I've been meaning to post this since but you know, procrastination issh .
Now here goes the story;
A friend of mine came to meet me and said she was having issues with her boyfriend. Reason being that she had certain amount of money in her account and couldn't borrow him when he needed it for a project. He found out one day while snooping through her phone and he got angry so they had a quarrel. Note that this girl is a student and she is not dependent on her boo. Her boyfriend never asked her to borrow him any money but she was aware that he was in need of some cash. He got mad and called her all sorts of evil names and even questioned their love lol. He said she allowed him to go about looking for the money when she had it with her. He said she couldn't even help him in his time of need. Till date, they haven't resolved the issue.

Okay, This is the scenario. She probably had like 150k in her account and he needed 150k. He expected her to lend him all the money.

Well, I don't see anything wrong with what she did. I cannot give out all my savings in the name of 'boyfriend'. I can only give part of it if I trust Le boo and know that he will pay back. Please, I was born with common sense.

Ever since then, I've read stories similar to it and I can't help but laugh.

So what's your opinion? (Guys, please don't start telling me all that crap about how males spend on female and when its time to give back, they suddenly become broke. In this case, the guy doesn't really spend on her).

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The girl should have offered what she could.,.the guy has no right to question her coz he don't know why she kept the money beside he did not ask....just my view tho!!

And i know dey craze ehnn


nah she suffer for me ne mtcheww trash....!

I dont play my game that way.

With no particular reference to anyone buh some girls who become experts in common sense in times of the guy's needs usually throw the common sense to the dogs when the guy is using his school fees to meet her insatiable needs. At that point they don't care how he sourced the money, they count it as "proof of love ".
Onto the discussion : I have always maintained that at the stage of bf/gf, neither party is obliged to meet each others financial needs. The boy owes the girl no duty to meet her needs, ditto the lady.

To enjoy boyfriend and girlfriend, both should pretend there is no money
Immediately one find the other to be financially buoyant things changes.
Even for a finance ensure you tested his Financial prudency before disclosing to him
After marriage you are obligated to disclose all to him but not obligated to give him if you don't want to

honesty is very expensive nowadays

Depending on a girl will never be my portion, amen!



I want to succeed to the extent where i'd let whoever i'm marrying know that i'm a blessing onto her life.