There is a worrying trend going on in the country today especially for couples what is it?

It is the known fact that women (married) are living longer on earth than their male counterpart in the eastern part of Nigeria today. If you go to most villages in the East (Delta,Anambra, Enugu, Abia, Ebonyi) to mention a few, you will appreciate this.

Most women are widows, some very aged, is it that this men are very volatile or that the quality of men of our time is very weak and highly susceptible to timely exit from this earth.

Dear NL, there is no war in country that one can attribute that fact to. Pls has anyone observed this? and what can we do?

First, Is not peculiar to a particular location (may be you reside in the East). Secondly, the fact that you didn't back it up with some clear and good logical sense, common sense will give true answer to this.
Most men got married to woman they are older than. For Example a man of 35 years marrying a girl of 22, 20 or 18 year, biologically, you won't expect them to old or die at the same time.

Perfect, mrperfect, you are getting nearer

@poster,
You are very wrong,very wrong,its fallacy,have you been to south-south,places like cross river state,akwa ibom,rivers state e.t.c