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Why Men Should Be Forgiven For Cheating by Nobody: 7:14am On Jul 10, 2016
To be honest, I don’t see even one way that makes it more acceptable for a woman to be a cheater than a man. I know that it is considered the same in our society when a man cheats on a woman than when a woman cheats on a man, but it’s ridiculous. They aren’t even close to the same thing because they affect the relationship very differently. Imagine the heartbreak and disrespect a man would feel after spending decades raising a child only to give blood and learn that he has been raising and putting all his emotions and resources into another man’s flesh and blood. Women (because they are the ones who get pregnant) never have to worry about this.

If you are a guy and care about your girlfriend, but end up messing up and sleeping with another girl, you aren’t a bad person. You messed up, but it should not be treated nearly as seriously as her cheating on you. The relationship shouldn’t end because of this and, if she does end it because of this, it’s because she doesn’t understand or doesn’t have strong enough feelings for you.

If a guy cheats it doesn’t mean he doesn’t love his girlfriend, it means he has nearly uncontrollable urges all the time and he was given an opportunity for sex that he wasn’t able to turn down. Girlfriends breaking up with their boyfriends for this is just not logical.

Happy sundae
Re: Why Men Should Be Forgiven For Cheating by princeakins(m): 7:22am On Jul 10, 2016
Go to church , confess ur sins n ask for forgiveness grin
Re: Why Men Should Be Forgiven For Cheating by vizkiz: 7:28am On Jul 10, 2016
A guy that furcks around is less of a man. #Teamonepussy grin

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Re: Why Men Should Be Forgiven For Cheating by Nobody: 7:32am On Jul 10, 2016
vizkiz:
A guy that furcks around is less of a man. #Teamonepussy grin


when konji holds your legs deeek and brain.

and that onepussy disappoints you.

you will know having them plenty is better than wasting your hard worked spperm.
Re: Why Men Should Be Forgiven For Cheating by vizkiz: 7:34am On Jul 10, 2016
olihilistic:


when konji holds your legs deeek and brain.

and that onepussy disappoints you.

you will know having them plenty is better than wasting your hard worked spperm.

That is why you have for find that one special always available pussay grin
Re: Why Men Should Be Forgiven For Cheating by Vendoor(f): 7:35am On Jul 10, 2016
Indeed, men and infidelity are like:

Re: Why Men Should Be Forgiven For Cheating by Nobody: 7:36am On Jul 10, 2016
vizkiz:


That is why you have for find that one special always available pussay grin


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Re: Why Men Should Be Forgiven For Cheating by Vikky014(f): 7:39am On Jul 10, 2016
lagosflexcamp:
To be honest, I don’t see even one way that makes it more acceptable for a woman to be a cheater than a man. I know that it is considered the same in our society when a man cheats on a woman than when a woman cheats on a man, but it’s ridiculous. They aren’t even close to the same thing because they affect the relationship very differently. Imagine the heartbreak and disrespect a man would feel after spending decades raising a child only to give blood and learn that he has been raising and putting all his emotions and resources into another man’s flesh and blood. Women (because they are the ones who get pregnant) never have to worry about this.

If you are a guy and care about your girlfriend, but end up messing up and sleeping with another girl, you aren’t a bad person. You messed up, but it should not be treated nearly as seriously as her cheating on you. The relationship shouldn’t end because of this and, if she does end it because of this, it’s because she doesn’t understand or doesn’t have strong enough feelings for you.

If a guy cheats it doesn’t mean he doesn’t love his girlfriend, it means he has nearly uncontrollable urges all the time and he was given an opportunity for sex that he wasn’t able to turn down. Girlfriends breaking up with their boyfriends for this is just not logical.

Happy sundae
in ur small mind those girls u cheat with dnt love their own partner
Re: Why Men Should Be Forgiven For Cheating by halfricanadian(f): 8:03am On Jul 10, 2016
Bull sh*t cheat on me i forgiv u bt do it d third time wo till eternity nothing can bring us togeda
Re: Why Men Should Be Forgiven For Cheating by Nobody: 8:05am On Jul 10, 2016
On behalf of all men, I denounce this guy.

We most certainly do not want to be condoned for cheating.
Re: Why Men Should Be Forgiven For Cheating by jonaifame22(m): 8:07am On Jul 10, 2016
Konji should be blamed and not the guy!
Re: Why Men Should Be Forgiven For Cheating by Nobody: 8:09am On Jul 10, 2016
Vikky014:
in ur small mind those girls u cheat with dnt love their own partner
sorry Lady, guys find it very hard to have a monogamous relationship than it is for you women. Me cheating on my gf doesn't necessarily mean I don't love her. Guys crave variety. We have this unending amount of sperm cells and our biology is telling us not to let them go to waste. Of course girls don't enjoy this privilege. How many eggs does a woman produce in a month? Just one chincini egg. And every girl craves for that particular partner that will fertilized her egg, same can't be said of a guy who produce millions of sperm cells everyday. I believe if women produce millions of eggs in a day as their men counterparts do, only God knows the kind of cheats you women will be. The thing is, even evolutionary science support a man to have more than one sex partner. Nature support us too. tongue
Re: Why Men Should Be Forgiven For Cheating by halfricanadian(f): 8:25am On Jul 10, 2016
lagosflexcamp:
sorry Lady, guys find it very hard to have a monogamous relationship than it is for you women. Me cheating on my gf doesn't necessarily mean I don't love her. Guys crave variety. We have this unending amount of sperm cells and our biology is telling us not to let them go to waste. Of course girls don't enjoy this privilege. How many eggs does a woman produce in a month? Just one chincini egg. And every girl craves for that particular partner that will fertilized her egg, same can't be said of a guy who produce millions of sperm cells everyday. I believe if women produce millions of eggs in a day as their men counterparts do, only God knows the kind of cheats you women will be. The thing is, even evolutionary science support a man to have more than one sex partner. Nature support us too. tongue


IF THIS IS YOUR STUPPID REASONS AND IDEALOGY

THOSE GUYS THAT NOW CHEAT?

WHO DO DEY NOW SLEEP WITH?
Re: Why Men Should Be Forgiven For Cheating by nerodenero: 8:34am On Jul 10, 2016
Instead of cheating, why not quit the relationship? It pays to do what you know you'd accept when at the receiving end. There's no justification to cheat under any circumstances.
Re: Why Men Should Be Forgiven For Cheating by Julietcutie(f): 8:48am On Jul 10, 2016
angry this is nonsense... not all guys/men have good excuse for cheating some are just unfaithful assholes
Re: Why Men Should Be Forgiven For Cheating by JustHere2Observ(f): 9:01am On Jul 10, 2016
I read to the end hoping to find the sense in this non sense but alas it eludes me. Smh. What a perverted nature, when the holy book condemns adultery, someone is justifying it on a supposed holy day. If a man wants to be polygamous, fine, but do it with respect and dignity not sneaking around and saying sorry afterwards.
Re: Why Men Should Be Forgiven For Cheating by halfricanadian(f): 9:07am On Jul 10, 2016
JustHere2Observ:
I read to the end hoping to find the sense in this non sense but alas it eludes me. Smh. What a perverted nature, when the holy book condemns adultery, someone is justifying it on a supposed holy day. If a man wants to be polygamous, fine, but do it with respect and dignity not sneaking around and saying sorry afterwards.

Gbam do it with *i no send nobody attitude*

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