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How To Improve Your Next Relationship While Still Single by izuagbala: 7:21pm On Oct 25, 2016
We’ve all been in a relationship that seems doomed. Maybe one person gives everything they have while the other just tries to take everything that they can. Perhaps both partners just stopped trying. Either way, there IS hope for those single Pringles to better themselves and better the quality of their love lives. Here are a few ways to improve your next relationship.


**Instead of obsessing over your ex’s flaws, evaluate your own.
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Most people only see their partner’s flaws and unintentionally neglect their own. This seems harmless; however it can result in bickering and one or both partners becoming dissatisfied.

Remember in high school when the teacher asked us to grade ourselves? And in job interviews and evaluations, we are consistently asked to point out weaknesses and other “areas of opportunity.” The reason for this is because unless asked to do so, humans are typically reluctant to search internally for problems when faced with adversity.

Hopefully you’re not reading this and giving yourself all “A”s — try to honestly and humbly reflect and consider your partner’s complaints, and determine the validity of those concerns. When we accept our shortcomings, we are far more likely to seek improvement than when our partner (or boss or teacher) conjures a moment of reflection.

**Figure out why you want a partner and what you hope to get out of a relationship.**

Everyone has their personal reasons for wanting a partner. Many seek emotional fulfillment, while others desire fulfillment physically. Some are simply afraid of being alone; they allow their definition of worth to be dictated by whether or not they have a significant other. Contrarily, some people simply find a partner for personal gain.

Whatever your need(s) are for a partner, it’s important to know them prior to entering a relationship. How can you expect a fruitful partnership if your definition of success has yet to be define? Utilize time in between relationships to determine what you like and don’t like and where your areas of opportunity lie. If you can’t figure them out for yourself, you can reach out to an ex and ask for them to candidly outline some for you.
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Re: How To Improve Your Next Relationship While Still Single by 2000viewsNg(m): 7:25pm On Oct 25, 2016
Love unlike every other words is over used and mostly used when you want to get something, however keeping romantic expression real, you have to be sure you are ready to dig deep.
Re: How To Improve Your Next Relationship While Still Single by Neimar: 7:28pm On Oct 25, 2016
love sucks
Re: How To Improve Your Next Relationship While Still Single by Jenny1010(f): 7:32pm On Oct 25, 2016
i stand with cucumber grin
Re: How To Improve Your Next Relationship While Still Single by Nobody: 9:26pm On Oct 25, 2016
no one really loves anyone that is not their parent or sibling..not even a wife or girlfriend.. no matter how much you deceive yourself to try..there is always a hidden agenda

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