The child(ren) in question does not have it smooth especially from the man,as he does not see the child(ren) as his own,and this is sometimes resisted by the woman which often lead to break ups.

No!

She should take them back to the sperm that formed them in the first place,or forget about the marriage altogether.

If she can take proper care of them

Kemimarch16:
If she can take proper care of them

Is it not the responsibility of the husband to take of her and the step child(ren)

coputa:
Is it not the responsibility of the husband to take of her and the step child(ren)

It is the responsibility of a mother to take care of her children where the father's not in the picture and the stepfather does not want to. I also feel it is an irresponsible and overly desperate mother that would marry a man who does not want to accept her children from a previous marriage.

Depends though

U people just decide to be intentionally stupid
What if her husband is late !

And they say black lives matter

U no follow o

nkwuocha1:
No!

She should take them back to the sperm that formed them in the first place,or forget about the marriage altogether.

chaotik:
U people just decide to be intentionally stupid
What if her husband is late !

And they say black lives matter

U no follow o

You are very silly and stupid!
What if she no see any man to marry her in the first place,won't she take care of her kids?Fool!

coputa:
Is it not the responsibility of the husband to take of her and the step child(ren)

No!It's not the responsibility!
Let her people and the husband or baby father's family take care of their problems.Its not mandatory for the present husband to do that.

I can see u r intellectually inadequate

Didn't the man know she has kids before going into a relationship ... He just wan dey nack and get cook plus dry cleaner for house abi

U r hopelessly useless

nkwuocha1:


You are very silly and stupid!
What if she no see any man to marry her in the first place,won't she take care of her kids?Fool!

thesicilian:

It is the responsibility of a mother to take care of her children where the father's not in the picture and the stepfather does not want to. I also feel it is an irresponsible and overly desperate mother that would marry a man who does not want to accept her children from a previous marriage.

Most men pretend to be responsible at the onset,because most women test the dept of the water before jumping into it,jealousy sometimes set in,especially when the step child is doing better than his own.

A man who is more likely to marry a woman with children from a previous marriage is one who also have child(ren) from a previous relationship and takes chances with the blended family setup but there is need for a clear understanding regarding financial responsibility of the children where their biological father and his family are still around.

The children's place is with their mother, which is why if no man wants to marry her with her kids, she should quietly stay on her own and raise them. They didn't ask to be born so now that they have been born, you are responsible for them until they can be independent.

Well Mariangeles once said that children belong to a man and she got plenty support, so NO, she should leave the children with their biological father

Mariangeles:
It is not a woman's duty to bear children for the man and still provide for them.

chaotik:
I can see u r intellectually inadequate

Didn't the man know she has kids before going into a relationship ... He just wan dey nack and get cook plus dry cleaner for house abi

U r hopelessly useless

You're obviously a refined Bunkum!
So many father's are finding it hard to take care of their own biological kids these days,then a woman with extra baggage of rejected kids wants to force her bastards on a man.

The woman and YOU are stupid!She should take her bastards back to the lineage where she birth them.

You miserable first class son of a BITCH!

The man's choice.... if he's cool with it, I see no reason why she shouldn't..

I can clearly see u r a mannerless clueless being who can't conceive a simple idea ... well it is obvious the kind of home training u have and a miserable broken home u come from

Am not tribalistic but I can surely tell what part of this great nation u come from and u keep disgracing ur generation u waste of sperm and time ...

Again .... If the man no wan dey responsible. ... leave women alone .... They r not slaves or toys . The man has baggage but e get mouth toast and wan nack .... I know ur type .... hopeless and jobless Nigerian toddler

nkwuocha1:



You're obviously a refined Bunkum!
So many father's are finding it hard to take care of their own biological kids these days,then a woman with extra baggage of rejected kids wants to force her bastards on a man.

The woman and YOU are stupid!She should take her bastards back to the lineage where she birth them.

You miserable first class son of a BITCH!

Romangalactic:
Well Mariangeles once said that children belong to a man and she got plenty support, so NO, she should leave the children with their biological father

Well said.

Romangalactic:
Well once said that children belong to a man and she got plenty support, so NO, she should leave the children with their biological father

Lol. You are right. This includes the one she fathered outside while being engaged.

nkwuocha1:



You're obviously a refined Bunkum!
So many father's are finding it hard to take care of their own biological kids these days,then a woman with extra baggage of rejected kids wants to force her bastards on a man.

Calm down. I get your anger. Imagine the woman in this thread trying to impose a child on a 35yrs old man. Women should stop this, it destroys men. https://www.nairaland.com/5670899/sterile-father

[[s]quote author=chaotik post=90795000]I can clearly see u r a mannerless clueless being who can't have conceive a simple idea ... well it is obvious the kind of home training u have and a miserable broken home u come from

Am not tribalistic but I can surely tell what part of this great nation u come from and u keep disgracing ur generation u waste of sperm and time ...
[Qquote author=nkwuocha1 post=90794687][/s]


You're obviously a refined Bunkum!
So many father's are finding it hard to take care of their own biological kids these days,then a woman with extra baggage of rejected kids wants to force her bastards on a man.

The woman and YOU are stupid!She should take her bastards back to the lineage where she birth them.

You miserable first class son of a BITCH![/quote]


Your head don finally come down,MKPI(HE GOAT).Thought I am one of those ill hearted nairalanders.

Dimwit,you forgot you threw the first punch by insulting me....You must be a hard fan of Inberiberism.

