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| I Was Raped At 17 By Someone I Trusted by dearbunmi(f): 8:30am On Aug 10, 2016 |
Dear Bunmi, I was raped at 17 by someone I trusted. I was a virgin at that time and it took me a while to handle and get a grip of my emotions. It's been six (6) years and in those 6 years, it's been difficult to have a relationship. I have tried but I end up destroying the relationship myself or breaking up. I dated people that loved me but I couldn't feel the love. I think I need help! I have been single for a year now and I think it's time to try but I'm not so sure I can handle having a relationship. Wunmi Click below to see my response http://dearbunmi.com/i-was-raped-at-17/ Do you have any relationship questions? ask@dearbunmi.com
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| Re: I Was Raped At 17 By Someone I Trusted by Engrobiorah(m): 8:42am On Aug 10, 2016 |
La click la bend 2 Likes |
| Re: I Was Raped At 17 By Someone I Trusted by Mary19: 8:43am On Aug 10, 2016 |
Im sorry for this act all you need is a therapy. |
| Re: I Was Raped At 17 By Someone I Trusted by mizzbouqui(f): 9:10am On Aug 10, 2016 |
Eeyah  She just have to be determined and forget about her past Life goes on, she shouldn't allow her past hunt her present or future |
| Re: I Was Raped At 17 By Someone I Trusted by Jay542(m): 9:22am On Aug 10, 2016 |
There's no special therapy than to move on. That's the only way you can forget the past. Do what your mates are doing. Get yourself busy. |
| Re: I Was Raped At 17 By Someone I Trusted by chachanga: 11:01am On Aug 10, 2016 |
Yhu've gotta go for some serious counselling. Make peace with yourself; no need to keep on having sleepless nights when your rapist is eating well and sleeping soundly elsewhere. Empower yourself in whatever ways you feel best. Channel your rage; stroll over to the sports center & get into martial arts/self defence. Yeah, learn how to beat the shytt out of any would-be rapist you could ever come across again  .Make this your Crusade. Forge a vision out of seeing yourself live free of the scars of your past as well as emancipating, enlightening & empowering other victims along the path of recovery & wholeness. Join groups, attend workshops, write, plan, organize & stage your own plays, seminars & symposiums, believe me, we'll attend & heed you. Just stop allowing that one incident from the past leach your zest, joy &passion for life. Free yourself, it's a big world, one life, live it well! 1 Like 1 Share |
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