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Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by amunkita(m): 4:19am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Zellie: OMG!!!! Dude ur moronic nature is genetic.. Can u point were I stated she is 6yrs older Did u OP tell you he is a paedophile who married someone he is 20yrs older Seems u grew amongst people with down syndrome for u ve learnt that word "Reta.rd" |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by kizyalex10(m): 4:22am On Oct 04, 2016 |
That is it with women.they can never lay accusing finger on their fellow woman.imagine the nonsense,even some women with male body,also support the woman,making the guy look stupId.plz my question goes this way,do u think a woman capable of doing such,can't do worst things?mmy man don't be surprised to wake up one day nd see another man claiming ur kids.u re nt wrong in any decision u make but alway temper justice with mercy.can give her a lifeline nd also try to monitor her closely to knw if u can see more things she have been hiding.thanks 3 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Nobody: 4:25am On Oct 04, 2016 |
obowunmi: The op is a liar just like his wife. He wrote about his older mistress a few months ago. I'm sure he has lied to his wife on many occasions about his whereabouts. He and his wife are equally deceptive people and deserve each other. 2 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Zellie: 4:29am On Oct 04, 2016 |
amunkita: *double deep sigh* All u fried mess supporting the lady, ve u dated a boy younger than you talkless an age gap of 6years.. You clearly do not know the meaning of age gap. Arguing with idio.ts is exhausting. Moving on |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by dickoflife(m): 4:47am On Oct 04, 2016 |
nickxtra:common sense is not so common. So cus she lied abt her age next thing na divorce. Why not sut her down lovingly and ask her why?. Ask her why she never told you. Listen to her responses.. judge is she has always been humble and submissive over the years. If she has been then it means she really lives you. No older woman wants to submit to a younger guy except he is an Alpha male. Bros use ur sense well and dont throw away a happy marriage God has given u over ego. 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by warrah(m): 4:49am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Amelian: What if it's the Karma of lying to him that's bringing up this issue.. When you walk a mile in another's shoes, that's when you can relate. Lies in marriage erodes trust and trust I think is the oil of marriage, without trust no marriage can stand. So take it easy with the man biko...... 2 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by amunkita(m): 4:49am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Zellie: Chisos!!! Guy ur stewpidity has Patent.. How does that statement refer to the main subject of discuss.. How does asking the gals who ve dated a boy 6 years younger confer the same 6years to the subject of discuss.. Dude, now I see why blood is thicker than water, u gene is blessed with idiocy. .. |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by dickoflife(m): 4:50am On Oct 04, 2016 |
kizyalex10:this thinking of urs is why nija will never move forward. Instead of you all to allow emancipation of the female gender from shackles of mental slavery u are claiming someone should monitor her closely... u need an MRI scan asap. 2 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by phenase(m): 4:50am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Just because of her age you want to divorce her, Guy are you thinking with your brain? Did she sleep with another Man? Guy park Well 2 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by dickoflife(m): 4:51am On Oct 04, 2016 |
amunkita:ehm.. i want to pay for the patent of his stupidity o... |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by WesBreezy: 4:57am On Oct 04, 2016 |
idu1:Buhari isn't this corruption? Hol am |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by africanusvu(m): 4:58am On Oct 04, 2016 |
But.sory.if i may ask.wat d big deal abt this?she is under menopause.she is welbehaved.educated.so.why contemplate divorce?did u tink there is a saint for u afta kickng her out.?my friend.i believ u may av seen some one else and looking 4 any useles escuse to divorce her.and i promise u.dnt harm that innocent lady OR 2 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by lawlahbammy(f): 4:59am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Chubhie: The best comment so far, Take a cyberhug for this, you're a Darling. God bless you. |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Iykon1313(m): 5:01am On Oct 04, 2016 |
ItsQuinn: Ms mature for u to support lying like this that means u r a very big liar... Get closer to God. |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by akinladejo: 5:02am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Please look for Watch Tower of August 2016 and read the 2nd study article that says making your marriage a success. It discussed extensively this your present situation. Enjoy your marriage young man and as you don't have problem. |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Nobody: 5:07am On Oct 04, 2016 |
nickxtra:oga u dey find reason to divorce am cus dis ain't enough reason for divorce ooo.u cld settle dis amicably 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by donamen(m): 5:13am On Oct 04, 2016 |
nickxtra:.... You are a monkey....go ahead divorce her. 2 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by holyfather(m): 5:15am On Oct 04, 2016 |
I'm getting really pissed off by the few replies my patience could condone here. I wish I came here on time. Why do people always appear overprotective of women whenever an issue about them is mentioned,forgetting that what is good for the goose is also good for the gander? Everyone kept saying that everything is going on well with the marriage except this, the op never said that. The woman is humble, bla bla bla. He never said that too. Come to think of it, assuming it was the man who lied about his income or source of livelihood, would you have told the girl to forgive just the way you did the man? Double standard, isn't that hypocrisy? Truth is, a woman with such antecedent is capable of doing much more. He has every right to contemplate divorce. He might be sitting on a keg of gun powder without knowing, poor man. #Veryannoyingfeministseverywhere. 4 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Eke40seven(m): 5:19am On Oct 04, 2016 |
