Married in school but single at home
Welcome to Nigerian campuses where little
girls are
practising 'wifely functions'!
Just visit the boys' hostels and you would be
disappointed to find out that it is now
common for a
girl to live in with a course mate.
It is now
common
for her lover to give her the popular
compliment 'you
look sexy my gal' and she would gladly reply
'thank
you honey' with a flirty voice and a romantic
smile.
Who is her lover?
A 300 level student whose CGPA is barely up
to 1.78!
And they are aiming for the next best couple
award
for the session by the departmental
association. So,
the girl need to live in with him to prepare
along.
What nonsense! It seems that some girls
suddenly loose their senses immediately
they
gain admission. I've seen that some of them
have no more sense of caution, honour and
dignity.
They would change their wardrobes and
acquire a
new set of make ups just to look
'campussy' and sexy enough for the guys. In
months, they would start sleeping around
with
little boys. I mean boys who collect pocket
money from their uncles! Dirty boys who
most
of the time are infected with sexually
transmitted diseases.
Hey! I want you to know
that you were sent to school to obtain a
degree
not a disease. The campus is called a school;
school not sex! You are on campus to
receive
education not ejaculation. You are here to
master the use of a pen not the pleasures of
a
penis. Wake up girl! Do some thinking. Your
future is greater than the 'best couple
award'.
You cook for a boy you are more intelligent
than.
You give your virginity to a boy who will
definitely leave you after graduation. You
play
wife to a boy who cannot even care for
himself.
Oh, you have given too much. Enough! Open
your eyes! Can't you see you're being
foolish?
You are passing through the fears of
unwanted
pregnancies yet you are opening your legs
to a
coward who cannot stand before your
father.
And when you eventually gets pregnant, he
would brutally advise you to abort it and you
would timidly agree; then face the
consequences
later. What a shame! You may master the
use of
condoms but you can't master the
punishment of
your conscience.
Don't you know you are bringing shame to
your
family? Don't you know that you are cursing
your
mother by accepting to sleep with a boy
(not even a
man) without her consent?
I cautioned a girl against sleeping around
and she
replied 'Sheddy, I don't sleep around; its
only one
boyfriend I have and am faithful to him'.
What
impunity! That's classified harlotry. And
don't you
know that sleeping with a man without
your father's
blessings is bringing a curse to your future?
What happened to your cultural values?
Somewhere in your heart you know he
would
use you and dump you; so why are you
setting
up yourself for a heartbreak? I want to
remind
you that you are a lady and one day you may
get
married. And your husband would know
that you are
such a dirty bitch who sleeps with
anything on trousers.
The greatest gift a lady
would give to her husband on the wedding
night is
her virginity less lost it out of (rape) not the
certificate of best couple of the year on
campus!
The other gifts for the rest of her life are her
care and character not her curves and
complexion! Real men know this; so, get it
screwed in!
Those treacherous boys would call you
'sexy'
and you would answer? Oh, sorry! They
touch
your breast and you would smile? They
would
ask you out and you would oblige? Oh, you
are
indeed a mistake. Am not saying that you
should be
rude or never live a 'social life' but I want
you to think
deeper than you are currently doing. I want
to turn
your attention back to your books.
You are not in school for breast exhibition.
So,
pay less attention to those boobs and give
more
attention to your books! You are not in
school for cat
walking show. You are rather here to show
us the
dignity of womanhood. You are here to
prove to us
that you are costly. So, why make yourself so
cheap?
I am writing this with both love and pain in
my
heart and that's why am sounding stern. I
know
about two girls now that have been living
with
their boyfriend since year one and as it is
now
they can't even even count how many
abortions
they had for that same boy at sch bae it's
now like a
normal thing to them, the last one she did
almost took her life and that made her bleed
for
4months, imagine how you do feel with
ordinary 4
days of menstruation left alone living with it
for
months.. As a matter of fact one of them
have
damaged her fallopian tube due to excessive
use of
contraceptives she has taken to prevent
pregnancy. I
want you to look beyond now and think of
what
advise you would give your own daughter
when you
become a mother. I hope I have not
offended you...if
I have, please repent.
To the decent girls I have seen on campus:
do
not be swayed by these evil. Be consistent
and
keep celebrating your purity. I am always
proud
of you. And God is more proud of you.



Written by: Ananymous 
Source: http://www.sam9ja.com/2016/06/married-in-school-but-single-at-home.html?m=1