.

And the next would be if she cant produce a male child, she would have to leave.

Left to me, i believe its the decision of the man and the lady. Their decision to make. But if i am close to any lady who is in a situation like this, my advice to her would be to marry him first...or quit because the family she would be marrying into has sent a very bad signal, and things may get worse in future.

Not advisable, any man who insist on pregnancy before marriage should be dumped. What if he starts acting up and the marriage didn't hold after impregnating her?

However, it's advisable and indeed necessary to ensure a woman is fertile by undergoing a fertility test before any serious commitment. We live in a time were some babes may have tampered with their fecundity via a prolong use of drugs, abortions or have contracted STDs like chlamydia which may hamper their reproductive systems. I'd better be safe than sorry than marry someone who's infertile.

Women too, should ensure their men undergo same test to be certain of his fertility.

Hnmm

Some women accept such a condition but it's a stupid request to make of anyone.What if after marriage she loses the pregnancy?What happens if after she gives birth,she can't get pregnant again?
What if she has all female children and there is a demand for a male child?

The boyfriend is not the only man that she can marry.Make she waka.Family decision for that matter.

lasisi69:
Its becoming a norm according to stories I hear some few men do.. But just last week, one of my neighbour's daughter came back sad and I was able to make her open up on what's wrong... She told me her boyfriend's family said that if he must marry her, that she should get pregnant... So, my people, how's this good?

nobody wants to marry a barren woman.

The answer should be NO.. It ain't necessary.

Also, bear in mind; Should a girl have sex in a relationship outside marriage? Same answer is NO.

Thanks!

Aren't we suppose to say NO to sex before marriage? So Where does the pregnancy before marriage comes from

Bottom line : It is wrong. But What young ladies do these days ehn... I don't totally blame those that insist.


Ladies pls. Use Your body well!

c all of wonna dey claim holi holi..if the two pple in question are fiancé and fiancée officailly, den dey can fvck away dia life for all i care..

getting pregnant b4 marriage is not a big deal nau..

Omotayor123:
Aren't we suppose to say NO to sex before marriage? So Where does the pregnancy before marriage comes from

Bottom line : It is wrong. But What young ladies do these days ehn... I don't totally blame those that insist.


Ladies pls. Use Your body well!

But you are not a virgin na

I don't mind

Pregnancy before marriage is a No No for me. I'd rather leave that relationship

Wolexdey:
The answer should be NO.. It ain't necessary.

Also, bear in mind; Should a girl have sex in a relationship outside marriage? Same answer is NO.

Thanks!

You nailed it.

That is a very wrong and twisted condition to give anyone before marriage. Infertility is 30% male, 30% female and 40% unknown. So the guy might the one with the problem.
Marriage is way beyond procreation.

saintikechi:


nobody wants to marry a barren woman.

And nobody wants a man with empty testicles.

JustHere2Observ:


And nobody wants a man with empty testicles

lmao..harsh word..*just here to observ*

greatwhite:

You nailed it.

The ALMIGHTY be Praise.
There is a saying: What you are sensitive to is what you will manifest.
Thanks Friend!

It's a bad idea

Wolexdey:



The ALMIGHTY be Praise.

There is a saying: What you are sensitive to is what you will manifest.

Thanks Friend!

You are welcome bro

tosyne2much:
Any man who insists on impregnating a lady before marrying her is not worth being a husband... I can't even give my daughter a hand in marriage to such a man

well said...