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6 Outdated Relationship Rules That Need To Die by EMXTAN1(m): 11:52pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
Relationship opinions are like a nose, everyone has one and
I’m about to give you mine!
I get ticked off when I see girls acting cold towards a guy
and giving him silent treatment because of a small mistake,
just because a bitter human somewhere set a rule that ‘you
should ignore his calls to teach him a lesson’. SMH
We are no longer in kindergarten my friends. Some dating
rules are so outdated and they need to die like yesterday!!!
Here are some of them:
1. A woman should not approach a man
Excuse you? Some men fail to approach ladies because
they are shy. If you are at a party and fancy someone (who
appears to be single of course) by all means approach him
and introduce yourself. Avoid looking all thirsty though. Men
like women who ooze of confidence. You could be missing
out on a tone of potential boyfriend/husband materials
following this dumb ass rule. It’s 2016! Make the first
move!
black_couple_friends
2. 90 day rule
I really don’t know what Steve Harvey was thinking when he
came up with this rule…it’s just plain nonsense. A man can
wait for 90 days to get that cookie and still dump you.
rolls-eyes
3. A man pays for everything
‘All the women who’re independent, throw ya hands up at
me…’ quoting Destiny’s Child, it’s 2016 people. You will not
die if you split bills every now and then. Learn to treat your
man too. Men too appreciate being treated every now and
then. Not just on Valentines Day and birthdays.
Photo: ElitHeant
Photo: ElitHeant
4. Never text/call first
LOL. Haven’t we all been there? Dying to text or call a guy
but playing hard to get and waiting all day for the guy to call
you instead? With age, I have learnt that the key to a healthy
relationship is communication. Pour your heart out, it’s
better to get rejected and move on to someone that
appreciates you rather than be in a position where you have
no idea what your position in the relationship is. Just call
and get it off your chest. Take initiative. If he’s not that into
you, move on to the next guy. His loss…
black-girl-phone
5. Ignore calls
That’s the best punishment we can think of? So damn
childish. Ignoring calls only show your level of immaturity.
Like I said, communication is key. Lay your cards on the
table and let your significant other know what exactly you
expect of him if you’re in disagreement. He’s not an angel
to know why you’re mad or why you’re showering him with
attitude and mood swings.
Image: Omgvoice
Image: Omgvoice
6. Love has a timeline
No. You don’t have to get married one year after the
engagement, or get married at 30 or have kids at God knows
what age. Let the love just take its beautiful course and
everything will fall into place when the time and
circumstances are right. Don’t force it. 1 Like |
Re: 6 Outdated Relationship Rules That Need To Die by Nobody: 12:06am On Jul 08, 2016 |
honestly eh i dont even know where to start from, cant read ur post! edit it and arrange ur arguments abi points separately signed [size=19pt] Sir Yanshious [/size] 2 Likes |
Re: 6 Outdated Relationship Rules That Need To Die by umehmj(m): 12:07am On Jul 08, 2016 |
nice one op. try arranging the article. it's scattered |
Re: 6 Outdated Relationship Rules That Need To Die by Chrisrare: 12:19am On Jul 08, 2016 |
Dis one naa for pple wey dey do bf and gf, i don pass dat stage. |
Re: 6 Outdated Relationship Rules That Need To Die by EMXTAN1(m): 12:25am On Jul 08, 2016 |
OK, noted, tnks |
Re: 6 Outdated Relationship Rules That Need To Die by Tosinstevens(m): 3:35am On Jul 08, 2016 |
nice one op, just try to arrange it |
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