I heard most dating couples who have had sex several times, and about to get married, usually lie about it when they go for pre marriage counselling in church. Guess they do so, in order not to jeopadize their chances of getting married. Cos whenever they are asked by their Pastor if they've had sex before, they used to say No. Imagine people wey don sleep with each other tire, com marriage counselling for church come dey form saints...and in their hearts, they feel they are smart? But is it right to lie about such during marriage counselling?

Why must the councelor ask?

It depends, reasonable pastors shouldn't ask, if dey ask (maybe its in d rule to not to test b4 buying) , I just lie bt if dey r discreet about it, will say its been long, can't even remember wen..