. But expecting a working graduate to condescend so low as to marrying a maid is unreasonable. Besides helping out with domestic chores, what else can be expected of a maid?

building a home, how bout that. though you are a graduate, or professor u are still human being after all. eccl. 3vs17-20. we all are not better than the animals in the forest, you knw y? we all die.
condescend what ever that is.

jozee8:

building a home, how bout that. though you are a graduate, or professor u are still human being after all. eccl. 3vs17-20. we all are not better than the animals in the forest, you knw y? we all die.
condescend what ever that is.

The only common things we have with animals are life and death. You would sound extremely ridiculous comparing our intelligence with theirs! Man's life is basically making ends meet, family and survival. For an average earner, who is also a graduate, picking a maid as a housewife is the silliest thing to do. You would live from hand to mouth, raise kids in poverty while struggling to survive yourself.

Every man wants a home maker as wife..I just don't see how those spoilt brat fit in

Education, that shii is fuuckiing overrated

Adisa89:

The only common things we have with animals are life and death. You would sound extremely ridiculous comparing our intelligence with theirs! Man's life is basically making ends meet, family and survival. For an average earner, who is also a graduate, picking a maid as a housewife is the silliest thing to do. You would live from hand to mouth, raise kids in poverty while struggling to survive yourself.

what ever makes you happy sir.
After all happiness is local!

jozee8:

what ever makes you happy sir.
After all happiness is local!

Sure.