It's over, isn't it?
He betrayed you in the worst way possible by having an
affair. While cheating on you may make you feel like there is
no way that he loves you, it's not always that clean cut.
Men cheat for many reasons and most of the time it's not
because they don't love their partners. When you hear him
say, "Please don't leave me ... I really do love you," take into
account some of the signs that he is telling the truth.
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1. He stops the affair For real.
Knowing that you are about to leave him scares him so
much that he stops the affair immediately. He doesn't want
to lose you because you really are the one he loves.
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2. He promises to do anything for you.

It can be difficult for men to lay everything down on the line
to win back your heart. If he truly breaks down and tells you
he will do absolutely anything to have you back, you may
have someone who truly does love you.
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3. He seeks professional help.
He wants to know why he had the affair and hurt the one
person he loves most. To do this, he seeks counseling to
help uncover the mystery, and show you that he is serious;
he didn't cheat because he doesn't love you.
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4. He admits his mistakes to others.
Men don’t want to come clean about their mistakes. If he
tells everyone how much he messed up, you know he
regrets what he did.
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5. He follows through with promises.
If you’ve told him he must do a list of things to show you he
truly loves you, and he does everything you ask, you know
that he is committed to you ... and ONLY you.


It is hard to believe he didn’t cheat on you to hurt you,
especially because YOU are so hurt. Some men truly don’t
think about their significant others when they have an affair.
It may not make any sense to you, and it may make you
want to run far away from him so you never hurt again, but
this is something to consider. If he truly didn't want to be
with you, he wouldn't do everything above.

WE KNOW

It hurts so much when someone you love cheats on you, op forget all this stories joor, not saying there isn't some hard truth in what you wrote but......

Men are polygamous in nature. You can't cheat nature Abeg.

Women are polygamous in nature too. I don't need to show any evidence because you see, hear and experience the evidence everyday

fernandoc:
Men are polygamous in nature. You can't cheat nature Abeg.

Will he forgive too if i go sleep around nd tell him i still love him?

Give wat u can take nd take wat u can give

y shud I cheat on u?

halfricanadian:
Will he forgive too if i go sleep around nd tell him i still love him?

Give wat u can take nd take wat u can give

shyling:
y shud I cheat on u?

dunno

I don't need to, I won't.

halfricanadian:


dunno

shyling:
I don't need to, I won't.

Yea.... men are polygamous in nature....

It's a man's world.....

But if he Loves you n respects u, he will make sure he doesn't get caught...

Sad to say but that's the truth

theEYe21:
Women are polygamous in nature too. I don't need to show any evidence because you see, hear and experience the evidence everyday

You are wrong my dear. Ever wondered why our fore father's with their harem and concubines managed to live longer than we do today. Women knew their place and the men weren't afraid to be 'men'. Today civilization and religion has changed a lot. That's why divorce rates will keep skyrocketing . That's the price for civilization.

Uhmmm

So you don't want Nigeria to move forward and be backward, you don't want Nigeria to be civilized. If you want to be a caveman so bad why not go and live in the jungle. Rubbish!

fernandoc:

You are wrong my dear. Ever wondered why our fore father's with their harem and concubines managed to live longer than we do today. Women knew their place and the men weren't afraid to be 'men'. Today civilization and religion has changed a lot. That's why divorce rates will keep skyrocketing . That's the price for civilization.

theEYe21:
So you don't want Nigeria to move forward and be backward, you don't want Nigeria to be civilized. If you want to be a caveman so bad why not go and live in the jungle. Rubbish!

Coconut head.

theEYe21:
Women are polygamous in nature too. I don't need to show any evidence because you see, hear and experience the evidence everyday

True, i read stories about cheating wives, girlfriends, it means we are polygamous too nd
men shd bear with us.

At op,u don't have any reason whatsoever to justify sin
and please stop deceiving urself.A guy that wants to control himself and respect the woman he is married to will do that irrespective of the temptations that comes ur way .
I don't see the moral lesson u are trying to pass here

Op, take one beer for my head.

Seriously though, cheating is really both ways. What I can't say is if a girl will continue to love a guy after cheating on him. This is because I've seen/heard of more girls attaching emotion to cheating.

No justifiable reason whatsoever for cheating...flirting might just be understandable sometimes.

Like my own.

fernandoc:

Coconut head.

HoneyB10:
It hurts so much when someone you love cheats on you, op forget all this stories joor, not saying there isn't some hard truth in what you wrote but......

Truth!