DarkRebel101:
Because there are no expectations and commitments.

Because forbidden romance is hotter than newly-cooked yam just leaving the belly of a pot.

Because will-o'-the-wisps are usually more attractive than women you can easily score.

Because since a married woman has already been won by someone else, snatching her from her husband gives a sense of superiority.

Because some men are into some sort of cuckolding fetish.

Because married women are likely to have more experience in sex, are most self-possessed, are less likely to have inferiority complex, and are more comfortable in their own skin.

Because since they are mature, they are likely to play good in a hush-hush game of affair.

Because men have evolved to chasers and have come to love competition. It is why a man would take longer than normal to orgäsm when he is having a threesöme -- a threesöme featuring him, another man, and a woman.
In his subconscious mind and in that of the other man, they are in an unspoken competition and would do their best to impress the woman sexually, thus forbearing cümming for as long as humanly possible.

Pdizzle:

Major key: Married women = Zero maintenance. In most cases.

Amelian:
Op so what are we meant to do with this your analysis of a Married woman?
Exactly for what purpose?

nairalanddss:

In fact, in many surveys, men openly declared
that they had a crush on a married neighbour
or a married female colleague in the office.
Men are drawn towards the married woman
more because of many reasons. Though men
seldom dare to approach married women to
start a relationship, they do dream of such
things inside their minds without expressing it
out.Here are some reasons behind married
women are more attractive.

reasons behind married women are more
attractive are:


1.Married Women Carry An Air Of Confidence:
Compared to single women who are not yet
into dating, married women appear to be more
confident. That confidence itself makes them
look attractive.


2.They Know What Men Want: As married
women are already experienced, they tend to
know a lot about men’s psychology and their
emotional needs. So, they can quickly assess
a man and develop a rapport.

3.They Are More Comfortable With
Themselves: As a woman goes through
several phases, she gradually starts feeling
comfortable in her own skin. Her inhibitions
will drop a bit. Her inferiority complex will
fade out. As she ages, she will start realising
her own potential in many areas of life and
that itself makes her look more beautiful.


4.They Don’t Show Any Sign Of Insecurity:
Unlike young girls who throw immature
tantrums, married women come across as
focused people and they display a sense of
security which brings grace to their
personality.


5.They Are Unattainable: The fact that they
are unattainable makes them look more
beautiful. Yes, men develop more interest on
impossible targets compared to what’s easily
available.


6.Certainly They Aren’t Skinny: The best thing
is the fact that most of the married women
aren’t skinny. Slim women are okay,
voluptuous women are good but super skinny
women devoid of curves can’t excite men.
Only the modeling industry believes in such
illusions.


7.They Are Straight Forward: Married women
tend to be straight forward in their
conversations as they are matured and know
how to put across their point efficiently. That
makes it a pleasure to discuss any topic with
them.


8.Motherly Care+Feminine Beauty= Married
Women: A married woman has played both
the roles. She knows how to entice a man with
her charms and at the same time, she also
knows how to take care of a man (or even
children) like a caring figure. This
combination is deadly. In fact, a woman who
knows only to seduce is inadequate. Unless a
woman wakes up to the caring side in her, she
isn’t a complete woman according to some
men. Married women are complete.

these are the reasons behind married women
are more attractive.

http://www.jeloser.info/2016/11/reasons-behind-married-women-are-more_74.htmls


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missjo:

I'm still thinking about the motivations for this, almost like making excuses for chasing married women like it's supposed to be a good thing.

Amelian:




I wonder too, all these Fucvk bois that won't allow even the married women to rest.. Smhhh. Thinking se3x is all there is to life..

PaperLace:
All this is story.
The major reason why some men, especially the younger ones chase after married women is Zero Maintenance!

There is a limit to what you can give and what she can collect in order not to arouse her husband's suspicions.

missjo:

And may I add, such guys usually are the ones on the receiving end of gifts and cash.
It's a hussle

PaperLace:

Gbam!
If you say you don't have, they'll expect you to collect from your husband and give them sef.

Serious f>ck boys.

PaperLace:
All this is story.
The major reason why some men, especially the younger ones chase after married women is Zero Maintenance!

There is a limit to what you can give and what she can collect in order not to arouse her husband's suspicions.

DarkRebel101:


You're wrong! That's not the core reason.
Carry out a poll on Nairaland and ask all the men why they would shoot for a married woman.

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So now you know how men feel but the other day you didn't believe men can know how women feel. Interesting.

PaperLace:


I am not in the mood for banters.
The 'other day' was on breastfeeding_ I have first hand experience on that, you don't.

This is on men chasing after married women, I am married_ I get those advances on the regular_ still first hand experience

I am speaking from the female point of view.
Talk your own and ....

DarkRebel101:


Agreed. Do you also have first-hand experience on why men chase married women? Have you chased a married woman to know what drives the men that do? Have you had an extramarital affair before?



You got married recently -- about last year or so, and look considerably young, the guys probably made advances not knowing you were married.

And getting advances is not the same as actually being involved with men outside your marriage. Did you sit those who made passes at you and ask them why they did so, knowing that you're married? If you didn't then you have no first-hand experience.



I already did. I was only casting a sepia tone on the nonsense you wrote on that breastfeeding thread.

PaperLace:

I don't need to sit them down to know

neither did I rule out the points the OP listed, I added an extra one_ which to me applies to some guys.

Do I need to be a man before I know the tip of his dick gets lotsa sensation? :

You don't know when I got married, you can't even guess. If I tell you, you won't even believe.

Na you write nonsense o, with that your penis-feeding.
Come to think of it, why do most of these men go after the married women that are well taken care of?
Without sounding immodest, why not gate men and bricklayers wives? I guess those ones are not confident and all the points listed here...

DarkRebel101:


So how did you know?

“Which to me” sounds arbitrary. You still haven't proven how you know what you say you know nor have you stated a valid first-hand experience.

Relevance?

You got married between 2014–2016. Deny it all you want. You only deactivated your former account because of your newly-acquired marital status.

It is for the same reason most girls/women go after rich married men rather than poor married men. Everyone loves financial security.

PaperLace:


Your last paragraph sums it all up.
At least you've finally agreed some of them hit on married women for the same reason I listed.

You're smart, very smart_ but the only thing Nairaland knows about me, is that which I want out.
I actually laughed reading that...lols

DarkRebel101:


Don't get me wrong, I never said your reason was wrong, I was only gibing you when I asked why you think you can tell what drives men to chase married women, yet asserted few weeks ago that men cannot talk about women affairs.
If you laughed it's only because my comment was spritzed with the scents of truth.
At least you didn't repudiate it.

PaperLace:

Okay then,once again we're in consensus.

Nah, it's actually very wrong. I just didn't see the need to repudiate or elucidate.
I rather plead the fifth

5minsmadness:
Disgusting thread. Encouraging men to chase after married women.
Feminists wont see this and protest o. Them be preening their feathers enjoying the attention.

This thread has dubious purpose.

Mods, take this thread down

DarkRebel101:


Even if I was right, you wouldn't admit it.

You don't look like you've been married for long sha. Unless Photoshop can now make people look younger.

...

The US constitution doesn't apply on Nigerian soil. Sorry.

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PaperLace:

Long is subjective...
Maybe photoshop, maybe I married when I was 18, maybe I look 'younger'.

Trust me, you were wrong.

Help us to tell homeboys to leave married women alone.

5minsmadness:
Oh for goodness sake. Ewww.