During the early years were a man going to war was a family honour. The question now is as a guy would you do it to honour your wife from being a laughing stock among her mates and as lady would you support him to go or rather have him a be disgraced. kindly reply,we are tring to have a pool about how brave men of nowadays are.

Don't let him go, he may never come back.

iice:

If he's going to war for his honor, his code, his person - then yes _{the samurai is all about honor}

If he's going so that i won't be a laughing stock but has nothing to do with his person, then no. Never really cared for what people say

Co-signed!

Do men still go to war? I'm not in the army,so i don't see it coming up. But if there was a war going on and volunteers were needed,i don't see myself signing up. Apart from the fact that i don't believe in war(i think picking up a gun and killing another human being is morally wrong),my family and being with the people i love is very important to me. I wouldn't risk losing them.

if he has to and its unavoidable, pray for him.

but if what he wants is advice on whether he should go for war, then I wouldnt let him.

no way

never

i dont really care about what people say

and noooooooo i wouldnt allow him except he his going to war for his honour

No way.

i can't, anybody wey wan laugh make dem laugh well well, if e die for there i go be widow, i don't need that type of bravery

No way oh. I cant let my hubby/son go to war because I really dont believe in it there is a much better way to settle differences.