You and your father are both waste of precious sperm, again the sanity in your lineage should be questioned.
Bad upbringing is exactly those who support abomination such as these,moving different kids to different fathers!Maybe you were raised by a man who obviously ignored a worthless biological father.

Now will you get out of my mention,you rabid slumDog!

Mariangeles:


Well said.

Thank you dear, single mothers really ought to keep their children away from a new marriage. Leave them with the biological father or with his family

Romangalactic:

Thank you dear, single mothers really ought to keep their children away from a new marriage. Leave them with the biological father or with his family

And keep away children gotten from adultery too. Technically you were newly married na.

pocohantas:


Lol. You are right. This includes the one she fathered outside while being engaged.



Calm down. I get your anger. Imagine the woman in this thread trying to impose a child on a 35yrs old man. Women should stop this, it destroys men. https://www.nairaland.com/5670899/sterile-father

That idiot insulted me first.
I can't imagine my sister going into a marriage along with kids from previous marriage,For what?!?Where is the family of the man who birthed them?If they don't want to take up the responsibility,no problem!But to impose those kids on an innocent man is bullshit. In my tradition of those kids are born out if wedlock,she is going NOWHERE with those kids(child).

Rant all u wish ... It can't change who u r .... just a waste making noise on a faceless forum .... u r obviously not in any form of relationship not even with ur own mother .... u have no iota of idea what it takes to raise a child on ur own ... be it as a single father or mother .... raise a dog to get a glimpse or better still get a pig like urself

nkwuocha1:
[[s]quote author=chaotik post=90795000]I can clearly see u r a mannerless clueless being who can't have conceive a simple idea ... well it is obvious the kind of home training u have and a miserable broken home u come from

Am not tribalistic but I can surely tell what part of this great nation u come from and u keep disgracing ur generation u waste of sperm and time ...
[Qquote author=nkwuocha1 post=90794687][/s]


You're obviously a refined Bunkum!
So many father's are finding it hard to take care of their own biological kids these days,then a woman with extra baggage of rejected kids wants to force her bastards on a man.

The woman and YOU are stupid!She should take her bastards back to the lineage where she birth them.

You miserable first class son of a BITCH!


Your head don finally come down,MKPI(HE GOAT).Thought I am one of those ill hearted nairalanders.

Dimwit,you forgot you threw the first punch by insulting me....You must be a hard fan of Inberiberism.

You and your father are both waste of precious sperm, again the sanity in your lineage should be questioned.
Bad upbringing is exactly those who support abomination such as these,moving different kids to different fathers!Maybe you were raised by a man who obviously ignored a worthless biological father.

Now will you get out of my mention,you rabid slumDog!

nkwuocha1:


That idiot insulted me first.
I can't imagine my sister going into a marriage along with kids from previous marriage,For what?!?Where is the family of the man who birthed them?If they don't want to take up the responsibility,no problem!But to impose those kids on an innocent man is bullshit. In my tradition of those kids are born out of wedlock,she is going NOWHERE with those kids(child).

Sorry about that. You have a point, but I believe minors should be left with their mothers, all things being equal. We have seen so many cases where men dragged these kids, only to go dump them with their mothers in the village or an aunty.

God bless you

pocohantas:


Sorry about that. You have a point, but I believe minors should be left with their mothers, all things being equal. We have seen so many cases where men dragged these kids, only to go dump them with their mothers in the village or an aunty.

chaotik:
Rant all u wish ... It can't change who u r .... just a waste making noise on a faceless forum .... u r obviously not in any form of relationship not even with ur own mother .... u have no iota of idea what it takes to raise a child on ur own ... be it as a single father or mother .... raise a dog to get a glimpse or better still get a pig like urself

Your bad experiences as a bastard is seriously affecting you BADLY. Infact, I may yet be mild in insulting you as I am beginning to feel you had a terrible upbringing. You are not normal,trust me. I find what you're supporting disgusting to say the least.

I know what it means to raise a child on my own and stop shooting your damn leg!So you know say e no easy but you want make another man carry another problem for him head?Na chronic craze dey worry you!You seriously need a brutal punch on your left eye guy!

Gellyfish!

nkwuocha1:

That idiot insulted me first.
I can't imagine my sister going into a marriage along with kids from previous marriage,For what?!? Where is the family of the man who birthed them?If they don't want to take up the responsibility,no problem!But to impose those kids on an innocent man is bullshit. In my tradition of those kids are born out if wedlock,she is going NOWHERE with those kids(child).

I finally understand what Mariangeles meant when she said children belong to their fathers. They really should be left with him or his family

pocohantas:


Sorry about that. You have a point, but I believe minors should be left with their mothers, all things being equal. We have seen so many cases where men dragged these kids, only to go dump them with their mothers in the village or an aunty.

My problems with this argument is not that they went with their mother.No! It's the fact that they want the new husband to take up all the financial responsibilities to that effect.She may go with the kids,But it's more of her responsibility and that of the kids paternal side as well as her own side to help in raising the kids.One can't impose financial responsibilities on a man that didn't birth your kids, for what?!?

Romangalactic:

I finally understand what meant when she said children belong to their fathers. They really should be left with him or his family

We should first be sure the father is the father, because the kind of stories I read these days.
https://www.nairaland.com/5670899/sterile-father

Romangalactic:

I finally understand what Mariangeles meant when she said children belong to their fathers. They really should be left with him or his family

Apparently, it's my turn today...