to be a man is not a days job. ordinarily it shouldnt be a one way spending, both parties are suppose to shower gifts on each oda.
but if you choose to be a playa then be man enough to carry the responsibilty and in this case wife/wives, galfriend(s), and concubines should be your responsibility.

no be lie, NEEDEEG.

yes some are to be avoided
and some ignored while otherare
to nither here nore there

still me

Its interesting just what emotions an innocent thread could generate.I even sense one or two people reaping romantic dividends from the very exciting discussions.But,My position still remains that the way women tend to want to run men down financially during festive seasons like christmas etc,men need to deivise a stay-away-from women policy if only to protect that hard-earned monies.

Crazy. Did anybody force you to them. You want to receive only. Too bad.

the answr is NO

If he doesn't have money, I'd advice him to run

y i think dats wen dey need men most,someone to cling to so as not be lonley,someone to have sex with.

i dont tink aman should avoid deir spouse durin xmas infact its a period to be more klose 2 dem 2 mak dem fill loved

My sweet loving Radiant. I am not a lier and I honestly don't want to fight over you but i did mention your case to my dad and you know what he said? If you love her then go after her, you have my full support.

I am bidding my time though cos there is a popular saying saying that says if you love something then let it go, if it comes back then it is yours but if it did not then it was never meant to be yours and i know you are mine though.

Osegwu, I don't think it's my own Radiant you talking about

Yes ooo!! during Christmas period, just tell her your mama wey don die say make u go village go do some spiritual cleansing. thereby avoid getting her anything for that period. Do that more often in any occasion but do change the pattern of the lie

Christmas is my favorite time of the year , not just for presents but because the New Year is coming and I get chance to start over, Plus I would simply love a 2 carat yellow and white diamond ring set in 18 karat/ Rose gold absolutely divine !!!! yes you should avoid women who like diamonds , I'm sorry I forgot to mention I also give very nice gifts for Christmas, thats the one time I do splurge, So its nice if it works both ways.

I dont know about you guys but for my case, when its Chirstmas, we dont buy any gifts for anyone. We would collect all the money we have (well, its our choice on how much we want to give) and then we would buy groceries and we would cook together on Christmas Eve and have a Christmas family dinner. Thats all and nothing more. After dinner, we will put up the christmas tree. Each person will make their own christmas ornament (could be from garbage/recycled item) or some would just buy one so even if its a boyfrind or a girlfriend, they would join in so no need for all this spending on gifts and all this nonsense.

But you know, they say Christmas is about giving and not receiving. Still if you cannot afford it, no need to force yourself just to please a certain someone.

A house wife is supposed to be on the recieving end. But these days every woman is on the demanding end. Competing with themselves on whose demands is met most by her boyfriend forgetting the reality that this guy is dying to make the money. Since a guy cant multiply his labour during xmas for women who won't spend the money with respect, men will not only run but flee. Women should learn to see these guys as not the ant workers for the ant queen and we won't run again i promise. www.myspace.com/naijapassion