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Should I Leave My Parents And Face Life. by leonard10: 3:22pm On Sep 23, 2016
I WANNA LEAVE HOME,.PLS ADVICE ME...

Am the first born of my family out of 4 children, Am just through with my NCE PROGRAM at Adeyemi College of Education. The second born, my younger brother, is at service, the 3rd born is already in final year while our last born is in part 2. I am slow in my education due to some circumstances. Though before my NCE PROGRAM, I had already schooled at Federal polytechnic ado,(which there's nothing to show for it....My gp was just too low). But at least I thank God I performed well at Adeyemi college.

But there's something, my parents are tired of me, I look like a stranger even in my father's house, My progress is not a match to my younger ones .

Even if I wanna progress after my NCE PROGRAM, (IT WOULD BE THE 3RD HIGHER INSTITUTIONS HAVE ATTENDED) I feel ashamed of myself even among my younger ones at home. It really gives me psychological trauma. I don't know what to do, every mistake I do is noticed, while my younger ones are pampered at same mistake.

I remembered when I almost committed suicide at home, life at home is just as Hell fire.and many experiences at home. They are just fed up with me.

My verdict is, I wanna leave home for me sister house and start a new life from there, I Want to huzzle myself and take care of my education with the little help of my Aunty (younger sister of my dad)

So the question is should I continue under my Parents , Am 25 years of Age.

Or continued with my decision to Start a new life somewhere. But remember that my staying with my parents is like being in hell... PLEASE ADVISE ME.
Re: Should I Leave My Parents And Face Life. by Sirfrederick(m): 3:39pm On Sep 23, 2016
You already know what to do.
Take the leave.
The Lord God will direct your path.

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Re: Should I Leave My Parents And Face Life. by sexymoma(f): 3:48pm On Sep 23, 2016
I left my parents when i was 17.....despite say na me be last kid.
forget bro no pain no gain...i can tell you it's obvious you're gonna make it life..
nor be everybody wey go school go make am..
abeg vacate your parent place...na dem go call you say dem miss you. wink

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Re: Should I Leave My Parents And Face Life. by Cholls(m): 3:54pm On Sep 23, 2016
my brother get your as$ out there and make a NAME for yourself.............the universe is yours

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Re: Should I Leave My Parents And Face Life. by Barney11: 4:10pm On Sep 23, 2016
are you still in that house? education no dey pay like that again, the one you have is enough for u to start a small business,just bring down your self and u gather! distance makes the mind grow fonder.
Re: Should I Leave My Parents And Face Life. by Ranchhoddas: 10:11pm On Sep 23, 2016
Na wa o. Parents are usually supportive of their kids, especially their first borns no matter what. This story is not complete.
Re: Should I Leave My Parents And Face Life. by bukatyne(f): 12:39am On Sep 24, 2016
leonard10:
I WANNA LEAVE HOME,.PLS ADVICE ME...

Am the first born of my family out of 4 children, Am just through with my NCE PROGRAM at Adeyemi College of Education. The second born, my younger brother, is at service, the 3rd born is already in final year while our last born is in part 2. I am slow in my education due to some circumstances. Though before my NCE PROGRAM, I had already schooled at Federal polytechnic ado,(which there's nothing to show for it....My gp was just too low). But at least I thank God I performed well at Adeyemi college.

But there's something, my parents are tired of me, I look like a stranger even in my father's house, My progress is not a match to my younger ones .

Even if I wanna progress after my NCE PROGRAM, (IT WOULD BE THE 3RD HIGHER INSTITUTIONS HAVE ATTENDED) I feel ashamed of myself even among my younger ones at home. It really gives me psychological trauma. I don't know what to do, every mistake I do is noticed, while my younger ones are pampered at same mistake.

I remembered when I almost committed suicide at home, life at home is just as Hell fire.and many experiences at home. They are just fed up with me.

My verdict is, I wanna leave home for me sister house and start a new life from there, I Want to huzzle myself and take care of my education with the little help of my Aunty (younger sister of my dad)

So the question is should I continue under my Parents , Am 25 years of Age.

Or continued with my decision to Start a new life somewhere. But remember that my staying with my parents is like being in hell... PLEASE ADVISE ME.

Listen to Darey's pray for me song over and over again till you soak in the mesage. See link below to the video:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vS-Iv2PaV8s

Goodluck
Re: Should I Leave My Parents And Face Life. by maggilove(f): 5:21am On Sep 24, 2016
I understand ur story hook ,line ans sinker. You are a man, take a leave, struggle for yourself and u will make a headway.
Re: Should I Leave My Parents And Face Life. by George22016(m): 6:08am On Sep 24, 2016
I left my parents house when I was 23.no money from them been on d grind.got a single room in a face mi I slap u.even for this place I day type u on my bed.its not easy to be a man.now I have my passport.already saving up for the states as no girl wan look my side

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