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6 Reasons Why Ladies Are Struggling To Find Mr Right by delmonte: 9:36am On Aug 05, 2016
Ladies we all know how difficult it is finding Mr Right, in fact it is like looking for a needle in a hay stack. You think you find him and then he turns out to be completely the wrong guy for you. There could be a lot of reasons for it, but one of those is not that you are cursed! Here are six very honest reasons, but ones that you can do something about to help find Mr. Right.

You Don’t Know What You Want
Has it ever occurred to you that you don’t know what you want from a guy? Have you even thought about it? You know that you want someone who treats you right, but where do you go from there? While you need to avoid putting too many restrictions on the perfect guy for you, there needs to be a few items on your checklist. You could find you’re letting Mr. Right go without even realizing.

The Chemistry Isn’t The Only Thing
You don’t feel that instant spark and you conclude that he can’t be the guy. That chemistry is not the only thing that makes him the perfect match for you. It might take a while for that spark to even get there. You need to get along, and he needs to meet certain aspects on that checklist from the above point. Don’t leave it all based just because there is no chemistry right from the beginning.

You’re Waiting For A Fairy Tale
Ladies please be real as life is not like a fairy tale. If it was, you’d be locked in a tower by your step-mother, or poisoned because you’re too beautiful (lol). Sitting around and waiting for Prince Charming would not bring him to you. You need to get out there and look for him and that doesn’t mean going crazy looking for him. You need to look while you get on with your life and career. He will come around one day.

You Tend To Opt For Adventure
It is ok to like adventure as long as it’s not all trouble. The problem with this is the guy that comes with it is usually Mr. Wrong. He would lead you astray and think fun only happens when you’re in trouble with the law. You need to stop thinking of the bad stuff as being the only fun, adventurous stuff you can do. Look at all the great things that Mr. Right can give you.

Your Standards Aren’t High Enough
While having too high standards is a bad thing, having low or no standards is worse. You need someone who will treat you well, and put your interests before his now and then.If you’re not willing to put your happiness first when it comes to finding love, you’re going to struggle to be happy in any type of relationship.

You Think He’ll Change
You know he’s treated women poorly in the past. He’s cheating on his girlfriend or wife right now just to be with you, he has a history of violence, or whatever bad trait he might posses. However, you believe that he will change all because of you. Get this fairytale out of your head right now as most times it doesn’t happen..

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Re: 6 Reasons Why Ladies Are Struggling To Find Mr Right by DRISKLEF(m): 9:42am On Aug 05, 2016
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Re: 6 Reasons Why Ladies Are Struggling To Find Mr Right by Olalan(m): 10:19am On Aug 05, 2016
They don't really know what they want, thus carried away only to realize their mistakes later.

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