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Re: The Desperation To Get Married by livinbygrace: 8:56pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
My dear brother,am feeling same here.I have dated many ladies but never took any serious,Infact i never imagined myself still single at 35,sometimes feels lonely and depressed.Its not been easy at all,and I just wonder what a single lady o my age would be going through if as a man I can be feeling uncomfortable. 4 Likes |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by oglalasioux(m): 8:57pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
Marriage is only a ploy by men of olden days to perpetually subdue women. It's overhyped and a major reason a lot of wrong is in the society. That one institution that blows fire with water in it's mouth called religion has used the marriage institution to over load world population while it doesn't have a clue on how to curtail the pathology and hunger that accompany it. It's time marriage is de-emphasized so that our energies will be put into the right things which chief among them is to end poverty, diseases and wars. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Tobium1(m): 8:58pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
Do u have a well paid job? Or do u have a business dat can assure u of steady inflow cash? Do u have a car? If yes is ur answer, den dere's no nid for desperation, a typical nigerian girl will locate byforce 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by sisisioge: 8:59pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
shaybebaby: 1 Like |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by mzdeee(f): 8:59pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
It is not about how far but how well |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by nonjebose(m): 8:59pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
sisisioge:Sharpness |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by jieta: 8:59pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
cindybaby22:DAT one ni be a foo l at 40. |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Nobody: 9:00pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
proddey: I would have showed you the traditional way to do it but meh its no use. If you are good looking. Just post on your Twitter and fb that you need a woman for marriage. Check your DM/ inbox the next day. 1 Like |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by xtervaganza(m): 9:01pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
cindybaby22:I'm not a tribalist, but are you ibo? If yes it's common for ibo meb to marry late I know quite a lot in Ibadan here over 40 who are still very single 1 Like |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by udysweet(f): 9:02pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
Beautiful write up. Matured contributions too. @Op may God help you locAte your missing rib. And to all hoping too, may we all be matched to the "One" for us. And may God grant us the spirit f discernment to identify those who have come to stay or play,Amen 4 Likes |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by claremont(m): 9:02pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
Marriage is an over-rated institution. It's not abnormal for a man not to be keen on marriage, it just goes to show that he is an independent thinker going against societal norms. Get a long-term girlfriend or partner, and enjoy the best of both worlds. Been then, done that, learnt my lesson, will think twice anf thrice next time. 2 Likes |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by naijaboiy: 9:04pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
ammyluv2002:So it's now girls that get over heartbreaks easily right? |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by 1metre: 9:04pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
[quote author=sisisioge post=49563540]OK, pls say no more...will you marry me? I know there will be times when you'll wonder if you made the right choice but hey, we will do a lot of laughing? Come and marry me.[/quote |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by ammyluv2002(f): 9:06pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
naijaboiy:Yeah |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Cutehector(m): 9:06pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
You are still unmarried because you kept on chasing what wasn't important. I"ve given myself a marriage deadline. By age 30 I MUST be married. Whether I have money or not! |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by CuteMorriz: 9:08pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
mysticgal:After reading just this article that I am not quite sure is genuine you have reached a conclusion...Jeez...God abeq no give lady with just a mm brain... |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Taryur3(m): 9:08pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
beautiful232: |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by xtervaganza(m): 9:08pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
Once you get married you'll know what's up Not everyone is built for marriage. Some people should just have kids and not marry to be honest Marriage at times can be insufferable 4 Likes |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by joinnow: 9:09pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
proddey: It all depends on what you Want. Assuming you want a nurse as wife Step to take. 1. Go to general hospital or top 10 hospital in your vicinity with a friend 2. Stay at the gate and choice the one you want 3. Follow the nurse to her ward 4. Book a date with her provided you ask her if she not married yet. If unsuccessful Repeat the cycle. This is just the easy format bro Note you are not perfect so even in your widest dream do not expect a perfect woman |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by DoctorAlien(m): 9:11pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
cindybaby22: Them dey follow am from village. Chief priest dey look im destiny from mirror. 1 Like |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by oluwasegun007(m): 9:12pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
" one day I was on my bed in my bedroom and suddenly I felt a rush of emotions come upon me so strongly that all of a sudden I just began to realise that I was desperate to get married. " na ur pikin wey dey ur scrotal sac dey wipe u cane u no no..... 14 Likes |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by SuperBlack: 9:12pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
VikingsOO7:Copy and Paste you mean? |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by yuzedo: 9:12pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
There are 365 LONG-âss days in a typical year. The average person hopes to be married by 30, and die at 90yrs. That is 60 motherfücking years of marriage, multiplied by those 365 LONG-âss days first mentioned. Now that we have established a mental picture of the INFINITE length (i.e. 365 days x 60 years) of a potential relationship with someone who CANNOT love you like you love yourself (or at all, as a matter of fact), let me for the love of GOD, ask; What is "desperation", and WHY will you have it? 14 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by mysticgal(f): 9:13pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
CuteMorriz:What's an mm brain? Besides, desperation do not just happen to a particular gender but to all genders and this conclusion is irrespective of the fact the Ops article was genuine or not. Mmmmm Have a nice day 2 Likes |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by CuteMorriz: 9:14pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
TV01:I love this guy he thinks just like me...I have also read some of ur posts...you always think before you type....emmmmm...mama biola bring one OriJin for my niggur |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by jnrbayano(m): 9:14pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
Cutehector: Hahahahahahaha. It's not about deadlines. Believe me. You may disagree, but its okay. 1 Like |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Nobody: 9:14pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
SuperBlack:He said its a "continuation". |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by chronique(m): 9:14pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
Easier said than done. Those days,I used to say latest by 27,I'd be married but 27 came,and marriage didn't happen. 30 and more has come and gone,et no show. Thirty something plus is counting and we don't even know what tomorrow holds. Just pray you never get to experience it. Cutehector: 5 Likes |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by honeygirl17: 9:16pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
proddey:Hmmmm....OK o |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by MrPresident1: 9:17pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
yuzedo: it is the inate desire to be complete and be complemented. Male and female God created us, one part is incomplete without the other. |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by abimbawealth(f): 9:19pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
Hmmmm |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Melsan: 9:19pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
gidjah:Uncle gidjah,oto oro le so yi oooo |
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