Caravan:
Buying engagement rings when proposing to a lady, and wearing it as a sign that you are engaged to someone to be married, is just one of the aspects of society that fucking annoys me.

It's things like this that epitomizes the delusion of the modern man. A delusional person is someone who stares in the face reality, but yet, chooses to lay hold to illusions.

Humans are divided into two genders, for the primary purpose of reproduction. So basically, we were created to have sex with each other and give birth to more of our species.
But over the years, humans have decided to divert from this preprogrammed sexually polygamous nature, and chosen to live in monogamy, that is, having one wife and starting a family and all that culturally condition crap.
I have no issue with this at all. At least this conventional system, helps us live more civilized lives. But what is silly, is when we decide to create all these new rubbish like wedding ceremonies, wedding rings, engagement rings, just for the sake of finding one random human and deciding to reproduce with her. This my friends, is foolishness and delusion of the highest order.

Gflat:


Welcome to the 21st century.

Lalasticlala.

TrapQueen77:



Who doesn't want a 5-carat diamond on a 22carat white gold?



But ofcurz it always depend on how much ur man can afford sha... Not all men can afford even a 1-carat diamond...

Caravan:


What's the difference between a 22carat white gold and a pebble you pick on the sea shore?

TrapQueen77:





Gold has Value on the market ofcurz... U dey craze for asking me such kweshun...

Caravan:


Now, if you weren't told that gold has more value than a piece of stone, would you ascribe such value to gold?

TrapQueen77:




Even those monks ln the mountain knows tat d gold and diamond have the highest appraisal even on the so called black market... So why insist abt the value of pebbles tat u juz pick on the sidewalk?

Caravan:


Don't get worked up. I am just trying to explain to you, that value is a social construct. A log of fire wood and a small chunk of gold, don't have any objective value that separates them. Value is a subjective quality. But what the leaders and legislates of society do, is that they take a piece of matter that should normally have a subjective value, and then place objective importance on it, and condition everyone to think that it's inherently more valuable that every other form of matter.
Had it been you were born in a parallel universe where such value wasn't placed on gold but on a piece of stone, you'd still be conditioned to think that stone has more value than gold.

So, if someone proposes to you with a 22 carat white gold, and you feel on top of the world, and you take it to show all your friends, and take pictures of it and post on Instagram and Facebook, you are just being delusional. A cosmologically insignificant specie of primates, wallowing in a cesspool of illusions.

TrapQueen77:






Blah blah blah..... Go find someone u can talk to..
Maybe those someone like u...

Caravan:


Humans have a natural tendency to develop resentment for anything that threatens their pride and false sense of importance. So I am not in any way surprised by your reaction.

The truth indeed is bitter.

TrapQueen77:




Waaaaaaaaahh! I'm sore-prised !!!! U and ur mumuness are real..