Let me start off by saying there are many cool decent guys out there, but something that I notice even with my freinds is why when a guy is given a choice between a cool as hell women (one that is drama free, loves you ps3 more than you, is willing to give you understanding and as much sex as you pecker can get up) that MOST not all men will choice the crazy, gold digging, cheating, morally low girl every time and keep going back to them??

natashi:

Let me start off by saying there are many cool decent guys out there, but something that I notice even with my freinds is why when a guy is given a choice between a cool as hell women (one that is drama free, loves you ps3 more than you, is willing to give you understanding and as much sex as you pecker can get up) that MOST not all men will choice the crazy, gold digging, cheating, morally low girl every time and keep going back to them??

ok.  and >>, 

Is it by force to create a post, I often wonder

posakosa:


ok. and >>,

Is it by force to create a post, I often wonder

I tire oh. seriously all this groupies should be banned

without them, this place 'll be boring. ride on, poster.

This isn't a bad post.

so pls answer the question

Am gonna say this knowing it's very risky: some drama is good for a relationship. It's easy to get complacent or even bored wen everything is sailing smoothly. This is the essence of romance. Stirring things up will bring about rejuvenation in a relationship.

That crazy girl looks more interesting than the kool one. Regardless of the fact that he will run away from her soon, the excitement is nevertheless very enticing.

To all kool gals y'all need to get exciting!

Dude it s a forum, if you don't like the questions don't answer and post something better its for fun and reflection . If you want we can have a political or scientific discussion , l.oh wait it the romance section LOL People take this wayyyyyy to seriously and some of us are new memebers so don't know what the prior topics have been , give us a break its still new and exciting for us.

Hey lord, you got a point and I never thought about it that way. Now that I am looking back I remember a few dudes who didnt make the cut because they where sooo boring I almost scratched my eyes out >>>>LOL

@natashi

kpere

The same reason some girls go for bad boys, they like the excitement and unpredictability of the situation.

Ebonyeyes:

The same reason some girls go for bad boys, they like the excitement and unpredictability of the situation.

as a woman gets older though, she doesn't find bad boys soo appealing, esp. if u're looking to settle down,

Most of the reasons are good but i think it comes down to a man dating a good girl would eventually get roped into talking about settling down. If you are dating a so called bad chick you already know you can't take her home to mama so you take the drama and B.S until you get tired and then find the good girl to settle with.

The truth is; for an affair most guys like their gals wierd, hot and spoilt. They want to have the best of their bachelorhood with such gals. But when it comes to marriage every man wants a decent and collected lady, but unfurtunately, not all collected ladies are hot. So the men even in marriage still want to go after their hot and spoilt chics. I have learnt to be a combination of both. At home i can be hot, spoilt and dirty, but outside im a decent and understanding wife. I try to give him all he wants in a woman.

na true oh! most men would find angels but still date and marry demons
they would be lucky to find a girl who wants to help them in every way she possibly can and be help mates. at the end of the day when they marry sluts that either cheat o them or destroy them, they begin to blame women generally

Jamb question

Kunbee:

Jamb question

Gbam Jamb Question, multiple choice:


a) because they want to

b) because they want to

c) because they want to

d) because they want to

e) All of the above

Lord_Reed:

Am gonna say this knowing it's very risky: some drama is good for a relationship. It's easy to get complacent or even bored wen everything is sailing smoothly. This is the essence of romance. Stirring things up will bring about rejuvenation in a relationship.

That crazy girl looks more interesting than the kool one. Regardless of the fact that he will run away from her soon, the excitement is nevertheless very enticing.

To all kool gals y'all need to get exciting!

So you'll prefer a rash, slutty, gold-digging, and crazy girl to a decent, humble, homely and nice girl

Busy_body:


Gbam Jamb Question, multiple choice:


a) because they want to

b) because they want to

c) because they want to

d) because they want to

All of the above

Free world

You live by choice

The poster is a confused fellow!!!

Ujujoan:

So you'll prefer a rash, slutty, gold-digging, and crazy girl to a decent, humble, homely and nice girl

Personally, no but I can see how it could be exciting for some. Moreover everyone needs excitement every once in awhile, mix it up wit some kool headedness (decent, humble, homely) n I've got me a winner everyday.

iice:

Jazz

***and complete jargon! Please modify.

just walking

hahah poster is a confused women, get it right come on now. By the way the reason why I said that I know some dude are cool is because there are, there is never one absolute side of things. Just giving the cool guys there props GEEZZZZZZZZZ (I hate when men generalize that all women are a certain way so don't want to do it to the men) LOL

I'm sat here thinking which i'd choose if presented with heaven and hell.

Honestly, I'll tell u, men like me dont like hellish women, and by hellish i mean pretending, nagging, materialistic, drama queens. . .  But when I look at the heavenly ones who want to kill me with love, it doesn't make me feel any better. Another thing that is worth noting is that in most cases, it is the hellish ones who are hot and sexy, in terms of look and appearance, dressing for occasions, body language and flirting, spoken english and sexy tone, hot stepping and general carriage/aura. . .  for a man, it becomes a serious case of "body says yes, mind says no!".

It has to be balanced, of course if a heavenly woman had some carefree attitude mixed in the right proportions. . .  She'd drive a hot blooded man mad with attraction, and thats my cup of red and white vodka anyday anytime

D ANS IS,
, WIFE MATERIAL N G/F MATERIAL
one has 2 choose dependin on wat he wants @ d time.

booberry:

D ANS IS,
, WIFE MATERIAL N G/F MATERIAL
one has 2 choose dependin on wat he wants @ d time.

I really dont see any "Material" sense in your post, cos a girlfriend material often leads to a wife material.
If she's good enough for u to have a proper passionate relationship with, why cant u marry her?