I heard of this man in Lagos state. He is around 30 years of age, he already has 12 kids and he doesn't even have a particular job he is doing.... And then the kids come to the world to suffer, such kids will never forgive him...

Metroman7:


Op's assumption is based on aggregate...Asking questions is the basis of philosophy and everone has freedom to ask questions and everone is entitled to an opinion. It is only through that we learn. However ops use of the word "Dog" is improper. But to tell you the truth there have been a lot of conributions including yours which has really brought this topic to limelight, As the contributors have ushered reasons from a whole new perspective/ dimension. hence, it has passed for a good question now a good topic of discourse.

may you live long for being clinically objective in your honest and true submission

FelixCulpa:
Educate me brother...

[size=16pt]First of all you have still failed to do the needful by calling people 'dogs' for giving birth to many kids.
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I made it clear that there are people who were having many kids who are not that rich. I only pointed to the Kennedy family as an example of a rich couple having a large family. I never made any attempt to justify bringing more kids into the world if you can't cater for them. I stated that its a 'choice'.

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Now you present 2face as the archetypal man who can cater for his family. FYI he's no better than those who bring kids into the world who don't have as much money as you would call 'rich'. But I guess that in your world, money is all that a child needs. And don't presume that you know what is happening to those kids now even as their father keeps sending money. And you don't know whether or not problems will arise in the long run.
In summary, 2face is ok, but the other lots are 'dogs'. In mama patie voice "kontinu" smh, seriously

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And nowhere did I say it is reasonable to NOT take account of your capabilities. We have equally heard of many cases where women abandoned their husbands so they could collect millions of dollars and vice versa. The point is, the couple who would stay together would stay together. And who is to say that women don't leave their husbands for same reason as you pointed out?
In summary, the argument of men leaving their family because of financial difficult is dead and can't even arrive here.

[size=16pt]No hard feelings bro but still you have to do the needful. That is the sole reason I replied you post[/size]

You talk of doing the needful, and I believe it's on your emphasis on the dog smilies. . But I believe you know that a thread that reaches FP has been locked out from editing or corrections?

bongolistik:
You talk of doing the needful, and I believe it's on your emphasis on the dog smilies. . But I believe you know that a thread that reaches FP has been locked out from editing or corrections?

Well, I wouldn't say I'm a Nairaland superstar. I just got to know that now. That's part of education I guess...

But all the same, you could do it at as a reply to the thread. Personally I won't care to see if you did it or not. Like I said. No hard feelings. But we never know what tomorrow might bright. You may be faceless today but I believe only one hot slap can make Seun divulge a mail address which google or yahoo will not waste time to provide the registered name to......and so and so.

I just hope you accept that it was a mistake and do whatever you can to correct it even if not 100%.

Na man you be.

Ofatfoed:
I heard of this man in Lagos state. He is around 30 years of age, he already has 12 kids and he doesn't even have a particular job he is doing.... And then the kids come to the world to suffer, such kids will never forgive him...

This man no try at all. Even me know some people like that but na wetin man go do na?

Similarly there are kids who have it all but eventually say to their mom and/or dad. "I won't forgive you for not being there for me." And then mom and/or dad would cry "I did it all for you" and the kids will be like...

bongolistik:
always sounding funny as if you truly got some valuable points all alone. Maybe you were not following the thread from the beginning. Were you the first to call me out? Then why are you selfishly sounding as if you are the only one trying to make common sense? The question you should ask yourself is; why you since you were not even the first to call me out?

Oh please shut up. You should answer that question yourself. Why do you keep quoting me?? Fact of the matter is that what I'm saying is the truth and you just can't handle it!

bongolistik:
It might sound disrespectful, but we did not mention any name. So please which other animals or thing that gives birth in galore and that doesn't sound disrespectful to you so we can use for the comparison?

PIG

MissGdope:

Oh please shut up. You should answer that question yourself. Why do you keep quoting me?? Fact of the matter is that what I'm saying is the truth and you just can't handle it!

I can't handle it? ... hahaha, you never seems to stop amusing me and making me laughing like a jackass. In your mind you see yourself as a super constructive criticiser that can easily make one grow cold feet at your supposedly axiomatic jabs. But what you don't know is that we write everyday and we receive earthquaking criticism in galores that have not in any way hampered our honest intentions at what we do. We have equally absorbed them like shock absorbers and still set things straight without being deterred.. . And in your mind you think your tiny jab is causing us trouble that we cannot handle, according to you.. Please stop amusing me, because I don't want to roll on the floor in laughter. Maybe you so much enjoy my replies and you intend to keep them coming as long as you can.. I am sorry, not gonna reply you again so you can concentrate on other things. Thank you for equally contributing on my epic thread.

misscall247:
What is wrong with one learning trade?

there is no thing wrong with it ooo. Its just that when a poor man gives birth to many children, he is simply making life hard for them. To eat, to put on good clothes will be difficult for the children. And sometimes some of them end up jobless which makes them to join dangerous group of people.

Its simple , the rich guys have plenty sources of relaxation and recreation.

He can play golf, register with a fitness club, learn a hobby go to the casino.

