please advice maturedly..


my girlfriend and i have been dating for 3 years now.. right from school.. she already told her parents about me but i haven't met them in person as i am afraid of commitments..

but then.. her mom's birthday is coming up later this month..

i won't be gracing the occasion but is it right to send her mom presents, calls and/or text messages (something never done before) from a "boy-friend-in-law"??


PS: babe isn't pressurizing me because she just graduated and i am currently serving.. however, we've been together long enough for both parties to meet our parents..



maybe lalasticlala can help push this to fp for more insights.. it's really bothering me