thelish:
How long can you stay without sex?
My hubby is about to relocate abroad for studies. And he will be there for like two years? i am happy for my hubby but so worried over the distance. we are so closed that I am thinking of what happens to our sexual life. How are we going to cope when the urge comes? Is there anything that can help us take the urge away for the duration of two years?
If you have stayed away from your spouse for that long, how did u handle it?
Thanks

Fixed,you are welcome

misspicy:

So sorry
I was just having fun.


I think its better she discuss it with her hubby,2 years is a very long time,but their is nothing self control cannot achieve,constant communication and she can also go visiting at intervals.


Some people scaled through this,since its a step to greater heights,it shouldn't be too big a sacrifice for them to adjust to.

misspicy:

So sorry
I was just having fun.


I think its better she discuss it with her hubby,2 years is a very long time,but their is nothing self control cannot achieve,constant communication and she can also go visiting at intervals.


Some people scaled through this,since its a step to greater heights,it shouldn't be too big a sacrifice for them to adjust to.

oluwafreshkid:
I hear cucumber is very good for situations like this. Not when eaten though.

thelish:


hahahaha. What if it breaks inside?
besides, fruit n that thing ain't d same.

SirVintageCock:
You will cheat and he will cheat too. It is just a matter of time. You may be the first to cheat since you raised the concern first or maybe my guy knew he gonna cheat and see no reason to worry himself sick of what will eventually happen.
A night stand here and a chop and clean mouth there is okay, don't quote me to yarn dust cos we all know y'all gonna succumb after 4 months. Body no bi wood except if both of you are asexual. When you delve into masturbation as per the Vaseline crew's advice,well, it is addictive and makes sex itself seems unpleasant in the long run.

It's either he goes or he stay back and continue having regular sex...OR...he goes and both of you turn a blind eye and behave as if the two years never existed in the first place when he must have come back. Sweep everything under the rug and get on with your life. If you know what am saying.
Going on a visit just to have sex.....hiahiahia...wetin person no go hia for dis naija sef

LynnPetra:
What is he travelling out for degree when married in the first place?
2 years o's a long time to stay away biko. I no go fit allow hubby leave me for 6 month sef, I go carry my Ghana must go dey follow am reach airport
"Honey you are not going anywhere ooo, I no gree, "

Kaira333:
What are u guys typing sef? I mean people dat said both of them will cheat, For what kwanu? Unless d love is not there. I can't cheat on my hubby as long as he is alive and we both are communicating.

thelish:


Funny u.
He is not traveling for a degree though. he has that already.

thelish:
How long can you stay without sex?
My sis hubby is about to relocate abroad for studies. And he will be there for like two years? She is happy for her hubby but so worried over the distance. They are so closed that she is thinking of what happens to their sexual life. How are they going to cope when the urge comes? Is there anything that can help them take the urge away for the duration of two years?
If you have stayed away from your spouse for that long, how did u handle it?
Thanks

cocolacec:



If the husband is travelling abroad for studies he can apply jointly to take his wife with him or apply for the wife visa later on ,she will surely be granted a visa.

The problem with Nigerians is lack of information.I remembered when was wife came to scandinavia to study she wasnt aware of that fact until she saw other student resuming with their spouses at hostel accomodation.The only challenge they will have is children are not allowed in hostel accomodation.May i know which country the husband will be studying.?

thelish:



Thank u for the info.
He will be travelling to Germany. They have three kids already.

crackhaus:
The man is about leaving and sex is the most important thing someone is bothered about.

It's clear that one of two things will happen over the coming months:
1. Someone will become a chronic masturbator.

2. Someone will succumb to her sexual hunger and have a fling, then regret it and call it a mistake...then, might end up doing it again based on Okafor's Law.

cocolacec:


Since kids are involved,its better he arrives in Germany first and later apply for his family to join him in Germany depending on the family purse.
I spoke with a lady earlier this year ,who came for her Phd programme from Egypt to study in denmark ,she got her residence permit for her husband and 2 children before she left her country.
The most important thing is proof of financial means to support the family in Germany.

In Sweden it goes
The maintenance requirement for the whole time you are in Sweden is SEK 3,500 (£366) per month for adults and SEK 2,100 (£219)per month for each child.
For 2years (wife)= 24 months X 366=£8784
3 children = 24MonthsX 657=£15,768
Total = £24,552

Germany might require less in bank statement

https://www.auswaertiges-amt.de/EN/Infoservice/FAQ/Studium/09-Familiennachzug%20Studenten.html?nn=480902

Family Reunion (German embassy Nigeria) Required Documents
http://m.nigeria.diplo.de/contentblob/4051286/Daten/6755309/Checklist_Ehegattennachzug_en.pdf