Don’t get me wrong. Am not a supporter of rape, forceful sex or non consensual sex. Infact I abhor these things and support whatever punishment the law deems fit for rapists.
So before you crucify me, I have never raped and would never rape anyone.
Even our police force according to Wikipedia is guilty of rape and sexual offences
Statistics in Nigeria shows that 1 in every 20 women have been raped or undergone sexual harassment.
Reporting sexual offense in Nigeria is hard because of stigmatization…. So many rape cases go unreported.

Back to our post title “when is rape not the rapists fault?” this may sound like “he’s in support of rape” but I’m not. I posted something this morning, showing some of the indecent ways our Ladies dress and if you followed that post you would agree with me that some of those pictures are even decent compared to what we are used to.
The Nigeria we live in now is a Nigeria where you would see a mother encouraging her daughter to dress skimpy.
I remember when I moved into the house am living in now, there is a woman who has a shop opposite my house, I would always go to her place to buy from her. She had a little daughter at that time, I would always play with the young girl whenever I came. Fast forward to now, that girl now is a “big girl” wearing all the spaghetti and short skirts. How she grew up so fast. I can’t explain. The role of her mother, which is supposed to be cautioning her daughter is lost… The mother obviously has refused to play her role as mother.

Again, where I live in (ojo community) is full of Young guys who are jobless, and don’t intend to get any job. Many are graduates of secondary schools and aren’t in school yet. Now imagine a scenario where Temitope who wears a very short skirt and revealing top, walks past kabiru who is jobless. She walks past him all day In her hot mini skirt…. Shaking her backside as she does that. Probably unaware that kabiru is watching her.
Kabiru tries to control himself, but the porn he has been watching due to idleness for the past few days isn’t helping. Later that night, Ngozi catwalks past kabiru again in her hot bumshorts her young, fresh body glittering under the moonlight. Kabiru tries to control the urge, but her bumshorts leaves little to his randy imagination. So the devil says “take her, don’t you want a piece of that?” kabiru looks around the quiet neighborhood…. It’s 10pm, what is a young lady doing out by that time…. Kabiru wonders as he tip toes behind ngozi.
You can draw a conclusion on what happened.

The story I painted there is very true and it’s even an extreme case where kabiru-is a bad boy. Even I, who is a good boy is no exemption. Walk or drive through Lagos and see what am telling you about. Except you are extremely disciplined or divinely empowered it’s difficult not falling to the charms of this “karashika’s”.
I would always tell ladies who dress skimpy “after now you’d say they raped you, or a boy forcefully groped you”.
If you are properly or decently dressed,those kind of guys wouldn’t even look your way. Remember that like-poles Attract. Some kind of dressing attracts respect from the opposite sex. There is a way a lady would dress and all the guys would feel for her is nothing but respect and admiration.

So in the case of Kabiru. Whose fault is it? Let’s read your thoughts?

http://truenaijayarn.com/readwhen-rape-is-not-the-rapists-fault/

Source:Www.truenaijayarn.com

Hmmmm
Lalasticala, mynd44

Normally I'd type with my trademark maroon font, but this article and it's title is too terrible. I type with fury.

Now that I've your attention;

Are you saying that men are just animals with no measure of self control and discipline that would jump on any lady as long as she is scantily clothed?

Is that what you are telling our teenagers roaming the romance section now? — That it is okay to rape women who don’t measure up to our ideal way of dressing?

This article is a disgrace. A shame.

Hmmm.....

my dear, google all the debates about rape and you will come across arguements decimating this point of yours you brought forward. I mean, you said it yourself: "if the guy is a bad boy..." so the problem here is not the clothes she is wearing but that the guy is a bad boy! All bad boys should be responsible for their crimes pure and simple!

also if you like bible stories, then the story of Jacob's daughter would be familiar to you. The point is: she was a jew and to know how jewish women dress, take a look at a statue of Mary the mother of Jesus. You find these statues in the catholic church. Jacob's daughter dresses like that yet she was raped!

If you like Game of Thrones, how did Sansa dress? Wasn't she raped by Ramsey? And wasn't Ramsey always in the habit of threatening that he would let his dogs and men "take turns to rape..." his victims?

Where Ramsey saw a well clothed Sansa and still decide to rip her clothes apart to rape her, the Imp, Tyrion Lanister, saw an almost nakked Sansa and even though he was moved by what he saw, he decided not to join her in bed instead, he decided to "begin his watch" on a chair some distance away from Sansa's bed.

There goes your answer!

This is like saying because an automobile shop puts expensive cars on display, its an invitation to jobless people to steal them.

