eyinjuege:
Fastpace, it may be a good idea if you go to your place of worship and solicit for help there. At least they know you and your family there, and can verify your claims.

It doesn't really speak well of you to beg from strangers.

There are manual jobs that can also be done by you to make ends meet. You can offer to go and clean and help people in their homes so you can get paid.

There is dignity in labor and don't feel any job is beneath you provided you're not stealing or committing fraud.

Your husband too needs to buckle up and try provide for his family even if it means doing manual jobs too.

Then the idea of you collecting a man friend's account no to post online doesn't also speak well of you. Does your husband know about this your male friend whom you're collecting his acct no upandan?

My husband will hang me if ever he finds out,bn wondering what to tell him abt the help.