TV01:You couldn't have said the lie part better, Most Nigerian women lie to their partner or at least tell half truths or if possible will completely cover things only telling you the ones that will make them gain pity or that will justify their actions. I had a similar fate as the OP not in marriage though, my ex actually claimed to be 5 years younger. I only discovered this when i stumbled upon some old documents, i might/could have accepted her whichever way if i had known before hand, but my trust for her wained and that is when I began to do some further investigations on some other information given and i began to discover other things, to her i was naive, she underestimated my detective abilities. Whichever way, we didn't seperate for any of the many lies discovered because of some other good qualities she possessed but i didn't regret finding out some things because i can't be with someone i didn't know. OP, just accept the fact that she has other skeletons in her cupboard, persuade her to come out clean and above all, love her for her good qualities. |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by holyfather(m): 5:24am On Oct 04, 2016 |
kizyalex10:Thank you very much. People are just so funny atimes. And the truth is, most of them would not take it when it comes to them. Hypocrites. 2 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by SeyiAyorinde(m): 5:26am On Oct 04, 2016 |
For u not to know that reduction in her age in her that means she has been taken good care of herself and still submissive enough to carry out her responsibilities as the wife at home (if she's older with the new age). Don't mess up your children's future by divorcing dia mother. 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Feanah(f): 5:29am On Oct 04, 2016 |
freecocoa: I get you sister.I no dey like that age reduction matter , better to keep it to yourself than tell a lie.There's something about lies,no matter how little they're,they make people lose respect for you .Ah that age matter dey very very important for people that think 'traditionally' like me o Because,Asuming I find out I'm older than my husband even if it's just with one day,I guess that's the end for us....because I just find it very awkward to marry a guy younger Even if he isn't younger,I need to know his exact age,I'm the last person he's meant to lie to on earth,especially about something basic like this . 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by shozey(f): 5:35am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Call her people n report the matter, afterwards forgive her |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Psoul(m): 5:35am On Oct 04, 2016 |
My man did you marry your wife cos of her age or cos you love her. That paragraph that says you are considering doubled l divorce made you look so immature. Divorce cannot be based on irrelevant issues. An issue like dis is not even enough to cause any problem in the house. It seems you've never experienced any family issue before and want to test and see how bitter it can be. Go ahead and start one and let's see how far your muscle can carry u. You have a wonderful woman like that that has also blessed your Union wt kids and you are here talking trash. Guy let me tell you, that other woman out there u think I'd better than that ur Princess will surely abandon u once she's done destroying u. Tell urslf the truth, if your wife got to kw most things u do behind her, do you think she'll be proud to call u husband. Bia nwokem respect yourself and treat that woman like a Princess she is. 2 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Nobody: 5:36am On Oct 04, 2016 |
nickxtra: My current gf is 5 years older than I am. So what's the big deal.? 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Chubhie: 5:36am On Oct 04, 2016 |
lawlahbammy:You are kind with words milady. I received the cyberhugs and felt lighter. God bless you too and enlarge your heart for hugs sharing. |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by sam2dok2020: 5:38am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Marriage has it challenges, some are minor while some are major, It take a married person to understand this things. Some comments are really off the grid, they are baseless and from people with small mindsets. What the lady did was wrong and painful, But it's forgivable, Concentrate on the good thing she has done, marriage is till death, meaning all issues should be resolve, no matter how grievous. Please forgive her for the sake of ur children. |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Forwetinnah: 5:38am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Mscheeeew!! OP dey find reason to change woman and move on to the next one. When men are done with a woman they find the flimsiest excuse to walk with. Abeeeegiii, why una dey beg am? As if he's not been lying to her before they got married. Rubbish!! Men like these are chronic liars but feel really uneasy when they're outsmarted...he must be a big cheat too OP..how sincere have you been with your wife since you married her? I mean I was reading through some comments and I saw some comments saying you have a mistress and all that? See your life? It's okay for you sprout all shades of lies but she must be crucified about her age? People reduce their age the World over (celebs and regular people alike), by 'people' I mean men inclusive. I've not heard a woman or wife ranting about divorcing a man or husband for the sake of an age cheat issue. If you're accusing her of being insincere, then you're insincere too. LIGHT ATTRACTS LIGHT!! CUNNYMAN DIE, CUNNYMAN BURY AM 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by xtervaganza(m): 5:41am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Here's ni ined to divorce her if she's a good person. But she must tell you the truth 1st before you forgive her As for those mouthing nonsense about him getting over it; are you guys Ok? What if it's not his ting to do older women?( Some people hate it so much the thoughts of it will make them vomit) . Dkbt just talk nonsense because you can live with it. Not everybody can deal with it and if he decides to divorce her he wouldn't be wrong. 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Feanah(f): 5:42am On Oct 04, 2016 |
pjsmart: Very mature advice,doubts should always be completely cleared before running into conclusions.I like the way you think 2 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by OSELAWAMEN: 5:43am On Oct 04, 2016 |
You must be He-goat. After two kids? 2 Likes |
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