This is not directed to a specific gender, it could be anyone.

Have you ever asked yourself the reason behind their hatred towards your partner? Or don't you feel it is something strange and worthy of worry?

It is rear for those two vital groups to feel differently about someone your soul regularly yawns for.
Even if the family feels unhappy, your friends who are closer shouldn't feel same way about him/her or even vice versa.

Have you ever confronted them to know their reasons if genuine? And have you ever put yourself in their shoes?

Are you aware that those people are part of those he/she is in the relationship with and not just you?

And do you know that the bond that suppose to bind you all together might be tampered with if the hatred lingers beyond repair?

You know relationship are not always rossy, who are those you will fall back to when you need someone else apart from your soul mate when things are not right between you and your patner?

You even dare not go to them as you will be swallowed raw.

Jen Soule a contributor in an article on elite daily stated some questions that must be considered in this kind of situation before moving on.

1. Can I see myself in this relationship in a year, three years, or five years?

2. Am I truly happy in this relationship, and is my life heading in the right direction?

3. Am I actually in love with this person, or am I just comfortable?

4. Does my friends and family have valid reasons for hating my soulmate?

5. Is the relationship worth losing any of the other people in my life?

Those are valid questions you need to ask yourself even if love is blind, and answers to those questions will give you clue(s).

Make your decisions for the future and not just for now. Remember whatever you do now may arise for or against you in the future.

Don't just overlook their judgment when you are in love, they were there before you knew him/her and all or some of them will still be there when he/she will be no more(separation or death).

You might think they cannot decide your happiness or your life, but they are also an important factor you must consider before you make the final decision because life does not end where you and your partner lies.

My little cent though.

Source: http://bamisepeters..com.ng/2016/08/when-your-family-and-friends-don-like.html