bravojohny:
If a guy u refused goes out to date someone close to u, I think u made a smart choice cos he wasn't really in for you

most sensible comment so far

lilyqueen:
Real love doesn't exist

Confirm

sanyahkod:

Love neva serve o jare.

,

gimakon:


It does my dear. Only maybe you and some other girls spent your time possibly dating the extreme wrong fùck boys who only know swag, and pussy...

Don't be offended. But there are still some good guys out there who want a decent girl.

Cheers.

I don't think that is the definition of "real love" she meant.

MissHatey:
dagborun

I didn't hear frm u again lastnyt

Oshey anan
Gumoney

neocortex:


I don't think that is the definition of "real love" she meant.

What you think she meant?

IamNawty:
I didn't hear frm u again lastnyt

Oshey anan
Gumoney

lol
Sorry joor
I slept off early yesterday 9t
After our guys played rubbish

Gudmorni
Uw jare.

gimakon:


What you think she meant?

In this context, I think she believes that if a man asked a woman out,
it is a sign of love and even if he rejects her, she expects him to stick around till
she agrees, that will be true love to her.

Since men men don't stick around, that means real love doesn't exist.

rexericx:
You see

Don't over select, don't underrate







Source:
J&H

CHAI!!! D way women don reject me 4 ds lyf ehn. Even ordinary muvi make we c, dem go dey do lyk say I dey ask 4 Dem kidney on top say na me go pay. Anyway, na 2 find money dey my mind. God go help dem if money enta my pocket. Make any woman wey no lyk me nw no show face if money show face.

lilyqueen:
Real love doesn't exist

Dts a lie. D fact dt few pple find love doesn't mean it doesn't exist. I love my mother, sister, family members & dey luv me. If I can replicate 10% of dt luv wt anoda woman, she wld b 1 of D luckiest women in d world.

lilyqueen:
Real love doesn't exist

I vnt said Diz before to any gal on nairaland . 'u are cute' .

lilyqueen:
Real love doesn't exist

of a truth true love doesn't exist.

Madam pls come and finance my PhD.
Since u b financier

halfricanadian:


first i speak for mysef

next i as a lady one time was ready to finance a guy to school

but he never wanted to go reasons best known to him.

so no big deal helping some one nd expecting much from them

wen u wanna help dont expect too much pls to avoid stories like this.

as for the guy let him build himself nd he will find a woman well deserving of him

neocortex:


In this context, I think she believes that if a man asked a woman out,
it is a sign of love and even if he rejects her, she expects him to stick around till
she agrees, that will be true love to her.

Since men men don't stick around, that means real love doesn't exist.

True sha.

lilyqueen:
Real love doesn't exist

Hmmmmm......

What den do u mean?

are you saying you don't love ur parents,frnds,bros,sister,cousins etc.....

Or you Dnt Evn love urself.....

I can u say Lov Dnt exist,Dnt u love sumtin, money,cars,houses,dress,shoes,films,etc....

Dat u Dnt Hv a lover Dnt mean Lov Dnt exist... . your parents love u,Dats y dey didn't let u die as a kid.....

There is love...

U exist today out of d love ur dad had for ur mum,Wich unfold u as d sign of their love....... or can u willingly sleep someone u hate?

incase u Dnt knw,ur a symbol of love,ask ur parents dey will tell u....

halfricanadian:


for real no reasonable woman will leave d arms of a man that truly shows her love

nd for my type dat stays during thick nd thin if i shd leave a guy it means volumious pains is wat i feel i wish any one Good luck

#smiles i cant force any one to love me

i hold onto God

a man marries nd treats very very well d woman he truly loves

if u are being maltreated nd treated like trash he doesnt love u

u are an option he needs till he finds d woman he wud giv d white wedding gown to
#no hard feelings

I remember this topic created by you: https://www.nairaland.com/2980370/deeply-sorry-love

**Lady in brown things**

gimakon:


It does my dear. Only maybe you and some other girls spent your time possibly dating the extreme wrong fùck boys who only know swag, and pussy...

Don't be offended. But there are still some good guys out there who want a decent girl.

Cheers.

