bbmpin:

"location" in Nigeria?

yeap.... some location changes ur mindset....

very true if you just tell girl say na wetin you dey find she go run leave you

pressplay411:


Every guy has an idea who he wants to marry, his ideal woman.
It's not his fault if you don't meet the criteria but yet he's very much attracted to and interested in you. So if you're both attracted to each other and understand it's not meant to culminate into something serious then I believe an arrangement can be reached as long as it's a mutual understanding. Call it what you may, once both parties are adults and mature enough I believe it can work out for the best interest of both and doesn't necessarily have to end bitterly.
I have been in such relationships and it's just unfortunate it starts fine but eventually the girl always wants more.
Hence my question, is it impracticable seeking such in 9ja?

The question is how many guys in Nigeria would walk up to a girl and say he just wants to do the FWB and be sincere about it?
Many guys would rather lead the girl on then along the line start talking about faults all for an excuse to end the 'relationship' that's how bad the guys here, and if she doesn't want to end it they start saying she's too clingy, forgetting they started it all..

And for the records no lady thinking right would continue with a man who's just in for 'sex' with her, you think other guys don't want something better?

See, its rare but some who are ready to do it? Naija guys suck at defining a relationship from onset, I've seen girls who go into relationships just for personal interests.