A lot of ladies don't know this. A greater proportion of women wants to marry great men, celebrities, authorities, maybe because of money, but truth is, Can you pay the price in marriage? I have come to understand that so many great people hardly have time for their family, can you cope? A lot of ladies will love to have been the wife to a great man like Bishop Oyedepo, But do you know he hardly sleeps? He hardly has time for his wife? But there's excess of money... What of his attention? A lot of ladies get to discover that money isn't everything, when it's already late. A man who is globally relevant might not give you all the attention you need, what will keep you in those times is the love and passion you have for his vision and mandate and that brings me to this point: Marry a man whose vision you can carry. Getting married to very great people isn't beans. Ask their wives. Being a people's person isn't easy. Many celebrities don't spend up to three months in a year with their families. Can you cope that time because money can't solve that one? Will you be able to cope when he'll have to be away for eight months and as he's getting back, he has another trip for a year, and all that kind of serial engagements? Even Van Vicker, Famous actor confessed he barely has up to two months with his wife in a year. Many girls would wish to have married Van, but how many can understand when he'll have to stay away for long because of his dreams and purpose? Personally, I have a mandate to reach out to 2 billion people before i die, to impact and influence a minimum of that amount before I breath my last breath. God keeps using people to warn me that I have to be careful when it comes to choosing a life partner. Because a mistake there will ruin my purpose. A man might be vision minded, passionate, ambitious, and rich and handsome and you wish to marry him but truth is, You can't bear the burden of his mandate. You can't endure it. Do you know what the wives of pastors endure? Do you know what the wives of great icons endure? It's not by fantasizing about love from morning till night. If you're thinking of marrying a great man, be ready to pay a great task in marriage. Myles Monroe when alive got over 800 invitations to speak in a year, How did he cope? How do you think his wife coped? It was because she was strong enough to bear the burden of her husband's purpose. It doesn't end at marrying a man with a vision. You must understand that as time goes, that vision will explode and he might not have so much time for you,you need to understand and adjust. This is also why a lot of celebrities have issues with marriage. I'm not saying celebrities shouldn't have time for their family in the name of their vision but believe me no matter how much they spare, it can't be much like an average man. Some of them hardly sleep sef!!! No matter how great I become, I'll always have time to be with my wife and family but I doubt it'll be every now and then. I wish it would be but with my life's purpose, It might be tough. Can you manage a man's greatness? Money won't change anything. Some ladies think when there's money, marriage is better. Lol. Money sure helps but a lot women that married rich and great men wants to divorce because they can't cope with the burden of his purpose. This article applies to both sex. Marry the person whose burden of purpose, you can carry. I hope this makes sense to make front page. Thank U!

Op. I want to ask? How can one see the calling or the destiny of his girlfriend or boyfriend before marriage.. We all pray to successful in any career we choose and that God should lead us to our different destinations. In the period of dating, then becoming engaged and eventually getting married, no one knows where his or her destiny or plans will lead them to eventually.. Some rich married men may be poor or average in income when they were married to their wives, whom in return saw some signs of hardwork, brains and good planing in her partner before saying 'I do'.
While some were already born in wealth and all through their lives was smooth financially.
Someone's destiny might be short life at the beginning of the peak of his career. Another man's destiny might be, chronic illness later on in life and trying to battle staying alive
Another can be very rich and famous..another person can be extremely poor, no matter how hard he tries. Everybody has different destinies..

Even the carrier of each destinies is not completely 100 percent sure his or her destiny will end successfully and in old age.

So I just don't understand the purpose of this topic u created.
Cause even you, yourself do not know how well or great or even poor your destiny could end up as... Including me too,i don't know.. I don't know how successful or great my boyfriend will end up to be in life.. I only believe in his hardwork, he is compassionate to humanity and his Zeal to be the best he can be.. That's all I know.. We all can't see the future, no matter how hard we try to..

So op try and be realistic with yourself and WIth expectations..

Alakija the richest woman in Nigeria abi in Africa? Never imagined she will get to this level.. But with the grace of God, look at where she is today.

Remember nobody knows tomorrow..