Marriage is one of those roadblocks most people will encounter in their lifetime. I call it a roadblock of all things because that’s what it seems like when you come across it at that particular age society deems fitting for settling down.

When you get to that age, marriage the roadblock sits there in your path, staring you in the face and you have just two options. It is either you meet it head on or you meander your way around it.

The former option is more preferable; society likes those who welcome marriage, not those who escape it while still enjoying the blessings of marriage on the side. Unfortunately, the honour society awards married people can be the cause of untold desperation amongst those yet unmarried.
For a long time, the narrative about desperation for marriage has been skewed.

They say it is women who get desperate, and propelled by their biological ticking clocks, go running from one crusade to the other, praying for a husband. Some other day, when space and time permit me, I’ll attempt exposing those mischievous carvers of this skewed narrative.

The reality of the matter is this: no one is immune to the societal pressure to settle down. If you really, really desire to settle down, the desperation might catch up with you someday, and it doesn’t matter if you’re male or female.,...Continue Reading @

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