[b]Welcome to adult's world!!! Yes, this is one of life's challenges that gets you thinking seriously about life. But remember this, whatever challenges you might meet in life, you are equal to the task! I suggest you stick with your girlfriend and baby (she is not your wife yet, until you are legally married, that's the truth). Remain independent and the man God has made you to be for the sake of the young family you have just created. Obviously, your parents are not happy right now but, regretting their negative attitudes towards you and your young family hence, the call back home.  

Though you did wrong in a way (doing the right thing at the wrong time!lol!!!) but, it's forgiveable and they should forgive it and I'm sure, given time they would.  You are not the first in this world to create a family out of wedlock and you won't be the last.  Thank God, your woman is educated hopefully, she too would get a job and with your joint income life would be much easier and more enjoyable.  Please, focus on your new family soon, mum and dad and the whole family (your paternal/maternal sides would come round to your point of view, ok!) You see, family and our culture do frown at this kind of thing but its not the end of the world as life still goes on.  So don't take it to heart! Remember, you too would frown at this behaviour should that your little girl grow up tomorrow and found herself in this kind of situation.  I'm sure as a dad, you would be quite upset, too.  So, don't be angry with your parent because they are looking out for you!

Right now, they felt disappointed in you (perhaps, they had greater expectations of you and, now!) and quite rightly so.  However, one can't ask for a BIGGER BLESSING than this.  Having your own child is a blessing and thank God for it! Millions can't have them! Though, they can buy them these days with money e.g. adoptions, IVF - In Vitro Fertilisation or Artificial Insemination, Sperm and Egg donation etc but, at the end of the day, it's still not the same as having your own - BLOOD is thicker than water, is it So, be thankful for your gift and face the challenges as they come! God be with you![/b]

Do you need a candid advice? You have to go back and receive their blessings. Your parents has all it takes for that relationship to be blessed. Am not saying that you go and live with them now that you have a wife and a child, but for you to receive their blessings that will make you a prosperous man. Thanks for doing the right thing.

@finemocha
you have strayed out of context here. Who cares if you like him or not. Get a life.

@poster
I wish u all the best with your relationships. Don't be hasty in decision making and continue to show love to you parents.

Onyegbule1212:

Do you need a candid advice? You have to go back and receive their blessings. Your parents has all it takes for that relationship to be blessed. Am not saying that you go and live with them now that you have a wife and a child, but for you to receive their blessings that will make you a prosperous man. Thanks for doing the right thing.

 nice one.  life is complicated as it is without parental blessings.

o boy, help and do yourself a big favour. do whatever you have to do to live in peace with your parents. it makes lifes journey better and easier.  

as theblessed said you will be angry if your daughter made same mistake so be gentle and swallow your pride.  every parent want the best for their kids.

ao=pologise to them and do everything to make sure they see the good side of your madam to be.
wish you luck

Don,t return to your parent house,do reconcile with them.you just proved that you are a strong man,my advise is that you draw close'to GOD,and take of your family.

Seun:

You're going through a really rough time, but things will ll get better if you stay focused.

Going to live with your parents will help you financially, but it won't help you grow as a person and it will be harmful to your girlfriend. They will make her life hell on earth. If that's how you want to repay her, then go back.

But I think you should stop having children until your situation improves. Use a condom or get a vasectomy and let your girlfriend start using the pill. For at least 10 years. You need to be a wise man, man, so you won't be poor forever.

So seun get sense brain (no insult intended) reach like this

They have made you realise that you are a man. Just stand on it.
But remember don't disobey them on important issues but for this one is not important.

Cheers

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