Am no longer in love with my boyfriend and I don't know how to tell him that to his face. He's not doing things that give me courage. I see him as lazy and not working hard enough. Please help me



Talk2Bella.




There are several ways you can break up with someone, but the attitude in which we carry out this act is what makes any breakup easy.


Why do you think he’s lazy? There’s a huge difference between someone being lazy and things not working out for them yet, does he sit at home all day and do nothing? No matter how you see someone, you can’ tell how hard enough they are working to better their lives.


He doesn’t give you enough courage, well sweetheart you already see him as being lazy, no matter how much he might try to encourage you, you’d never take him serious because you already see him as being beneath you.


Letting him go now might not be the best way, you might just loose a diamond in the rough because of your impatience, why not try to encourage him, build him, stand by him, give him courage and watch him become the man you want, this is no easy task but with a little more love and patience I believe things might work out.


Try it this way first, and see how it goes; remember see him as a human being first, then as a man second, then as your lover and accord him the respect he deserves.

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/im-no-longer-in-love-with-my-boyfriend.html

So I'm guessing u fell in love with him because he was exceptionally hard working? Loads and piles of crap. Take a walk and get it over with and stop looking for someone that'll make u feel good about it.

Oluwaplumpie:
So I'm guessing u fell in love with him because he was exceptionally hard working? Loads and piles of crap. Take a walk and get it over with and stop looking for someone that'll make u feel good about it.

That might not be the case

Aghaaaa! All this relationship palava you are sharing sef ... BTW, is that a ripe pimple on your forehead Bella Chai! Fine geh.. . Bring your head let me press it before it drips into your mouth

So u r feeling lazy to look into his face n break up with him?

So far hes not lazy between the sheets, his condition stil get remedy nah

fullstreets:
So u r feeling lazy to look into his face n break up with him?

lool

bitchcrafts:
So far hes not lazy between the sheets, his condition stil get remedy nah

hw u take know?

Talk2Bella:


hw u take know?

know wetin

bitchcrafts:
know wetin

him still de do well?

Talk2Bella:


him still de do well?

I wasnt asking u dat nah Bella haba. U go skool at all?

Talk2Bella:


him still de do well?

you still haven't told us where you get this fictions from

In this fvcking lier Talk2Bella thread.....


Gotta run awt!!

bitchcrafts:
I wasnt asking u dat nah Bella haba. U go skool at all?

loool
of cos I knew u weren't askin me

I go sch small

Funny how a gal finks she's all a guy finKs abt...my dear ure probably d bad luck in his life...hurry up with d breakup and free a nigger's destiny biko!

Winnelyn:
too many posts already nd non is gracing fp why??

it's not about front page, u don't know how important nairaland is do ya?

So the dude is lazy. His lazy state makes him unattractive. What attracted her to him in the first place? The inspiration behind the love is now dead. Thanks to laziness. Na money mata be dis o. Now she want bella to teach her hw to break up.


She should Google it.