Well, after working long night, twas time to go home this morning. While in the bus, a colleague narrated his experience after he saw the interior of Linda's mansion on banana island. My guy said he was restless, he said he gass hama.

Next he asked another colleague if he could move into Linda's apartment on grounds of marriage. Then the debate ensued:

If a lady, that is to be your wife, has a mansion or apartment of her own(much more tushed than yours), can you move in to hers after marriage?

Please your opinion/experience/advice is desperately needed.

To be honest, my ego side will not let me... She will come to mine no matter how bad my apartment was.... then both of us will make it a home... I will suggest that she rent it out..... That will yield income for us......

The reason why I said this was because I know how ladies talk, In every relationship, there's bound to be some disagreement... during those heated argument, she might mistakenly mention the fact that she own the house, and that alone will make me die 29 time within me before finding my tongue ... I got a little bit of self esteem and I think a lot of men does.. .. I know it will happen one day, so to avoid that, I will pass on that offer....

Even if she did not say it, her immediate relations will insinuate it...

As a lady i won't advice my brother to move into a house built by a lady.And I think I won't advice my husband/boyfriend to move into a house built by me cos I can't be running while my man is crawling.

Men lack shame,imagine a guy telling his babe to lie to her parent to collect money and bring the money to him so that they can rent an apartment with it.My heart bleeds when I heard and the lady isn't smart enough to see the guy is a 100shades of disgrace.