A friend and his pretty girlfriend , are both engaged and to be married soon.
They work and live in different States at the moment. Problem is, the lady's boss(who is single) have been asking her out and sending her text massages and all.

My friend is not comfortable with this and have made his position clear. The lady seem to enjoy her job and have decided to stop updating her man about her daily activities(a practice which has kept their relationship alive), as according to her it's making her man uncomfortable and threatening her job.

Her boyfriend offered to have a discussion with her boss but she has maintained it is a bad idea and refuses to give her out her bosses number. One wonders why she is not bold enough to tell her boss off( at least threaten to resign if he continues ).
Today she had a little friction with her man and have threatened to stop updating her boyfriend on matters concerning her boss.

Though they seem to be very much in love and her boss knows about their marriage plans and yet he has refused to quit.

Will her keeping secrets from her man not make things worse?

And if you were her man what will you do?

What's the issue here

The husby-to-be knows, the boss knows about d wedding plans and the lady is trying to save the husby from getting insecured about something she can handle.


We all know guys are extremely jealous and telling him everyday can make him do something stupiid which will either hurt the lady or the boss.


What's the problem here again?

Many marriages fail years before the couples even walk down the aisle to take the sacred vow.actions like this are some of the reasons marriages fail, if intending couples can't be open to each other before marriage, then chances of openness during marriage is very slim.

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I just don't know what to even say here. Okay, it seems the Boss is trying to have his own slice of the cake before the hubby does and I bet you the moment she succumbs to the Boss' pressures then her job and relationship to her will be threatened or even his the rocks before it gets to the altar.

My 2cents sha...

That boss so wicked,even after knowing about their marriage plan?
if the girt stop updating me about her boss issue. .there is no way i wunt start suspectinq her

Ehhhh!!! He shouldd kuku open business's for her na

Dat boss is just another piece of shi who always uses his employees den dump dem like trash afterwards. De problem is dat with such bosses, dey do have de ability to ruin someone's leave whether she sleeps wit him or not, or whether she reports him or not. She just has to change her attitude at work. Be so down and humble and always looking like a prayer girl. Have christian stuff on yo desk, like bibles and stuff, n wen boss tries again, preach to him de word of God, and abt how wrong wat he is doing is, quote verses from de bible abt dis, n also quote those which talk abt marriage, very soon mr boss will get tired and irritated, dat he will mark u a boring girl. Den u wil have yo piece and he wil find another slut. Coz its de same, after bedding u, he aint gon mary u, he gone ruin yo marriage n fire u. B smart girl, learn to play wit ppl's intelligence in order to survive in dis economy, even if it means deceiving, so long u r at peace hey

In this period where job scarce ehn. Make d man kuku hold on. Nd d lady shld not fall into temptation