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| How Do U Deal With This? by LordReed(m): 11:19am On Oct 16, 2009 |
How do u deal with this kinda situation: your girl/guy comes to u is crying/looking morose and wen u ask she/he says it's cos she/he is confused/pressured by the many people seeking her/his attention relationship-wise. In the process she/he gets a call from one of the numerous disturbers. How would u handle this? |
| Re: How Do U Deal With This? by POSAKOSA1(m): 11:25am On Oct 16, 2009 |
Lord_Reed: She/he must be 5 years old because I don't see how this is cause for crying. |
| Re: How Do U Deal With This? by Nobody: 11:30am On Oct 16, 2009 |
You step up and take your relationship to the next level if you really love them. This might be a test to see where you want the relationship to go. |
| Re: How Do U Deal With This? by Nobody: 12:00pm On Oct 16, 2009 |
POSAKOSA1: LOL  |
| Re: How Do U Deal With This? by justwise(m): 12:09pm On Oct 16, 2009 |
Lord_Reed: She is sending a msg to u, get serious or lose her to others on the queue. |
| Re: How Do U Deal With This? by LordReed(m): 12:12pm On Oct 16, 2009 |
POSAKOSA1: Yeah am thinkin could this be immaturity expressing itself or justwise: a way of sending a msg. Could it also be insecurity? |
| Re: How Do U Deal With This? by justwise(m): 12:18pm On Oct 16, 2009 |
Lord_Reed: It could be, she needs some sort of asurance |
| Re: How Do U Deal With This? by Godmother(f): 1:12pm On Oct 16, 2009 |
justwise: And at this stage, if you dont act fast she will walk with the next brother |
| Re: How Do U Deal With This? by yme1(f): 1:15pm On Oct 16, 2009 |
is that a new way of sending a message  have a heart to heart talk with her there might be so many things running thru her mind |
| Re: How Do U Deal With This? by LordReed(m): 1:22pm On Oct 16, 2009 |
y me: And wat would u say in such a tete-a-tete? |
| Re: How Do U Deal With This? by hollandis(f): 1:35pm On Oct 16, 2009 |
Lord_Reed:Ask her if she is stupid.If she acts gibberish tell her to choose btw them and you.Demand that you want the answer ASAP.If she walks out on you or refuses to answer you,it means a NO.If she is in your house throw her belongings out including her Most girls(99%) can't differentiate between a guy who wants to shag them and the one that really really loves them.The female weakness,I think |
| Re: How Do U Deal With This? by iice(f): 1:56pm On Oct 16, 2009 |
POSAKOSA1: I tire ooo Lord_Reed: Him crying? I think he would already know what will happen |
| Re: How Do U Deal With This? by r231(m): 2:01pm On Oct 16, 2009 |
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| Re: How Do U Deal With This? by tosyne007(m): 2:02pm On Oct 16, 2009 |
Lord_Reed: Frankly, i really cant fathom why getting calls and attention from potential suitors will make a lady cry. Isnt that wat they crave from right from their teens? Well, i wouldnt deal with such stupid and immature girls in the first place. I expect my lady to handle wateva disturbance or incessant calls she receives from guys cos that's wat matured ladies do. justwise: I dont buy this cos there are numerous/better ways of telling your guy/babe if he/she is not doing something right. Crying over calls and attention (maybe disturbance) is definately not one of them. hollandis: i think this is a better judgement. Personally, if any lady should try that with me, i will show her the door cos i want to believe she's actually interested in the other guys (disturbing her). Committed and responsible babes wouldnt even think about such calls but will only mention them during casual talks and discussions. |
| Re: How Do U Deal With This? by LordReed(m): 3:08pm On Oct 16, 2009 |
iice: The crying is for the gurls n looking morose is for the boyz. |
| Re: How Do U Deal With This? by LordReed(m): 3:10pm On Oct 16, 2009 |
tosyne007: Ok so she's immature and can't deal with it, u're gonna dump her even after enjoying a whirlwind romance with her? |
| Re: How Do U Deal With This? by LordReed(m): 3:17pm On Oct 16, 2009 |
hollandis: I agree but I don't know about 99%. Don't u think dat the multitude of a$$ hunters can confuse a gurl? Especially d slick 1's? |
| Re: How Do U Deal With This? by iice(f): 3:23pm On Oct 16, 2009 |
Lord_Reed: Looking morose? He will still know what will happen |
| Re: How Do U Deal With This? by LordReed(m): 3:45pm On Oct 16, 2009 |
iice: n wat will dat be? |
| Re: How Do U Deal With This? by iice(f): 3:52pm On Oct 16, 2009 |
Handle it himself!  If you don't want people bothering you. Tell them to stop bothering you. |
| Re: How Do U Deal With This? by yme1(f): 3:59pm On Oct 16, 2009 |
iice:well said Lord_Reed:is this the first time she gat guys chasing her tell her not to give a fu-ck about them and she is matured enough to handle situations like that |
| Re: How Do U Deal With This? by izeek(m): 4:09pm On Oct 16, 2009 |
well it already shows the girl isnt even sure ahe wanna be with the dude. either ways he's losing. like iiice said, the crying is for the boi. lol |
| Re: How Do U Deal With This? by LordReed(m): 5:36pm On Oct 16, 2009 |
Wat if the person says they've never had to deal that numba of people seeking em? |
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