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Poll: ~ Are You Likely ToRetaliate/Counterattack: 7% (6 votes)Become Very Defendsive/Abusive: 5% (5 votes) Accept If Valid & Take It On Board: 42% (36 votes) Question The Reason & Evolve: 28% (24 votes) Deny & Be Withdrawn/Hurt: 3% (3 votes) Not Bothered! Damn If You Do,Damn If You Dont!: 11% (10 votes) This poll has ended |
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Re: ~ How Do You React To Criticism? ~ by ebonyjoy1(f): 12:28pm On Oct 15, 2009 |
My reaction 2 criticism will depend on : how its passed on 40%, by who 20%, motive 20% , my mood 20%. cos i ve found dat some people mostly women criticize when u dont conform to their personal beliefs or ideas. in dat case i just smile n delete it from memory from my family n better half i listen n try 2 work on it from boss i listen n work on it wit appraisal in mind. from friends i listen n ignor but my advice 2 any1 lookin 2 critisize me is package it properly n gag my mood. n make sure u ve removed d IROKO from ur eye be4 u try 2 remove d PECK of wood from my eye. |
Re: ~ How Do You React To Criticism? ~ by adebayo201: 1:34pm On Oct 15, 2009 |
let's !t goes |
Re: ~ How Do You React To Criticism? ~ by mohawkchic(f): 3:17pm On Oct 15, 2009 |
Epi: [size=13pt]~Both! Or whatever you're comfy sharing. . .[/size] |
Re: ~ How Do You React To Criticism? ~ by mohawkchic(f): 3:23pm On Oct 15, 2009 |
Elgaxton: [size=13pt]~ [/size] Elgaxton: [size=13pt]~ I strongly agree! [/size] |
Re: ~ How Do You React To Criticism? ~ by Radiant(f): 3:43pm On Oct 15, 2009 |
obyann: I understand it can be very frustrating but hell if I love the man and he loves me too and don't really give a shit about what people say them I'ma stick around. People will always say shit but seriously our shell gotta be very thick. |
Re: ~ How Do You React To Criticism? ~ by iice(f): 4:06pm On Oct 15, 2009 |
Secretz: We seem to be quite similar lol. |
Re: ~ How Do You React To Criticism? ~ by Nijasingh: 3:17am On Oct 16, 2009 |
CRITICISM makes the world an interesting place!! You can either accept it or ignore it. It is what makes us all re think and reflect to improve our world and life. |
Re: ~ How Do You React To Criticism? ~ by Amigoz(f): 5:16am On Oct 16, 2009 |
Vatart @op How I would react depends on the following factors What Who When Where and my responses could be one or most of the options you have in the polls. The only thing I will not resort to is being abusive, that isnt me. I wouldnt retaliate either (though not sure ow one will retaliate to a criticism) Getting defensive i believe is just human nature, as they say 'the truth is always bitter' especially wen it is about you. I sometimes get defensive, but when im calmer I do take what is said on board and trying to better myself @ it. Then again where or when the criticism is being delivered can either get the I dont give a T O S S attitude or yes I know that is wrong and I am willing to learn and change to make it betta Majorly a positive attitude to a criticism will depend on who is delivering and the kinda mood the receiver is. A pot calling the kettle black will always get the IDGAT attitude |
Re: ~ How Do You React To Criticism? ~ by Adanne2(f): 10:15am On Oct 16, 2009 |
I don't welcome criticism, especially when it's done in a way to paint or destroy my image. I go extra miles to defend myself. I don't find it funny wether parents, friends or whosoever that did it. To be presiced, I hate criticising people myself and wouldn't want to be criticised. My slogan is mind your business. Somebody that won't confront me and think the best way is criticism is my enemy. |
Re: ~ How Do You React To Criticism? ~ by obyann(f): 12:16pm On Oct 16, 2009 |
Radiant: yes, it happens only when the love you give is given back to you. I did not know that all these while he was pretending (thats the way I see it). why should he listen to citique especially when it has to do with somebody you love. Something he could not find out for almost 2 years. When the whole truth came out, every body blamed him but then it was too late. |
Re: ~ How Do You React To Criticism? ~ by Nijasingh: 12:23pm On Oct 16, 2009 |
obyann: Was he pretending or were u blinded by love at the time?? Dem sey Love blind and u fit no see the real person when in Love!! |
Re: ~ How Do You React To Criticism? ~ by Radiant(f): 2:06pm On Oct 16, 2009 |
obyann: Yea I understand. That's why I said if he loves you too (genuinely). Hope you aight though |
Re: ~ How Do You React To Criticism? ~ by Gabry(f): 3:21pm On Oct 16, 2009 |
Accept If Valid & Take It On Board (If what Im doing is puely wrong and to know whether if I am wrong or right, I would do a survey first. The majority votes is the clear answer to determine whether if I am right or wrong) Question The Reason & Evolve (If sumone complaints about me or criticize me, I would question the person if I dont know why he / she criticizes me. For sure. ) |
Re: ~ How Do You React To Criticism? ~ by Nobody: 6:32pm On Oct 16, 2009 |
Dem say "different strokes fi different folks, |
Re: ~ How Do You React To Criticism? ~ by Epi: 3:46am On Oct 17, 2009 |
@poster Deliberate critism - I ignore that person as if they never exist The positive critism, I use it for improvement but if you don't know what the f**k you are talking about, I get really pissed and maybe, just maybe I will $#&*#^& P.S (on a different note) Thanks for the advice |
Re: ~ How Do You React To Criticism? ~ by Maura(f): 9:22am On Oct 19, 2009 |
manner of approach matters, cos action brings about reaction. human being is still weak in nature. there is nobody without the instinct of reaction in one way or the other in him or her. so i sugest thst presentation should matter but in case the presenter fails to present well, self-control should be employed. |
Re: ~ How Do You React To Criticism? ~ by chika98: 12:46am On Oct 20, 2009 |
Who says I put up with criticisms? How dare you? Before you tell me how crappy I am . . have you looked at yourself? I will go to war if anyone dares criticize me. |
Re: ~ How Do You React To Criticism? ~ by Rooneyboy(m): 1:03am On Oct 20, 2009 |
Nah , as a matter of fact i welcome criticism very well , it makes me a better person. |
Re: ~ How Do You React To Criticism? ~ by cenzo(m): 1:31am On Oct 20, 2009 |
same way chris brown reacts to rihanna |
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