Your sister should issue kitty Kat Bill and mangoro's sucking Bill too ......

PoeticJazco:
Can I know the man's name so that I can forward it to our NCAN Enugu Chapter for checking because am sure it's one of them.

They won't want their wife to go to school and make more money than them. All they want is marry her and tell her "Nkechi this is our spare parts shops, you will be handling Alaba branch while I will be handling idumota branch".

Ladies from that side are the most educated and most business minded ladies. Even if she will manage spare parts shop at least she have no reason to worry about her husband marrying other women to compete with her at her matrimonial home unlike what the women of her host in Lagos experience all the time.

PoeticJazco:
Can I know the man's name so that I can forward it to our NCAN Enugu Chapter for checking because am sure it's one of them.

They won't want their wife to go to school and make more money than them. All they want is marry her and tell her "Nkechi this is our spare parts shops, you will be handling Alaba branch while I will be handling idumota branch".

NANC (nairaland association of name checkers)
reporting for duty

Ogbeni say pant 1 dozen....

In some cultures, the lady's family is actually expected to refund the dowry and the other things on the list, if the marriage doesn't hold especially if the cancellation comes from the lady s side.
But this guy....
Even recharge card?

[size=20pt]Don't collect gifts and money from a man you don't love and you don't want to marry if you don't want trouble.[/size].

goldbim:
you can't blame the man in this kind of economy jor..@least that money'll yield him profitable interest if he had invested in his business..besides,#220,000 in 2months?? .yet she claims she does not have any emotions for him.. ..what if she has feelings nko??..he'll empty his account#badmarket#

However you feel about it, the man has nothing to claim. Legally if they were married he could claim the money but they aren't. As far as the law is concerned, all he did was give someone a gift. But knowing Nigerians and their animalistic tendencies, he probably would result to jungle justice. The is why he had the nerve to write a list in the first place.

Ladies of this days are so funny and cold hearted. How can a guy spend that much on you within two months yet you claimed you don't have feelings for him. Haba! Wtf!
I am not saying you should marry him. But if your sister is the responsible type, she would have set her priorrity right from the start. Ofcos you would know if you have interest with the opposite sex at the moment he woo you. An iota of feelings will be there no matter how little it is.

You can easily make him understand that it's too early for marriage, I believed he would understand. But what I found funny is 'I don't even have feelings for him'

Haba sis! You are wicked and selfish. You better change because you don't know the next brother coming your way.

He is very stupid

So, u spent all this on a girl u just know in the space of a month abi?

#BBOM....BringBackOurMoney

Not bad... She was busy spending his money, now she doesn't have feelings for him, he should collect his money

Why are u guys castigating the man simply because he requested for the money he gave the family for traditional marriage. So many of you guys will do worse if in thesame predicament.The lady in question should simply confirm from her parents if indeed the mans claims of what he gave the family was indeed 220,000.00 and if it turns out to be true then they should refund his money as soon as possible since the so called marriage wont workout again. Abi una wan chop the man money free of charge for this change period? Abeg do the needful in order to avoid stories that slaps later o.

goldbim:
you can't blame the man in this kind of economy jor..@least that money'll yield him profitable interest if he had invested in his business..besides,#220,000 in 2months?? .yet she claims she does not have any emotions for him.. ..what if she has feelings nko??..he'll empty his account#badmarket#

This was so rightly put girl. Imagine girls of nowadays. Hahhahhahhahaa

octopusfreaky:
what a stingy manI just cant tolerate such men..Your relationship is barely three-months old and u planning wedding already, fake story.

$ sister wat abt the money he spent btwn those months

If what th guy claims is true then they should pay back simple.

give the guy his money,ur sister said she is not doing,then refund him,

Cutehector:
And she was collecting all the money... can u imagine

Why are you talking like this, most Nigeria ladies are just too lazy to work and make money that's why the use there relationship as employment and expect salary from the supposed boyfriend as for me I don't need your toto so you can't get penny from me the gal should pay back joor

banmee:


However you feel about it, the man has nothing to claim. Legally if they were married he could claim the money but they aren't. As far as the law is concerned, all he did was give someone a gift. But knowing Nigerians and their animalistic tendencies, he probably would result to jungle justice. The is why he had the nerve to write a list in the first place.

Next you wil hear they beat the girl or poured acid on her
Is tyat your new addition?

Dear God, please don't send that kind of guy anywhere near me . Amen.

If the story is true, the girl shouldn't have collected anything from them at all since she knew she was going to turn down the marriage offer.

As the lover man did not pay her dowry, any other expenses na jara

Spending gone wrong for the wrong one,but the girl was right too,she needed to study the guy,since when marriage now becomes a rush or something like jumping inside a moving train.

Op, ur sister should return all the money back to him, do u people think he plucks money from trees, ur sister know say she no get feelings and she come dey chop the guy hard earned money,
Make she no take school cover everything, I have seen so many wives in university, no be must to stay papa house finish school,
So she wats him to pay for her school fees first and after school she will marry somebody else?, u people should go and pay his money before I open my eyes

you have no feeling for the man but you have feelings for his money and gift abi? return his money

Choi OP your sister must be shippopotamus , how can she swallow 300k in this recession withing 2months interval ... we need magu and EFCC.... every day we keep hearing what men did to women' but have we ever care to ask what might have warrant such uncalled wickedness, u and ur knew u are not going to marry the guy u have the mind to swindle him, abeg ask for refund even add more because the time u spent that lot dollar exchange are btw 350

missKiffy:
Immature man

You must have a reason to have said this. Let me provide you with reasons why I think you must have not understood what you read.

1. You aren't a man
2. You never will be one
3. Does he look like a Ph.D dissertification to her?
4. Do you not expect your money back on bad investments?
5. Do you know people were lynched and burnt for stealing N100 worth of undies in some parts of Nigeria?
6. Do you know what ordeals men go through from job seeking to expecting promotions at work places?
7. Do men earn by just parting a pair of legs? You think it's that easy for us too right?
8. You believe there could be free lunch? You think he is the proverbial 'Fada Christmas" abi?


No just lemme vex for this your response o walahi. Men dey die for Malaysia, others are hung in Thailand trying to live up to some shitty demands placed on them by some shitty society in which ladies are on top of the bill.

The ones that go close to being benevolent, get ripped off. And all you can open that mouth to say is he is immature.

How many times have you spent the said amount on yourself?

ewoooooooooo

gbeseun:
Payback time, it's pay am sharpaly

E don reach time wey u women go come dey pay we men bride price as dem dey do for india, I wan see how far una will go

Aminat508, before you break my heart. Think about this list.

soberdrunk:
If i collect back all the phones i have bought for girls in this lifetime, nah me and slot go dey do competition..............

We must be related, I'm the king of buying phones for ladies. Even before they ask I offered.

MissRike:
Dear God, please don't send that kind of guy anywhere near me . Amen.

The lord should not send any man willing to spend such an amount near you noni.

Awoof go purge you.