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Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by Rosabelle(f): 6:35pm On Oct 20, 2009 |
So this evening I read around NL and checked out that 'most times' a thread doesnt get abusive until a man starts. I dont get it. Sometime ago, women used to be known as abuisve, talkative, gossips etc. Today, everywhere you look (especially in our culture), things are quiet until men enter the equation. They brull and stamp and basically act like they have to be heard at all costs. Whats up with the trouble-looking attitude that MEN are beginning to develop so strongly. Is it a lack of confidence or what? Am I the only one who feels this way? Or have you noticed similar? PS: Lets see who will start abusing me first! |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by platinumnk(f): 6:37pm On Oct 20, 2009 |
i love you is that abusive |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by dominique(f): 7:07pm On Oct 20, 2009 |
you think only the men are abusive |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by Rosabelle(f): 7:09pm On Oct 20, 2009 |
Nope. Rosabelle:was what I said. |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by dominique(f): 7:16pm On Oct 20, 2009 |
ok o. . . hope you are prepared for sum bashings from the guys. subscribing to thread |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by Godmother(f): 8:37pm On Oct 20, 2009 |
Right behind you suscribing too |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by Nobody: 10:01pm On Oct 20, 2009 |
@ topic because thats how they'll handle their partners. |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by ChinenyeN(m): 11:28pm On Oct 20, 2009 |
. . aggression does not equal abuse. . . but, if you do indeed feel that the NL men are abusive, then ok, I guess. |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by Nobody: 1:26am On Oct 21, 2009 |
There are a thousand and one females on this board who have multiple orgasm dissing guys. |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by Nobody: 6:24am On Oct 21, 2009 |
Rosabelle:Lol cause you know you'll be causing it with ur generalized title. |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by adagz01(m): 8:06am On Oct 21, 2009 |
@poster,so u hav now finally decides 2 abuse d men in NL,i think u will hav a cup full of it, BICTH |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by ezeagu(m): 8:45am On Oct 21, 2009 |
tpia.: tpia has mouth to talk against abusive fire starters? |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by BabyJinx: 8:59am On Oct 21, 2009 |
NL men. . .Abusive?!! Well I never heard such a thing!! They are not abusive. . .just misunderstood. You know when they call women names, they are just trying to express their gentlemanliness. You gotta learn to read between the lines when it comes to this perfect creatures called NL Men. Next time one of 'em calls you a LovePeddler or slut. . . reach out and give him a hug because what he's really saying "You remind me of my mama" When he calls you a slutty desperate and frustrated girl, what he's means is "You are almost at my sister's level but she's light years ahead of you" See, understanding is the key, it is what makes the world go round. Now let peace reign!! |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by netotse(m): 10:39am On Oct 21, 2009 |
Baby Jinx: you are mean o!. . .lol @OP you too u hv mouth o, first time we "met" you were saying or implying (cant rem which) that all naija men are badly brought up! |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by Rosabelle(f): 11:02am On Oct 21, 2009 |
adagz 01: netotse: |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by ChinenyeN(m): 2:19pm On Oct 21, 2009 |
So, she was biased from the beginning. . . I see. |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by Nobody: 4:49pm On Oct 21, 2009 |
There are a thousand and one females on this board who have multiple orgasm dissing guys. |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by agathamari(f): 4:53pm On Oct 21, 2009 |
tpia.:agreed |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by sexyLeamon(f): 4:54pm On Oct 21, 2009 |
I so agree with the poster menh I do not get it either |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by ChinenyeN(m): 5:08pm On Oct 21, 2009 |
Then what are you women doing besides complaining? Abi, boycott NL & Nigerian men. Or better yet, boycott all men. Is that so hard? Sheesh. |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by chic2pimp(m): 11:02pm On Oct 21, 2009 |
ChinenyeN: |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by ritaNL: 11:03pm On Oct 21, 2009 |
We are not abusive you this |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by Hauwa1: 1:01am On Oct 22, 2009 |
stress due to their jobs and striking uni lecturer. some are hungry by the time they go to internet cafe. an hungry man is and angry man |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by ezeagu(m): 1:09am On Oct 22, 2009 |
*Hauwa*: Most nairalanders are from the US and UK. |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by Rosabelle(f): 7:04am On Oct 22, 2009 |
ezeagu:Not true. Most NLanders are from Lagos. You only have to check the way they abuse people. Its only lagosians I know in the whole of nigerian (and I dont mean yorubas', but basically people in lagos) that abuse people without break cos that place is crude and errodes all finery a human being can have |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by davidif: 8:44am On Oct 22, 2009 |
Rosabelle: I LOVE YOU. |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by ezeagu(m): 10:42am On Oct 22, 2009 |
Because they have abusive mothers. . . . |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by sweetpie23: 10:49am On Oct 22, 2009 |
ezeagu:fool |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by ezeagu(m): 10:50am On Oct 22, 2009 |
sweetpie23: You see. |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by throttler(f): 11:08am On Oct 22, 2009 |
though it wont be fair to generalize, because they are hidden behind their computers, and wont be normally brutish face-to-face. because some get a kick from kicking others. because, they know why really, |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by netotse(m): 2:16pm On Oct 22, 2009 |
Rosabelle:i'm a lagosian by the standards you listed i dont think i go about abusing people. . . |
Re: Why Are The Men On NL (or In Nigeria) So Abusive? by Rosabelle(f): 2:50pm On Oct 22, 2009 |
I generalised. Sure I know there are people who dont go round abusing. But one day in lagos traffic will tell you what I mean |
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