The poor man has only 1 source of recreation : sex with his wife, he has no money to play golf or goto spa and club he neither has the funds to rent prostitutes or side chicks ( something the rich guys does easily infact he rents other people's wives and daughters clean ones for that matter)

A situation where you have a man whose only means of relaxation is sex with his wife coupled with 24hrs of uninterrupted idleness, you begin to see why the wive gets pregnant every 3 months.

Everything about the poor is poor. including their mentality. thought of it before now though

jagugu88li:
Comparing people to dogs is very disrespectful.

I guess this trend is because many have close to no access to family planning. Also, literate ladies tend to focus more on their careers, making them start families later on, contrary to illiterate ladies. Poor communities have a high death rate, so they always feel like compensating their loss. Truth be spoken, one never gets fulfilled because the dead child remains dead, while the parents keep popping out more "compensatory kids".

Silly me thinks making babies becomes a hobby since there are no jobs, no one goes to school, no deadlines etc.

Family planning been popular since the time of IBB, the truth is that in some communities people are awarded cheiftancy titles for having 12 children, some its religious beliefs while others its pure ignorance.
I once lived in a rural community where i discovered that majority of the women here does not have more than 3 kids and on my investigation, i discovered that most of the women here are into traditional family planning and these are even local women.

bongolistik:
I can't handle it? ... hahaha, you never seems to stop amusing me and making me laughing like a jackass. In your mind you see yourself as a super constructive criticiser that can easily make one grow cold feet at your supposedly axiomatic jabs. But what you don't know is that we write everyday and we receive earthquaking criticism in galores that have not in any way hampered our honest intentions at what we do. We have equally absorbed them like shock absorbers and still set things straight without being deterred.. . And in your mind you think your tiny jab is causing us trouble that we cannot handle, according to you.. Please stop amusing me, because I don't want to roll on the floor in laughter. Maybe you so much enjoy my replies and you intend to keep them coming as long as you can.. I am sorry, not gonna reply you again so you can concentrate on other things. Thank you for equally contributing on my epic thread.

what an idiot. Why are you referring to yourself as "we"? Yes I said you can't handle it and I stand by that. If you could, you would have stopped replying me like 3 quotes ago. All you can say now is how much I'm making laugh? Like seriously? Dude don't think so highly of yourself as a writer that is so used to criticism. You are far from that. Like I said before, you are just one of the numerous Internet warriors that complain, state the obvious about issues but are too lazy to get off their behinds to do something. You my friend, are an attention seeker. You got your attention, now shoo

bongolistik:
It might sound disrespectful, but we did not mention any name. So please which other animals or thing that gives birth in galore and that doesn't sound disrespectful to you so we can use for the comparison?

I think dogs are even more intelligent. Rabbits are more like it.

titosantana:

Hey come on, rich folks have sex more than the poor. They have the materials to entice different women.

yea, you might be right.

IamWestAfrican:


Agreed that the poor, due to their financial deficiencies, have little to zero access to qualitative living, yet, why is mortality rate evenly distributed among the three societal classes in Nigeria? It really doesn't matter. In fact, it seems the poor are outliving the bourgeoise.

Your premise that the poor are guilty of indiscriminate child-breeding because they intend to make up for their downsized population is wrong.


You should have listed more germane causes like:

—Illteracy, and non-knowledge of family planning

—Inaccessibility to contraceptives, either due to cost, or due to poor orientation towards the usage of condoms et al.

—Non-knowledge of vasectomy e.t.c.

Where is your statistacs to butress that mortality rate is evenly distributed??

And again it is not like the poor are outliving the bourgeoises. No, the former procreates daily hence exceeds the latter interms of population. To be a bourgeoise is a luxury in every contemporary society my guy. It doesn't come cheap.

habsydiamond:
there is no thing wrong with it ooo. Its just that when a poor man gives birth to many children, he is simply making life hard for them. To eat, to put on good clothes will be difficult for the children. And sometimes some of them end up jobless which makes them to join dangerous group of people.

aha better,I all most obstructd a pastor yesterday wen he said somtin similar to dis



because evri body can not work in d oil sector dsame time


if u see a graduate trade is always different to non-graduate

bongolistik:
It might sound disrespectful, but we did not mention any name. So please which other animals or thing that gives birth in galore and that doesn't sound disrespectful to you so we can use for the comparison?

My bro, you did no wrong. In fact calling them dogs was being nice. This topic really irks me! It's as plain as day - the lower your income, the lower should be your expenses and children happen to guzzle money whether 1 or 12. I get so upset when I see poverty striken women with 5 do-re-mi kids and she backing another with yet another swollen tummy! I have no words...no words!

misscall247:
aha better,I all most obstructd a pastor yesterday wen he said somtin similar to dis



because evri body can not work in d oil sector dsame time


if u see a graduate trade is always different to non-graduate

style and settings will always differentiate them from one another. Even with the present economy state of this country its will serve as an alternative for a graduate who learn trade in case there is no white collar job.

They have time for each other and they use sec ad sources of happiness...... Olohun run fi ase si...... Rich people having a lot of different sex but they can produce much lol

Because their only form of recreation is sex. Rich people have the money to go places. My biology teacher said this.

It is just so annoying to see these innocent kids being born to suffer the ignorance of their parents. There's more to child-raising than meets the eye.

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