I tell you because you have done this and have taken the right decision. A Job is coming for you, just continue to do the right thing and be on the side of righteousness. You will testify. I assure you.

euchaaria:
I'm still devastated...sequel to my last thread, https://www.nairaland.com/3339626/meet-me-mega-hilton-hotel I braced up yesterday and went ahead to meet the man yesterday.. He sat me down and went straight to the point, that if I don't lay with me i should forge about the job that he is untouchable..I was just staring at him, and as he finished talking,I just told him they"God bless you sir, you will surely be rewarded, I won't budge to your offer, but will keep on searching until God gives me my ordained job". I was almost in tears,but just struggled to hold my self and calmly walked out.. I'm still in bed till now, too weak to stand up..I leave the man to his fate , he has a score with whatever God he serves...

OP, were you not the one that posted going for an interview and you were later sent a mail requesting you to meet someone in a hotel?

Only the sly and the underhand succeed in today's world. 90% of successful people had to sacrifice a thing or two.

But good luck to you for following your heart.

Thank God you didn't slap him as someone adviced, you don't want to be struggling with a man who can over power you and rape you in the end. You rejected his evil demands in secret so wait and see how your God is going to elevate you in public like Joseph the slave boy to a prime minister. More testimonies coming your way. Get off your bed, be strong and forge ahead.

Summon strength and just praise God for one hour today. You will see the salvation of the Lord before the month runs out. I am expecting your testimony.

euchaaria:
I'm still devastated...sequel to my last thread, https://www.nairaland.com/3339626/meet-me-mega-hilton-hotel I braced up yesterday and went ahead to meet the man yesterday.. He sat me down and went straight to the point, that if I don't lay with me i should forge about the job that he is untouchable..I was just staring at him, and as he finished talking,I just told him they"God bless you sir, you will surely be rewarded, I won't budge to your offer, but will keep on searching until God gives me my ordained job". I was almost in tears,but just struggled to hold my self and calmly walked out.. I'm still in bed till now, too weak to stand up..I leave the man to his fate , he has a score with whatever God he serves...

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Now that you don't have the job, wouldn't it be wise to mention the company and the man so that all can ascertain how untouchable he is?

When you keep evils like this hidden, you are equally culpable in promoting evil in the society. In other words, you are promoting him by protecting his identity. You ran in here last week and was advised on how to get some evidence should the man give you unfavourable conditions.

If you cannot call him out, then keep the story and sob to yourself.
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Babes like u deserve a national honor .... weldone , urs is coming..... soon !

Charliiee:
so, according to you non-virgins have no right to say No to sexual advances, they shud just give in to everyone who wants it. Is that what your momma taught you? Then she must have been or still a ho'.

Non virgins gave up their virginity for a reason..

The reason could be love,money, desire to have sex or even pretty face of the partner...


There is always a reason for sex... She fvcks her bf for a reason...

This is another reason... Job offer

She is appearing a saint to you all. But if she would still fvck after today before marriage if she ain't already... Then satan would be laughing at her..


My advise is she should just abstain from sex if she wants god to answer that
Prayer up there.


It is hypocritical to say no to sex over a job offer but say yes to your bf over his sweet talks .


Sexual sin is sexual sin

6 and half a dozen mean the same thing..

so what were you thinking going to meet him in the hotel in the first place .. to do praise and worship? ..some how i don't believe your story..just one of them ladies trying to weep up sentiments on NL.

More than politely turning him down, you need to expose him. Let's test his untouchable theory.

You said it all...unless she can swear never to bleep till marriage ..as long as she dey straff somewhere else nothing like leaving up to God here matter ..all ladies straff for a reason ..

Phranex:


Non virgins gave up their virginity for a reason..

The reason could be love,money, desire to have sex or even pretty face of the partner...


There is always a reason for sex... She fvcks her bf for a reason...

This is another reason... Job offer

She is appearing a saint to you all. But if she would still fvck after today before marriage if she ain't already... Then satan would be laughing at her..


My advise is she should just abstain from sex if she wants god to answer that
Prayer up there.


It is hypocritical to say no to sex over a job offer but say yes to your bf over his sweet talks .


Sexual sin is sexual sin

6 and half a dozen mean the same thing..

maggilove:
You took the right decision my sister, leave him to God and you will get yours later.

Why are you crying over this ?

THE BEST THINGS IN LIFE COME WITH NO CONDITIONS ATTACHED.

If he blackmails you to sleep with him, it does not guarantee you an offer letter.

It tends to use and dump.

