See Kasala ... I can't laugh but cry for this man
Take heart my follow husband

My problem may seem trivial or humorous,
but it’s causing me great distress.

[img]http://drexpert.info/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/man-on-bed.gif[/img]
My wife has effectively imposed
an 8.30pm bedtime on me.

She recently got a new job which
means she has to get up at 5am every day.

She wants to get eight hours’ sleep,
so she has to be in bed by 9pm.

She also requires half an hour in
the bathroom to get ready,
and hates to be disturbed once she is in bed,
which means I have to retire before her.

She literally hands me my night wear
at 8.15pm


I have tried suggesting that I come to bed
quietly at 10pm, but she’s insistent we follow
her rules. How can I resolve this?

My problem is Most time I come back late
because of lagos holdup and we don't
have sex except on Saturday night.


I need your advice

Source: http://drexpert.info/my-wife-makes-me-go-to-bed-at-8-30-every-night/

Lol end time wife

Lol, my brethren below will advice u

Who is marrying who? Cuz i don't understand. If u ask me the marriage is heading on the road of divorce..

I think it's ok for now. Go with the flow to save your marriage, things will surely change after some times. So be patient.
And hope her job is better than yours to be giving you such condition

Dude, this is delicate in as much as it sounds trivial.
So far I think you've made all th right decisions by even suggesting to come to bed quietly at ur own convenience, y she still insists is surprising. Well the obvious reason is she needs to cuddle to sleep. But with her rules, she wants to eat her cake and have it. But she needs to cut some slack na, what about Fri, does she also insist on going to bed early? Well, a hubby can never "completely" please a wife. This is not even talking about d sex part, which will obviously dwindle since both of y'all work.
I wouldn't wanna give an advise that'll later backfire.
But hypothetically speaking, If I were u, I'll stand my ground on coming to bed at my own convenient time. I'll be stubborn about sex, make d best outta weekends by expanding d duration starting from Fri going all d way to Sundays.

Dude, this is delicate in as much as it sounds trivial.
So far I think you've made all th right decisions by even suggesting to come to bed quietly at ur own convenience, y she still insists is surprising. Well the obvious reason is she needs to cuddle to sleep. But with her rules, she wants to eat her cake and have it. But the needs to cut so slack na, what about Fri, does she also insist on going to bed early? Well, a hubby can never "completely" please a wife. This is not even talking about d sex part, which will obviously dwindle since both of y'all work.
I wouldn't wanna give an advise that'll later backfire.
But hypothetically speaking, If I were u, I'll first talk to my wife about it, if you insists, then I'll stand my ground on coming to bed at my own convenient time. I'll be stubborn about sex, make d best outta weekends by expanding d duration starting from Fri going all d way to Sundays.

Your wife abi your husband?

well tats very stressful to think like ur juz like her child. Rule is rule...

Give her sleeping pills sha so she can sleep on time without u all d time sleeping next to her as early as 8.30

Good boy. simply follow her R/R..She want the best for u. Good Am great/good pipu of Romancelanders.Think and believe Iamdotune.He's our own

How is that my problem?
Settle ur family issues

it's simple! must you sleep on the bed? sleep in the parlour oga.





give her 5 days she would wake you around 2am





#abi na one room apartment?

EastGold:
How is that my problem?

Settle ur family issues

oga.....

this is just wrong, why would your wife impose bedtime on you, are you a kid? Better grow up and put a strong foot down against the stupid rule, else this would be the beginning of terrible things to come in the marriage

she is taking u 4 a ride.. (case opened and closed).. if u don't like it, tell her and be firm with it.. or u keep on enjoying sleeping by d said time. and 2 any moderator finding it a thing of joy 2b banning me up and down without any necessary provocation, remember that is also CORRUPTION!

Hahahaha abeg I no get strength to laugh oh. probably he's d soft type dat a woman can trample on. I just dey pity d man BC more is yet to come if he does nt stand up as a man.

Nah she pay ur bride price ?

shaiii....see mata ooo...

Some of the nigga's given advice here don't even have a wife, Am just gonna sip ma alomo jejely

y nt make her go to bed by 7.30 and enjoy ursef

Nice image

You are the wife and she is the husband..spinless guy!!!!

......ur husband makes u sleep by 8.30pm u mean...... Biko change d topic .....Tanchu

stop her from calling you baby, and she will stop treating you like a baby

cant u see, she wants u to be energertic to make more love to her more efficiently, let me guess he cant....do 'it'

Sleep in another room.

OgidiOlu3:
Sleep in another room.

Hiroto:
cant u see, she wants u to be energertic to make more love to her more efficiently, let me guess he cant....do 'it'

what do you mean ?

ok

She was practically displaying who was the Boss in that relationship.....Who was wearing the bigger trouser....

mhere:


what do you mean ?

U dont need to think about my comment too much, when i wrote it i was thinking of my gf