Viking007:
Truth be told , e dey pain. My ex named her first son after me. Tho I doubt if the husband is aware.

But will I condone such behavior? NO. It is very disrespectful. Me think she should just have a heart-to-heart talk with the husband. Let him know it's not fair & it's hurts.

Divorce? That's way too early.

Loisemm:
Let her call her child by the name she desires. She is the mother and most times, the names our mother call us will stick more. Everyone will know us by that name. The other (Adaobi) may only be used for school records.
Its painful but in my opinion its not enough reason to quit the marriage yet. So if they ask her, she will say I walked out cos he named my child after his ex...
Ppl will shake their head at her.

Didnt she know he still loved his ex b4 accepting to marry him. Why is she complaining now? She should continue the way she started and work towards making her man love her more if she feels otherwise. Its possible he will forget the other lady with time and care but the man no try sha. When you marry, you should forsake all others and face your own. His ex is even married. Her husband should be flogged.

truthsayer007:


That your Ex must have been really Dickmatized by you

truthsayer007:

That your Ex must have been really Dickmatized by you

ifyalways:
Some battles are not worth starting much more fighting. How did your sister arrive the conclusion that the hubby named their daughter after an ex? Is it your sister's insecurities disturbing her

If the child is their first child or female daughter, the likelihood of her being named an Ada-something is 95%. Your sister should chill abeg. Some people like giving themselves unnecessary headache sha.

general111:
Did her husband tell her that he christened his daughter adaobi because of his unforgettable ex?even if he did, she shouldn't quit her marriage.she should try to make him love her more becos,if he married her,it means he also has love for her,even though it may not be like the one he had for his ex.

suraaj:
she should not jump to conclusion biko because such would have happen in my marriage too not because of the love of my ex but because I naturally fall in love with the name itself.but for now I have four BOYS but still waiting for a girl to name with the name.