Is it right? I have been married for 3 months plus and I'm not very close with the cousin, please respond.

In the same house or bq of the house?

3 month after marriage ke u better talk to yr wife nd hv a finally say.

Visitors should come after one year of marriage. Jst give her 3 days if she refuse u can do html on yr mind.

It can mean any other night with you occupyin ur mind with ur wife only.....and stop thinkin outta box

delishpot:
In the same house or bq of the house?

In the same house, I hv a guest room nd quite spacious parlor.

It's not right.You have just been newly married,can't he give you guys some space?

javadoctor:


In the same house, I hv a guest room nd quite spacious parlor.

Very wrong. What does your wife say about this?
Why does she bring in so eone you are not even close to? Understand if she has a sibling or relative you guys have adopted as one of you. But to bring in a stranger who in turn brings in strange women. Hmn...... to me O, it isn't nice. He should at least respect himself Na.

Berbierklaus:

What insolence

What is your wife's cousin doing in your house just 3 months after your wedding

Why are Nigerians like this

Lol, truth is he has been here once, and maybe thought I would be cool with idea, I'm a quite simple person,but this didn't seem right when my wife confronted me about it. Thanks @ least I know what steps to take

Ppl talking about the duration of the marriage

So if its 10yrs old marriage now,people can be bringing strangers to the house

As Saturday go be,na from Friday we dey sabi

You wldnt bring the matter here if u were comfy with it....stamp ur foot down and take that decision u wanna take

Those wey neva marry wey dey make mouth upandan,when e reach una turn we go see d stunt wey una go pull

It's not right. And never will be right.

Gosh! How values are fast eroding!!

You guys are newlyweds you need some privacy

Imagine that! It's not right, he should respect you, his cousin and your marriage. This handshake has extended beyond the elbow, I am sure your younger brother (if you have one) will think twice before bringing his girlfriend to your house with your wife in it. Some people have no sense of propriety.

I just wonder though, if it we're the wife making this complain about her husbands strange cousin living with them...... would people have stood behind her to say it is wrong, kick him out. Or would they have called her many unprintable names and said she was a bad wife, a modern wife and a family breaker?

A lady created a post about someone, a stranger living in her home and misbehaving, many NL ers insulted her, called her names and even asked her to serve the young man cos he would not live with them forever. I can see how lopsided peoples judgements are bas d on gender of the person making the complaint