The effects of anger cannot be exaggerated. Your temper is like a fire, it gets very destructive when it gets out of control. Loved ones have been hurt, innocent ones have been on the receiving end of this terrible and horrible foe called “anger.” At one point in our lives we have been guilty of wrongly expressing ourselves at the advent of an argument or debate. Most employees have been fired as a result of an uncontrolled temper, families have been dissolved because of the incessant hurts they go through as a result of anger.
One of the most common expression used to describe the situation is “fly off the handle.” This phrase refers to the head of the hammer coming loose from its handle as the carpenter attempts to use it. Three things happen as a result;

First, the hammer becomes useless – it’s no longer good for work. In like manner, when a person losses his temper, he often loses his or her effectiveness. Anything he or she says may not be taken serious and the person is likely to be unproductive.

Second, the hammer head – twirling out of control is likely to cause damage on anything it hits. The person who loses his or her temper causes damage even if he or she doesn’t realize it, perhaps physically to people or object on his or her way and also causes emotional pains to the victims.
Third, the repair of both the hammer and the resulting damage takes time. The individual who loses his temper may recover quickly, but the victim of a hot temper rarely recovers immediately.

Enough of broken homes, enough of heartbreaks, enough of damages caused by anger! Keep your temper under check not just today but always. Issues can be dissolved amicably, without hurt. Marriages can be saved when spouses apply wisdom in matters concerning them. Someone said and I quote, “Knowledge is knowing what to say, wisdom is knowing whether to say it or not.”

Anger can be summarized as;
A
Negative
Gesture
Expressed
Regrettably.