Okay, I don't think i can do ds anymore, the long distance m tired, like how do i even know if he is serious and not cheating

Depends on if u really trust him. Dont u think he is thinking same bout u "If u are serious and nt cheating"

My dear, it's not worth it.

I doubt if he would, guys dnt really think about that. We used to text all the time now its so boring, we chat everyday bt the convo I dunno its like am forcin it

rheether:
My dear, it's not worth it.

not when have loved up sigh

If you wer made to be with someone no matter how far ya'll is.. Ya'll will end up together.. Roger that?

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HateU2:
listen to 'long distance' by Brandy

never dt song is too emotional abeg

And how long is this distance you talking about ??

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Nid a definite answer, so that I can come up with a definite suggestion

Gewezzy1:
I doubt if he would, guys dnt really think about that. We used to text all the time now its so boring, we chat everyday bt the convo I dunno its like am forcin it

It's clear you want out, it's either you have someone near you falling for or about to fall for

If it's boring, try spice it up
What way have you tried to un bore the relationship
And it's not bout if it's boring, you only scared or thinking he may not be faithful afterall

LDR can only work when both parties trust one another and understand one another, with good communication

Although physically he will be absent and some times you may need him to cuddle up
So add self control or discipline to it

It can work if both parties want it to

Your complain is about your communication with him. My dear, if you want to spice things up, drop the usual boring 'how are you' questions. Get freaky with him, he's your man. Tell him how badly you want to make love to him, talk about when you guys recently started dating, be humorous, call him cute names, and be blunt with him.

rheether:
My dear, it's not worth it.

True talk.

Dearie, let's be truthful about the whole brouhaha about long distance relationship. the disadvantages outweighs the advantages and it is not advisable to be in a relationship where there ain't no physical presence. It causes alot of suspicion and distrust between both couples. Such relationships are short-lived. Anywayz, it depends on what you two have set out to achieve but if it takes longer than necessary to always see or be with each other then I ain't advising you to go with it. Physical presence is very important, even skyping won't help. I know of a female friend who has a boyfriend studying in dubai. She's this kinda 'jaiye jaiye' bae but she loves this guy like something else but always complaining of the distance between them and why she ain't getting all that cozy and stuff because she misses the touch of her man and craves for sex. And this had led them both masturbating on skype in real-time while streaming together. I asked her how does she enjoy it with her man on Skype and she honestly told me it's dirty and doesn't get the real satisfaction from it and that she's been considering doing it with someone she's close to and that is because of her strong sex-drive and libido.

The long and short of these is "the disadvantages outweighs the advantages and it is not advisable to be in a relationship where there ain't no physical presence".


My 2cents sha...

Don't let this Nairaland guys discourage u OK. ... If he is cheating and u fail to know it's love.

He may not be cheating ..it depends on trust level

In short distance relationship - people do cheat take that cheating stuff off your mind

We stay in different states, and he is currently working, while am in my final year in school. So he is usually busy most times. N I swear we haven't ever even talkd about nasty stuff o, the nasty stuff he ever said ws Ur look sexy in dt picture dts all. N its almost 6 months now, even though he says he loves me n all. O wish to believe bt maybe Cs of the hurt in the past. N dn my insecurity sef is thr, although he dsnt really put females on his dp expect on thr bdae, but what if he has anthr phone, Cs he isn't on my social media accounts. Jeezzz I dunno anymore

Gewezzy1:
We stay in different states, and he is currently working, while am in my final year in school. So he is usually busy most times. N I swear we haven't ever even talkd about nasty stuff o, the nasty stuff he ever said ws Ur look sexy in dt picture dts all. N its almost 6 months now, even though he says he loves me n all. O wish to believe bt maybe Cs of the hurt in the past. N dn my insecurity sef is thr, although he dsnt really put females on his dp expect on thr bdae, but what if he has anthr phone, Cs he isn't on my social media accounts. Jeezzz I dunno anymore

paranoia!!!