Even if you get the offer, he will keep blackmailing you on the job to either get favoured or get sacked, thats if he is not just a recruiter.

euchaaria:
I'm still devastated...sequel to my last thread, https://www.nairaland.com/3339626/meet-me-mega-hilton-hotel I braced up yesterday and went ahead to meet the man yesterday.. He sat me down and went straight to the point, that if I don't lay with me i should forge about the job that he is untouchable..I was just staring at him, and as he finished talking,I just told him they"God bless you sir, you will surely be rewarded, I won't budge to your offer, but will keep on searching until God gives me my ordained job". I was almost in tears,but just struggled to hold my self and calmly walked out.. I'm still in bed till now, too weak to stand up..I leave the man to his fate , he has a score with whatever God he serves...

you should set him up, i had a collegue who lost his job just because he was in HR, he slept with a girl with the promise to secure her a non existing job. She eventually reported him along with all evidence that she can muster.

SycophanticGoat:



Very useless comment from you!!! If she opens her legs thinking well, it's just sex, then for how long will it continue? You didn't even ask yourself this, what if she opens her legs but never gets the job?

And definitely, the fool will keep asking even when he managed to give her the job. Also, what if the guy is married, so she should be sleeping with a married man because of job?

I'm pretty sure you're the very man she met at the hotel!!

Now you ask yourself


What if she never gets a better offer ??

Her life would be full of regrets..

Its just sex.. I don't know why men ask for it so much and why women think their pvssy is a gift to men

euchaaria:
I'm still devastated...sequel to my last thread, https://www.nairaland.com/3339626/meet-me-mega-hilton-hotel I braced up yesterday and went ahead to meet the man yesterday.. He sat me down and went straight to the point, that if I don't lay with me i should forge about the job that he is untouchable..I was just staring at him, and as he finished talking,I just told him they"God bless you sir, you will surely be rewarded, I won't budge to your offer, but will keep on searching until God gives me my ordained job". I was almost in tears,but just struggled to hold my self and calmly walked out.. I'm still in bed till now, too weak to stand up..I leave the man to his fate , he has a score with whatever God he serves...

Hello Omoh,

For real you should not have even visited the hotel since it was clear what intent he has.

Most ladies who gave in to such, ended up having to deal with it for as long as they are in that office. Every single refusal comes with dismal threat.

Intelligent; you could have engaged him with conversations on phone or chats and there probably get his sense right.

He saw something he could not take his eyes off, yet that substance still went into his arena and you think he will listen to you?

In all, please stay by this decison in all aspacts and not only to people of his kind.

I sent another mail, do response back when you strong and refreshed.

Very good. You tooked the write decesion

pat1612:
You did the right thing but would have been more appropriate for you to slap him in front of all people in hotel and cry so when they ask you what happen you could have told them story and embarrass him in full view.
A walk of shame would have followed which would have made you feel better

Just my view no offence intended

This is Nigeria where unfortunately, if a lady slaps a man and even where the man was wrong, people will still blame the lady for raising her hand on a man (warped thinking really) and if the man is the type that beats, people will only stand by and watch the man beat the living daylight out of her. They will justify their apathy by saying how could a woman slap a man. In the circumstance, she did the right thing by walking away.

Euchariaaa....your job will come at its own time, exercise faith and patience

Phranex:



Now you ask yourself


What if she never gets a better offer ??

Her life would be full of regrets..

Its just sex.. I don't know why men ask for it so much and why women think their pvssy is a gift to men

Is it by force to have sex with everyone that asks?

Why would a job offer be based on your sexual performance? Is the job role that for a pornographic movie?

You should learn to condemn what's wrong, and this has nothing to do with religious beliefs.

Even if she doesn't practice any religion, and is in an open relationship, having sex with her should never be tied to a job offer.

Who does that if not a pervert that should be locked up?.....

euchaaria:
I'm still devastated

Sorry for what happened. It was just a case of a lame lion and a monkey. The man just used psychology on u. Your actions showed u were desperate and probably, gave him the impression that u regard him so he capitalized on that. I can bet u that he's a liar and a nobody. The 'untouchable' stunt was just to intimidate u. If u had suggested to meet at a bigger hotel, he would have a rethink and tread softly. Using the bigger hotel trick is just to intimidate him psychologically too to show u are not who he thinks u are. You accepting his invitation and going alone gave him the advantage.
Being untouchable is relative. If someone claims to be untouchable, make yourself look like you are more than untouchable. It's a mind thing. NEVER GIVE someone else ADVANTAGE over you.

sorry about that..... you should have gone with someone who will take some video clips or you take some audio clips and forward it to any women right agency let them finish him up.

euchaaria:

I must confess you're warming up to your dream job.
What you just did in this case is ironically but positively working in your favor as you climb on in life, am so proud of you right now, and let me authoritatively announce to you that within the next few days, all of us here in Nairaland would wake up to read of your having problem in choosing from dream jobs opportunities begging for your hand.. Believe me.

