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6 Relationship Rules Every Guy Must Follow by OlubamzNews: 10:48am On Nov 12, 2017 |
Rule #1 Don’t
“fix” her
problems
An important
relationship rule for men who want easier relationships is
to avoid the
urge to try and “fix” her problems. When the girl you’re
dating starts
venting about the people and things causing stress in her
life, don’t
just offer your solutions. Because chances are she’s not
looking for
solutions – she just wants to be heard .
So instead, just listen to what she has to say and validate
how she
feels. Simply supporting her will create a stronger
emotional
connection between you. This alone can automatically get
her to start
feeling better. You can then find out if she’s interested in
your advice
by asking “Would you like any advice on how to handle
that
situation?” If she says yes, offer your tips for solving her
problem. If
not, all she’s really looking for is that connection. So just
continue
listening and empathizing with her situation.
Rule #2 Set Boundaries
If you want a quality relationship then you’ve got to set
boundaries.
You need to draw a line and let your girl know exactly
what you will
and won’t accept from your relationship. Some guys are
hesitant to
set boundaries as they’re worried it’ll chase the girl away.
But the
fact is women are more attracted to guys who set and
enforce
boundaries. After all no girl wants a guy she can walk all
over.
Women want a strong man who has standards.
You can set boundaries both in regards to how the girl
treats you or
how the relationship is defined. You may, for example, find
that the
girl you’re dating has a habit of teasing you in a way you
don’t
appreciate. Or perhaps you think she gets a little too
friendly with
other guys when you go out. In either case, calmly let her
know
exactly what behaviors you won’t tolerate. If she continues
pushing
those boundaries you’ll have to find a way to enforce them.
That may
mean you need to take time (even if it’s just a night) away
from her –
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