Belafonte:


That's the spirit mahn. Personally, I have a three year plan to make as much mullah as possible so I can travel the world and meet people from other countries and broaden my worldview even further.

Women should strive to please men and not the other ways around. Any woman who isn't crazy about me is only good for sexual release and nothing more. If you can do better than me, good luck on your pursuit.

I really don't value female opinion much anymore. They've proven over time to be as myopic as hell.

Jupxter:


Lol, we have more in common than i thought. I'm on the same conquest. I have a 2 year plan make as much money, and see the world. Dey will be okay... I aint settling for anything that's not crazy about me if i get to make a choice soon. But even then, i aint releasing my heart to any woman anymore, even a wife

tayo60:
He should get himself a lady dt will do dt for him now. If na to marry her, let him marry her to replace madam.

Evacroft:
That is what happens when u dont hit the right spot.

Ishilove:

Like a plastic puzzay/inflatable doll kinda toy? Do we even have those in Nigeria?

I doubt the man will go for that option. The warmth of living flesh cannot be compared to cold, artificial rubber

thorpido:
I had a client today at work who came for some treatment.One thing led to the other and I asked him about his sexual life.He said, well that aspect has issues.I asked him how and he said his wife no longer sleeps with him.
One day the wife said she was no longer having sex,that she is retired.She says she's a grandmother now and sees no reason to still,'raise her legs up'.He told me it was a serious issue that he reported to the church elders and she was summoned.Right in their midst,she still insisted she was no longer interested and he was free to find a way to take care of himself.

So guys(well men don't retire,i would have asked the ladies),what happens if someday,your wife says she's done with sex?

*by the way the couple are in their early 50s.

PIPnator10:


How about respecting peoples decision? Wife says she is retired!
Man, your options are divorce or live with it but wait oh, she tells you to find other means to satisfy yourself and you are still asking questions!
You know what that means? Many men will die to be given that opportunity. Take it and stop whining!

thorpido:
There are no people in a couple.
When two people get married,they sign off their bodies for each other and should only withhold it in cases of sicknesses or fasting.You can't just say you will not sleep with you partner again.

When she said find a means to satisfy yourself,she probably said it out of frustration.Will she be happy if he impregnates another woman and comes home with a second wife?

chii8:
I saw this thread for the first time but it got me thinking, my first child is 9+,but my mum is on IUCD(the day,she told me this, I think it slipped
from her mouth)which means she and my Papa is still sexually active, l have never reasoned this before, no wonder they(my parent) do reject any form of live-in House help, chaiiii.....


Ife n'eme...

keepingmum:
whilst the "men" on this forum are advising and advocating for 2nd wife or sidepiece runs; i hope when the case is reversed and a woman in her 40's & 50's comments that her husband has gone limp/cant keep and erection/has zero libido, you will all rally round to offer her your d$cks for free or atleast give her advise on starting meaningful relationships with men (older/younger)

As for the other male species commenting, be reminded that when you encourage ANY man to step out on his marriage, the person he could choose to cheat with might just your babe/boo/wife/sister/cousin/crush