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What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by Ekpoma1: 12:24pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
I've being looking forward to this day as a member.I believe being here on the romances section will broadens my heart on issues that concerns the heart,which are very sensitive in relationships for effective commucation and understanding of the opposite sex in order to know the basic things which are love,trust,patient,tolerant,sacrifice etc needed for a happy relationship.What makes your relationship a success?i'll be glad to learn. |
Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by german007(m): 12:37pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by Ekpoma1: 12:44pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
german007:thank you sir.it surely do help. |
Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by Musty450(m): 12:51pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
Finally, Someone asks a truly constructive question, NLanders please share your thoughts on this with us; For me i think Communication (even though it may sound cliche-ish) is one of the factors that has really helped to make my 6 year old relationship a success; obviously we being human and all means that there ll always be some sort of misunderstanding between partners but as long as the lines of communication are open; and you re both open minded; a solution will always be at hand. of course there are always cases which are exceptions . . . |
Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by german007(m): 1:07pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
Yes Very true indeed. Communication is a very important factor. |
Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by Nobody: 1:22pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
Cliche but communication and honesty is the key to a good relationship. |
Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by KennyG6(m): 1:26pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
love, committment, honesty, communication and most of all must have common interests or things they enjoy doing together, |
Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by Ekpoma1: 1:42pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
Thank so far for your comments.besides all those things mention,are we not leaving out something here, i mean puting our relationship in God's hands.just a suggestion though. |
Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by Nobody: 1:45pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
Ekpoma1:Yes that is very important as well. |
Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by Nobody: 1:45pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
Ekpoma1: I think God has too much on his plate to worry about our relationships!! |
Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by iice(f): 1:50pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
Communication, understanding, compromise, honesty, will and honor |
Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by Ekpoma1: 1:54pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
iice:is it possible to have all that above in a relationship? |
Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by iice(f): 1:59pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
Ekpoma1: But of course. . . |
Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by Ekpoma1: 2:10pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
iice:oh, God pls see me through. |
Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by german007(m): 2:12pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
ekpoma What exactly is your current predicament sir? What is your main concern?. Regards |
Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by Ekpoma1: 2:22pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
german007:Nothing actually, you see alot of break up here and there.Is really a thing of great concern for me, I just want make it right when is time for to cross that bridge. |
Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by KennyG6(m): 2:24pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
well we've given u enuf tips, although not exhaustive |
Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by posakosa(m): 4:19pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
Ekpoma1: Nothing wrong with break ups, but there is something wrong with bad break ups- and thats as a result of initial evil intentions, if your goal is to only strafe a woman but then dont you lie to her that you shall marry her only because you want to phuck. Often times, thats what most men do. |
Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by Nobody: 4:45pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
Ekpoma1:you couldn't have been more right. |
Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by TheSeeker(m): 4:48pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
It doesn't really take a lot to make a relationship work but I think the main thing is commitment. You need to have that before your relationship can move any close to working. Commitment will make you go the extra mile to put in your best in a relationship. When you have commitment, you go for communication. You obviously can't communicate if you're not committed because you could care less. After this comes honesty. I want to believe that when you communicate, you do so in all honesty or it won't be a hearty discussion. Another is patience. Dealing with a partner -- young or old, mature or immature -- is like having to do with someone you have never met just as it was back in your elementary school days. It takes a lot of them for some people to adjust to who they are dating and it could be pretty short for some. You have to know also that the comfort-level of each person varies, and the rate at which others integrate perfectly into their new dates depends on a lot of factors. Don't get mad when you have to repeatedly spell out your do's and don'ts to your partner, and don't lose your patience when your girlfriend wants you to pet her all the time, both when necessary and unnecessary. Commitment, communication, honesty, patience, then comes another, sacrifice. Sacrifice can mean different things to different people in different and diverse situations. The most important thing is, in every relationship make good use of your head and do what's right. Your heart at some point may not convey a correspondingly valid message with your heart. Right at this juncture, you'll need to use your brain to fathom what's right. You can't possibly ask your girlfriend or fiancee to drop her dreams of wanting to be a nurse because you think she may not have time in the future for the family (you and your kids), and it'll be foolish for her to walk out on her path to a rosy career because of what 'harm' you think it might do to the future you both are planning. |
Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by Ekpoma1: 5:45pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
Thank you the seeker, that's was a long one, your points are well noted. |
Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by blandyne(f): 6:18pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
TheSeeker: If i understand you clearly, u mean without commitment a relationship can't work or succeed. What is commitment to u? The reason i'm asking it's because nowadays people have different definitions for commitment. Some says commitment it's when the man actually propose to u and make everybody know that you're the one he wants to marry. Other sees commitment as when a man agree to date you and only you even though he did not propose yet. Nevertheless i'm so glad to read your post. Most men dont understand it, when a woman say the word commitment to them they perceive her as being possessive, desperate, wanting to drag them down the aisle no matter what. |
Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by follypimpi(m): 6:25pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
Lastly Good sex too. |
Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by iice(f): 6:28pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
^^LMAO, true that |
Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by TheSeeker(m): 6:32pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
blandyne:Commitment is having a goal set and a considerable willpower to push it through to attaining that goal. If the goal of the relationship is to have sex and break up later, your will to make it happen is commitment. If you're planning to take it to the aisle, your determination to make it happen is commitment. Everything you do has to revolve around bringing to reality whatever dream you have forecast for the relationship. |
Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by blandyne(f): 6:37pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
@ Theseeker Thanks for your reply. You're so danm right. Like i always say you must have a goal in everything you do, even simple tasks as drinking water which your goal will be to satisfy your thirst |
Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by TheSeeker(m): 6:47pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
blandyne:Your goal by insulting someone is to hurt them, the effort to insult (even when you don't want to) is the commitment. |
Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by tunyus(m): 11:25pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
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Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by eyonigger(m): 11:32pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
You can posses all of the stated qualities to sustain a successful relationship, but if you cannot nack ur baby well, omo mehn you'll lose later. |
Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by dizzywezzy(f): 11:39pm On Sep 27, 2009 |
On a serious note is sex rily rily important? Can a relationship work without it? n on a scale of 1-10 hw important is sex? |
Re: What Makes Your Relationship A Success? by Nobody: 4:21am On Sep 28, 2009 |
dizzywezzy:very important, A good sex is another foundation for a successful relationship says my friend OBJ. |
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