showbobo:

Has it ever occured to you one time in your life that you've been actually broke??That you couldnt afford to pay your bills,feed and unable to afford things you actually needed then,  . Looking back now at those days,how do you feel??Or is anyone going through hard times now and wants to share

ifyalways:

. . . seems someone just found out that his wallet is empty 
Being broke as in empty wallet/purse i believe happens to almost everybody once-in-a-while but being broke as in nothing home and abroad. . .omo dat one hard ooh.

good hunte:

most of the time

showbobo:

No guys. . I am doing quite okay now. . . Just that i look back at those days,smile and thank God anyway. . . .

thameamead:


every1 goes thr that phase in life, i did go thr that. i was so broke that i could not afford to heat my flat but food was no wahala, few of my friends sent me vouchers and some money but most of my friends turned their backs @ me. dat na london thing, when money dey, every1 go call your phone, as soon as u tell them u no get money, they ignore your calls. am glad the storm is over but i went thr so much before i got my papers, i was duped by my then boyfriend of £4,500 that i paid him to do arrnged marriage for me. i thank God for the Russian millonare that i use to work for, she helped find a white guy to help me with my papers. i think they paid him about £5,000, i was her hse keeper, cleaner and wanna-be cook, she was too kind, i thougt i was dreaming when she offered to pay, she said she felt sorry for me. bless her, am still in contact with her. as for my ex, he's in prison serving time fraud. apparently he's so sorry buy ve moved on and forgiven him, thanks ivana (my russian employer) l thanks for everything ,

thameamead:


every1 goes thr that phase in life, i did go thr that. i was so broke that i could not afford to heat my flat but food was no wahala, few of my friends sent me vouchers and some money but most of my friends turned their backs @ me. dat na london thing, when money dey, every1 go call your phone, as soon as u tell them u no get money, they ignore your calls. am glad the storm is over but i went thr so much before i got my papers, i was duped by my then boyfriend of £4,500 that i paid him to do arrnged marriage for me. i thank God for the Russian millonare that i use to work for, she helped find a white guy to help me with my papers. i think they paid him about £5,000, i was her hse keeper, cleaner and wanna-be cook, she was too kind, i thougt i was dreaming when she offered to pay, she said she felt sorry for me. bless her, am still in contact with her. as for my ex, he's in prison serving time fraud. apparently he's so sorry buy ve moved on and forgiven him, thanks ivana (my russian employer) l thanks for everything ,

thameamead:


every1 goes thr that phase in life, i did go thr that. i was so broke that i could not afford to heat my flat but food was no wahala, few of my friends sent me vouchers and some money but most of my friends turned their backs @ me. dat na london thing, when money dey, every1 go call your phone, as soon as u tell them u no get money, they ignore your calls. am glad the storm is over but i went thr so much before i got my papers, i was duped by my then boyfriend of £4,500 that i paid him to do arrnged marriage for me. i thank God for the Russian millonare that i use to work for, she helped find a white guy to help me with my papers. i think they paid him about £5,000, i was her hse keeper, cleaner and wanna-be cook, she was too kind, i thougt i was dreaming when she offered to pay, she said she felt sorry for me. bless her, am still in contact with her. as for my ex, he's in prison serving time fraud. apparently he's so sorry buy ve moved on and forgiven him, thanks ivana (my russian employer) l thanks for everything ,

thameamead:


@showboba and chaircover

i make no apologies for going thr an arranged marriage, at least i got my papers, without my papers, i would have carried on working as a cleaner on £9 an hour, do u know how hard it is to work illegally and as cleaner, all u do is clean 24/7, with my papers, am @ birbeck studying for a degree, arranged marriges are nothing new, it happens all over the world, would u all have preferred me working as a cleaner, i don't care what u lot think, all i know it i live a better life and i do not need a visa to most countries, each to their own,

@ jaybee i was not born in the uk, i make no apologies for travelling to nigeria without a visa, ve got my nigerian passport now so no need to bribe, y is every acting like they are "holy" .what is this the point of a forum if people cannot be honest? i'd rather b honest than tell lies and fool myself. , i wish u all wel,

chaircover:

So arangee marriages are something to be gloated about on an international website and by the way are cleaners not human beings? I’m sure most of us at one point of our life or the other have found ourselves in jobs we don’t like.

The fact that you are just studying for a degree tells me that you didn’t really have that many employable skills to start with, besides some people have worked very hard and paid a lot of tax and NI contributions over a number of years to give you an opportunity to pay home student fees so please don’t come here and gloat over what is so clearly wrong.

No one is judging you, just be a little discrete about it OK

chaircover:

So arangee marriages are something to be gloated about on an international website and by the way are cleaners not human beings? I’m sure most of us at one point of our life or the other have found ourselves in jobs we don’t like.

The fact that you are just studying for a degree tells me that you didn’t really have that many employable skills to start with, besides some people have worked very hard and paid a lot of tax and NI contributions over a number of years to give you an opportunity to pay home student fees so please don’t come here and gloat over what is so clearly wrong.

No one is judging you, just be a little discrete about it OK

tunnytox:

I think chaircover has a point here

thameamead:



@ chika98, point taken i should have bn a bit discreet

@ chaircover, i contributed thousands in tax and NI contributions when i was working illegally, infact i was paying more taxes and was on emergency tax for three yrs because my NI no did not exist, i study part time so need to apply for a student loan

thameamead:


@tunnybox, what can i say, that's life, i feel for you all but am not abusing the system like some other people. am not interested in clamining any sort of benefit (no offence to people on any sort of benefits)lost my job for three months late last year, i was adviced to claim bnefits but i did not want to so i went back to my old jobs -cleaning and waitressing for three months,

it's unfair i jumped the queue but i had to do what was right for me, am guilty as charged, lol,