You nailed it Bro, ppl like me

interested in a marriage bound rshp in Owerri? whatsapp 07033742944.....

lilyqueen:


High rate of break up and divorce

Is your parents divorced?, if No,then correct yourself and change your orientation. With this type of orientation as a young girl,you will always fall into the wrong hands.

halfricanadian:
no big deal if he had treated d lady on brown well she wud av accepted his calls nd chat

he probably truly loved d one he married nd not d lady on brown

so i wouldnt blame d lady on brown actually

if a man leaves me to marry my a frnd of mine or any lady i wont b mad

u truly loved her dan me #smiles

an indicator u were cheating on d lady on brown nd showering d one u married with love till u married her

no hard feelings

I disagree with your first paragraph, some girls can form,I remembered in school one idoma girl that I have good plans for treated me like the girl in brown cloth for two years and when I met my wife and dating her she started showing interest but then it was too late because I don't believe in double dating. Some girls can be so confused and don't know what they want in life..

lilyqueen:
Real love doesn't exist

. U can't trust what you can't see..you can't trust wat u can't touch...so how do you explain love?

lilyqueen:
Real love doesn't exist

. U can't trust what you can't see..you can't trust wat u can't touch...so how do you explain love?TALIB KWELI

halfricanadian:


for real no reasonable woman will leave d arms of a man that truly shows her love

nd for my type dat stays during thick nd thin if i shd leave a guy it means volumious pains is wat i feel i wish any one Good luck

#smiles i cant force any one to love me

i hold onto God

a man marries nd treats very very well d woman he truly loves

if u are being maltreated nd treated like trash he doesnt love u

u are an option he needs till he finds d woman he wud giv d white wedding gown to
#no hard feelings

just shut it already. Someone tried showing u love and u threw it away and came online here to post this trash. Mchew

MissHatey:
most sensible comment so far

. Sensible, shove that back, so if I ask a girl out and she refused, continue follow up for like 6months!!!!!, and she still refused,, that really mean she is not into me, trying out some else is not a bad idea at all anyone, even someone close to you ... Most nigerian girls have this mentality of rejecting a guy advances, even tho she likes him, hoping to mean a great value to him when she finally say YES... Like some1 posted earlier in the previous post, no matter how much U loved her... Love can ALWAYS be found elsewhere....

donbenedict:
just shut it already. Someone tried showing u love and u threw it away and came online here to post this trash. Mchew

tank u sorry if my post bothered u

Without sincerity, there can hardly be true love. The basic irony of life is that everyone wants to be so loved but only few themselves show so much love. Generally, people do not know the value of what they've got until they lose it. True love is patient. It is forgiving. It tolerates and encourages. It endures the hurt of the other and is hopeful of change someday without a date in sight. True love gives too much. It is not an equation that balances. It bears a lot of load. Sometimes, it does not get appreciated until its bearer ceases to exist. No one knows all and we all differ hence we quit at different times after we noticed the absence of reciprocity. Life is a mystery and all man to himself. Not all will find true love. Not all will find fulfilment in this life. Some will not be wealthy but barely comfortable yet they will find true love. Some with all their wealth and popularity live behind the scenes heart broken. But for true love, it does exist.

lilyqueen:
Real love doesn't exist

Enya, seem u were heartbroken B4, sowi

halfricanadian:
no big deal if he had treated d lady on brown well she wud av accepted his calls nd chat

he probably truly loved d one he married nd not d lady on brown

so i wouldnt blame d lady on brown actually

if a man leaves me to marry my a frnd of mine or any lady i wont b mad

u truly loved her dan me #smiles

an indicator u were cheating on d lady on brown nd showering d one u married with love till u married her

no hard feelings

I disagree with u, probably d lady on brown might be playing hard to get, and peradventure, d guy is ready to settle down and due to d lack of attention dat d lady on brown refuse to give to d guy, and he decided to move on, so dat doesn't mean d guy was cheating on d lady on brown, cos she neva give d guy a chance to proof his love to her, after some years, she will end up in church praying for a guy to come her way to marry her, or end up being a second wife elsewhere, She will definitely regret her action, we are all human

holluphemydavid:

I disagree with u, probably d lady on brown my be playing hard to get, and peradventure, d guy is ready to settle down and due to d lack of attention dat d lady on brown refuse to give to d guy, and he decided to move on, so dat doesn't mean d guy was cheating on d lady on d brown, cos she neva giv d guy a chance to proof his love to her, after someone years, she will end up in church praying for a guy to come her way to marry her. She will definitely regret her action, we are all human

ok tank u

lilyqueen:
Real love doesn't exist

Wrong, bad and dangerous mindset. When you finally find true love one day, your story and perception will take a 180 degree turn.

lilyqueen:
Real love doesn't exist

Thank you my sister. That word 'love' is a scam.

shotin:
. Sensible, shove that back, so if I ask a girl out and she refused, continue follow up for like 6months!!!!!, and she still refused,, that really mean she is not into me, trying out some else is not a bad idea at all anyone, even someone close to you ... Most nigerian girls have this mentality of rejecting a guy advances, even tho she likes him, hoping to mean a great value to him when she finally say YES... Like some1 posted earlier in the previous post, no matter how much U loved her... Love can ALWAYS be found elsewhere....

your opinion, my opinion. Why do you have to shove