There is no excuse for rape. Rape is Rape. Indecent dressing is not an excuse doe rape

If only our law contains this type of punishment below for rapist. Let me see that idi@t who would blame the devil for his animalistic action.

Your question who is faulty ?
My answer kabiru.
Most he rape her? So someone can't live a free life again?

Rape is always (emphasis on always the fault of the rapist). There is no situation where it should be rationalized, excused, justified. This kind of thinking is the reason why women have been oppressed and marginalized for centuries. And it goes beyond rape, too. She's used as a punching bag, OP will appear and say maybe her mouth is too sharp. Her husband cheats, they'll say maybe she doesn't give him enough attention.

It's 2016. Enough of the victim blaming. Let every person be held accountable/responsible for their action.

Lolz...very funny..

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Really? you can't control yourself because of how she's dressed? That's a lie... if you see an army officer's wife unclad beside her husband in the barrack, you'l tell me you can't control yourself na. Silly person. You're saying that if women cover up they won't get raped?!! You really don't know anything oh.


@foolinlove come and see ohhh

bstringz:
Don’t get me wrong. Am not a supporter of rape, forceful sex or non consensual sex. Infact I abhor these things and support whatever punishment the law deems fit for rapists.
So before you crucify me, I have never raped and would never rape anyone.
Even our police force according to Wikipedia is guilty of rape and sexual offences
Statistics in Nigeria shows that 1 in every 20 women have been raped or undergone sexual harassment.
Reporting sexual offense in Nigeria is hard because of stigmatization…. So many rape cases go unreported.

Back to our post title “when is rape not the rapists fault?” this may sound like “he’s in support of rape” but I’m not. I posted something this morning, showing some of the indecent ways our Ladies dress and if you followed that post you would agree with me that some of those pictures are even decent compared to what we are used to.
The Nigeria we live in now is a Nigeria where you would see a mother encouraging her daughter to dress skimpy.
I remember when I moved into the house am living in now, there is a woman who has a shop opposite my house, I would always go to her place to buy from her. She had a little daughter at that time, I would always play with the young girl whenever I came. Fast forward to now, that girl now is a “big girl” wearing all the spaghetti and short skirts. How she grew up so fast. I can’t explain. The role of her mother, which is supposed to be cautioning her daughter is lost… The mother obviously has refused to play her role as mother.

Again, where I live in (ojo community) is full of Young guys who are jobless, and don’t intend to get any job. Many are graduates of secondary schools and aren’t in school yet. Now imagine a scenario where Temitope who wears a very short skirt and revealing top, walks past kabiru who is jobless. She walks past him all day In her hot mini skirt…. Shaking her backside as she does that. Probably unaware that kabiru is watching her.
Kabiru tries to control himself, but the porn he has been watching due to idleness for the past few days isn’t helping. Later that night, Ngozi catwalks past kabiru again in her hot bumshorts her young, fresh body glittering under the moonlight. Kabiru tries to control the urge, but her bumshorts leaves little to his randy imagination. So the devil says “take her, don’t you want a piece of that?” kabiru looks around the quiet neighborhood…. It’s 10pm, what is a young lady doing out by that time…. Kabiru wonders as he tip toes behind ngozi.
You can draw a conclusion on what happened.

The story I painted there is very true and it’s even an extreme case where kabiru-is a bad boy. Even I, who is a good boy is no exemption. Walk or drive through Lagos and see what am telling you about. Except you are extremely disciplined or divinely empowered it’s difficult not falling to the charms of this “karashika’s”.
I would always tell ladies who dress skimpy “after now you’d say they raped you, or a boy forcefully groped you”.
If you are properly or decently dressed,those kind of guys wouldn’t even look your way. Remember that like-poles Attract. Some kind of dressing attracts respect from the opposite sex. There is a way a lady would dress and all the guys would feel for her is nothing but respect and admiration.

So in the case of Kabiru. Whose fault is it? Let’s read your thoughts?

http://truenaijayarn.com/readwhen-rape-is-not-the-rapists-fault/

Source:Www.truenaijayarn.com

shoro Ni yen, so girls can't buy and wear what ever they won't again abi??, Even if a girls girl goes around in pant alone, one a guy rape her, Na the guy fault, he should lower his gaze, on the other hand we can say it's situation of the country that made kabiru jobless , but not the babe fault

Rubbish

You and your epistle. It is their fault!! No two ways about it!

This is pure Rubbish.. There's no excuse u give dat justifies Rape.

So the ladies shouldn't wear what they want because kabiru can control he's sexual urge.
Rapist are people who lack self control.. Period

I guess some1 very dear 2u hasn't been raped! RAPE IS RAPE..

we've all come to a consensus that the article(or whatever it is ) is thrash/balderash