Stand up from that bed and be happy for I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. Once more Congrats!!
Am awaiting your testimony. Please don't hesitate to mention when it happens. I want to celebrate you,weldone dear.

pat1612:
You did the right thing but would have been more appropriate for you to slap him in front of all people in hotel and cry so when they ask you what happen you could have told them story and embarrass him in full view.
A walk of shame would have followed which would have made you feel better

Just my view no offence intended

That was an unintelligent advice, it's good she left, but telling her to slap the man over sexual advances will just ruin her a long way, people will even think she is a call girl.

Hmmm.... who knows... the man body may be HIV positive.... sharing the virus with all those seeking job/job security.
Such guys need to be set up.... video taped...bank accounts drained.... then put on blast on social media.

Shegricho:


That was an unintelligent advice, it's good she left, but telling her to slap the man over sexual advances will just ruin her a long way, people will even think she is a call girl.

Will you think that she is a call girl if you were their in hotel and she slapped because the guy was asking for sexual favor after knowing truth will you still think she call girl or the guy is pervert
Choice is your for me i would have taken her side
Different people different view that's what make us unique. Way we think define way we are

Just my view no offence intended

euchaaria:
I'm still devastated...sequel to my last thread, https://www.nairaland.com/3339626/meet-me-mega-hilton-hotel I braced up yesterday and went ahead to meet the man yesterday.. He sat me down and went straight to the point, that if I don't lay with me i should forge about the job that he is untouchable..I was just staring at him, and as he finished talking,I just told him they"God bless you sir, you will surely be rewarded, I won't budge to your offer, but will keep on searching until God gives me my ordained job". I was almost in tears,but just struggled to hold my self and calmly walked out.. I'm still in bed till now, too weak to stand up..I leave the man to his fate , he has a score with whatever God he serves...

Your testimony is on the way already. When the temptations high,it means miracle is at the door. You have nothing & I mean nothing to regret in life about your decision..I can tell you assuredly you will return to this page to share your testimony. If you had done his bidding you would have stopped God from doing what he has ordained for you in the spirit realm. Congrats in advance

"Grace his bed" and not "grease his bed".

MilesLamar:
Oh dear, I don't knw who u are, but I will look for you and marry you

your mumuness must be cured...
Bring that ya head here

XX01:
"Grace his bed" and not "grease his bed".

No wonder she did not pass the interview

Virgin maria di aso! I sight you. You been sleeping with your poor boifriend for a plate of indomie but can't sleep with a guy man for your future good. If you are a virgin, then thumbs up, but if not, com'on gerrout!

Lucky you, i used to know a christian lady whom was lured by her boss and struggled to reject been slept with at last hour but failed. Time to marry, church marriage Councillors sent them for medical test and she tested positive for HIV. Everyone stood by her in her trying period even the spouse to be did not stop his financial support until she enrolled at LUTH HIV clinic.

Next time flee and never be curios to visit when you know what is at stake.

It happened everywhere. A popular philanthropy announced in a popular university during convocation to give a first class student job. The girl happily went to there Lagos office and the P.A. gave her flight ticket and some money to go and wait for chairman in a popular big hotel in Abuja.
She did not need a soothsayer to tell her what would have transpired there.

I know it is tough for ladies to stay moral in this present situation. It is easy for guys to condemn but if some have opportunities they will do more.

Prospero01:
No matter how terrible the economy may be, people are still getting jobs without compromising anything and am sure yours won't be an exception. The idiot thinks getting you the job is the be all to life. There's one thing getting the job but another thing is remaining on the job which is not in his power to guarantee.

You are right. A Fren of mine is resuming today after resigning from another job a month ago. it is about having a skill or value to offer . For new graduates, the case is like a camel going thru d eye if a needle .

Zedoo:


Can you advice your sister same
If you heard your mum bleeped a man to get the job she s currently on BEFORE marrying your dad....and you get to see the man what would your reaction be? Chai.... Naija ppl dun sell their soul finish..... Do you know that once she sleeps with him it will never stop as long as she wants to keep that job??,

It's not in anyway different from her sleeping with anyone she's not married to.

I take no pity on any man or woman who okays premarital sex but complains against sex for marks or for job.

Tell me you are married or you are in abstaining for fear of God and you would have my back.

Not if you are indulging with people of your choice you come in public to spread self pity.

FORNICATION IS FORNICATION,whether done for advantage or for fun.